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I have managed to do well with white girls over the past few months and though it is just a hair color, what I am noticing is that brunettes and redheads are a lot more receptive to me than blondes are. Whenever I go to a party or social event, the brunette (or redhead) are usually chatting with me for a longer time, sticking around for a longer time, being more receptive to me, and sometimes even approaching me rather than having me approach them. I have found that brunettes are generally more approachable and receptive to me, they also give me tons of IOIs. Redheads give me a lot more IOIs and some make it pretty clear that they are interested in me.
The problem I have is with blondes, especially if they are hot or good looking. Most of the times I find that they are not only less receptive but they also play more games. Historically, I have done poorly with blondes and it seems like along with asian women, that is the one demographic of women a lot of guys have a tough time getting. We are also talking about the demographic of women that drove Eliot Rodgers to insanity as well. TBH, I have rarely met a good looking blonde who was also a cool or kind person.
So here I am at a Starbucks where in the past I have seen so many hot blondes with UGG boots, yoga pants, and pretty faces. Now race also matters and I am not a white guy either so I know to a small extent I have that working against me though most brunettes and gingers I meet are not that against going for me.
The problem I have is with blondes, especially if they are hot or good looking. Most of the times I find that they are not only less receptive but they also play more games. Historically, I have done poorly with blondes and it seems like along with asian women, that is the one demographic of women a lot of guys have a tough time getting. We are also talking about the demographic of women that drove Eliot Rodgers to insanity as well. TBH, I have rarely met a good looking blonde who was also a cool or kind person.
So here I am at a Starbucks where in the past I have seen so many hot blondes with UGG boots, yoga pants, and pretty faces. Now race also matters and I am not a white guy either so I know to a small extent I have that working against me though most brunettes and gingers I meet are not that against going for me.