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Day Game Blueprint for Beginners
Step 1: The Opener
- Best opener: Indirect
- Example: asking about her clothes, the situation, or something in the environment.
- This is different from a direct or paying someone a direct compliment like saying you're pretty you're beautiful.
- Second best: Direct
- Example: “I just saw you over here and thought you were hot.”
- This shows immediate attraction but usually gets a lower response rate.
- Example: “I just saw you over here and thought you were hot.”
Step 2: Introduction
- Introduce yourself with your name first, then get hers.
- Go for a handshake while introducing yourself.
- I’m new at this, but I’m practicing keeping the handshake while still talking — holding her hand from the bottom, like the old medieval style.
- I’m new at this, but I’m practicing keeping the handshake while still talking — holding her hand from the bottom, like the old medieval style.
- The handshake is the earliest form of compliance and feels natural to most people.
- After the handshake, stand at a comfortable, natural distance.
- (I also know there’s something about body angles — like how you face her, or if she’s facing you — but I don’t fully know that part yet.)
Step 3: Build Conversation
Here’s the order I think works best:- Tease her
- Use small talk (simple questions like “So what do you do?”)
- Make educated guesses (cold reads)
- I put small talk before cold reads because you usually need some information first before making a good guess.
- During this conversation, you can also add in small compliance requests.
Step 4: Ask for Compliance (optional / can be skipped)
This step is harder for me right now.- Examples:
- “Let’s step over here for a second.”
- “Hey, move with me real quick.”
- “Let’s step over here for a second.”
- Usually, when I approach, I just walk beside them without asking — this is something I want to improve.
Step 5: Hold the Frame
Holding frame is tricky, but here’s how I understand it:- Don’t chase her.
- Make her invest in chasing you.
Step 6: Get Contact Information
- Best option: grab her number.
- Second best: social media (less reliable).
- If you get the number, the chance of seeing her again is higher.
Example line I use:
- “We should hang out — let me grab your number.”
- Key phrases: “Let me grab your number” or “I’ll take your number.”
Putting It All Together
The flow should look like this:- Opener
- Ask for compliance (handshake)
- Teasing → if she teases back, that’s banter i think not for sure
- Small talk
- Cold reads
- Compliance requests
- Grab the number
Notes
- If anyone sees mistakes or has tips, please reply.
- Next step: build stronger transitions into compliance and holding frame.
- Once I have these steps down, I’ll move on to night game (I’ll make a separate post for that).
- Since I’m in a college town, it’s a good environment to practice. My goal is to get a good understanding of the day game first so it transfers into night game.
- Current progress: I can walk up, start small talk, and keep it going for a bit, but I usually lose it after that. When that happens, I just say goodbye and eject from the conversation or go for a phone number. But if I'm not really feeling it I just ask for Instagram.
- Teasing
- Transitioning from small talk into cold reading, and learning how to perform cold reads properly
- Handshake style — I need clarification here.
I’m thinking about making a separate post on the forum to see what everyone thinks before I actually do anything, but I wanted to throw the idea out here first.
I see if I can like it and the nightgames in here.
