Any Good Sex Technique Resources?

[Linguinator]

Meanwhile almost every time I want to sleep with my wife... I can say in my youth it didnt happened but as I got older It got harder for me to get chicks and so I lowered my standard lookwise. In this time I always got hard and had only problems getting an orgamsn.

Now years later with my wife we tried a lot. And also I had orgasmns with her but only sometimes. most times I didnt get one.
I think because of the many fail attempts I'm just got demotivated and expect a negative outcome. that sets me under pressure and very self concious.

What do I think? thoughts like "oh no its getting small again", "it wont work out", "it must work" "Why the fuck isnt it working"....

Most of the time I'm getting pissed, angry or I try to ignore the problem and go back to watch tv or instantly go to sleep..

My wife is very understanding and tries to comfort me.

Im 33 at the moment. I'm feeling good and healthy but the truth is that I'm a bit overweight and I take fluoxetin and reagil. Also i think im porn addicted. My doctor found out that i have a Lack of Testosteron but the gel he gave me made me very angry so I stopped taking it. And sports is a hate job for me. I know I need to Do more sports... Nevertheless with porn I can come 3 Times a Day in 5 Minute...

Dude dude dude.

I haven't read every response, but "hey_lover" nailed it. If you're doing porn and jerking off, that's probably 80% to 90% of your problem right there. Stop that shit NOW. Watching porn and jerking off is for 13-year-olds -- not for adult men and especially not for married men.

STOP THAT SHIT NOW.

If you need to jerk off, HAVE YOUR WIFE JERK YOU OFF. That's why she's there, fer Pete's sake. Is it just me or does a woman's hand on one's cock always feel better than your own ? Get her to where she'll drop everything and give you a handjob at a moment's notice. Tell her that it's part of your therapy for becoming more orgasmic with her -- which is the truth. In fact here's your new rule: you are never to have an orgasm unless YOUR WIFE is the one doing it.

Get rid of every bit of porn you have on your computer/phone, and cancel any and all of your porn accounts on the internet. Get that shit out of your life and out of your mind. FFS.

Also, Fluoxetin, or Prozac, and other SSRI's, CAN INHIBIT ORGASM. If you're taking TWO psychotropic drugs, it's a wonder that you can have an orgasm at all. Exactly how bad do you need to be on Prozac ? And the Reagila ?

Dude. The only thing you HAVEN'T done to prevent yourself from having an orgasm is smash the head of your schwantz with a hammer. I don't recommend that. But if you want to have a normal sex life with a woman, instead of with two-dimensional strangers on a screen and your own hand, you're going to have to make some serious changes. Let's review --

Axe the porn.

Axe the masturbation.

Only your wife brings you to orgasm.

Get off of the psychotropics for a 60-day trial to see what happens with your sex life -- as long as your doctor agrees. And this 60-day trial should be at least 60 days AFTER you axed the porn and the masturbation so that your sexual mind can normalize to some degree.

Good luck.

--- Linguinator

 

[Linguinator]

What are some good sex technique resources such as books, blogs, youtube channels, etc?

Send me an email and I'll send you a few audio clips that David Shade uses for promotion. Then hold onto your ass because you're not going to believe how powerful his techniques are. herbertificus@yahoo.com

--- Linguinator

 

[Regal Tiger]

I bought one of David Shades books but from what I can gather from here and there, it sounds like basic hypnotic command/trance kinda stuff. Which I will agree with, you don't need a year plus to do some fun stuff. You can start it on date 1.

But to get to some of the other stuff mentioned on here "cum now" for example would take at least some training. I've never thought to do something like that, but the next girlfriend I get I'll give it a shot.