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Any advice on doing well with hot blondes or "bimbos" here in the USA.

Indian Race Troll (IRT)

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I have managed to do well with white girls over the past few months and though it is just a hair color, what I am noticing is that brunettes and redheads are a lot more receptive to me than blondes are. Whenever I go to a party or social event, the brunette (or redhead) are usually chatting with me for a longer time, sticking around for a longer time, being more receptive to me, and sometimes even approaching me rather than having me approach them. I have found that brunettes are generally more approachable and receptive to me, they also give me tons of IOIs. Redheads give me a lot more IOIs and some make it pretty clear that they are interested in me.

The problem I have is with blondes, especially if they are hot or good looking. Most of the times I find that they are not only less receptive but they also play more games. Historically, I have done poorly with blondes and it seems like along with asian women, that is the one demographic of women a lot of guys have a tough time getting. We are also talking about the demographic of women that drove Eliot Rodgers to insanity as well. TBH, I have rarely met a good looking blonde who was also a cool or kind person.

So here I am at a Starbucks where in the past I have seen so many hot blondes with UGG boots, yoga pants, and pretty faces. Now race also matters and I am not a white guy either so I know to a small extent I have that working against me though most brunettes and gingers I meet are not that against going for me.
 
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I have talked about this in depth on other threads too and the fact of the matter is that blondes generally have much larger egos than all other kinds of women out there. American society places blondes on a massive pedestal and many of these women let that get to their head which results in what you are seeing. Just by observing certain things, I always notice that these blonde bombshells a lot of asian guys are crazy for almost exclusively go for high quality girls no matter what race. You won't find a blonde bombshell with an average asian dude but they will date a Jeremy Lin, Sanjay Gupta, Zayn Malik, Avan Jogia, or Bi Rain. When you are out at social events, what you are seeing is that these blonde bombshells are hunting. These women are looking around and evaluating different kinds of guys and blondes do this much more than any other kind of women out there.

So the question you need to be asking and doing research on is what can a guy do to have success with women that have almost everyone after them and have been told their whole lives that they are amazing?
 
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