Are most women unfaithful?

[Rancorous]

Does having a boyfriend or a husband mean anything anymore?

I've hooked up with so many so called "taken" women I don't think it matters anymore.

I don't feel bad for them or me. I'm just saying.

 

[James D]

Classic bias.

Switch samples, change environments.

It's as if you go to Amsterdam and only go to the Red Light District and conclude that "women in Amsterdam are ALL prostitutes! are there even non-prostitutes in this city??"

 

[Rancorous]

Classic bias.

Switch samples, change environments.

It's as if you go to Amsterdam and only go to the Red Light District and conclude that "women in Amsterdam are ALL prostitutes! are there even non-prostitutes in this city??"

I'm not saying ALL women are unfaithful. But the ones I see out at the bars certainly seem to be.

 

[James D]

I'm not saying ALL women are unfaithful. But the ones I see out at the bars certainly seem to be.

That's because you're going to a place where the majority of women going there are open to something sexual happening.

That's the sample you're dealing with.

Women 100% faithful to their husbands won't be hanging out in bars and clubs and make themselves available to advances.

 

[Rancorous]

That's because you're going to a place where the majority of women going there are open to something sexual happening.

That's the sample you're dealing with.

Women 100% faithful to their husbands won't be hanging out in bars and clubs and make themselves available to advances.

I guess they'd why I like to go there.

 

[Rancorous]

That's because you're going to a place where the majority of women going there are open to something sexual happening.

That's the sample you're dealing with.

Women 100% faithful to their husbands won't be hanging out in bars and clubs and make themselves available to advances.

I guess that's why I like to go there.

 

[James D]

Yeah man, your experiences are skewed by your biased sample.

There are loyal women out there.

But I'm not gonna try convince you, except for inviting you to consider that maybe you're dealing with statistical bias (which can genuinely happen to anyone)

If you opened this threat to bitch and moan about how you'll never find a loyal woman, then that's a pass for me.

I'm sure you can find more productive things to do.

 

[Will_V]

Does having a boyfriend or a husband mean anything anymore?

I've hooked up with so many so called "taken" women I don't think it matters anymore.

I don't feel bad for them or me. I'm just saying.

Yeah, if girls are going out to bars alone or with other girls and entertaining approaches, then they are on the market.

Girls know what it means to be on the market vs off it. I had a conversation with a woman not long ago who asked me very curiously why I approached her on the street because she hadn't made herself appear available at all - minimal makeup, non-revealing clothes, closed posture, no approach signals. She had been a party girl at one point and she knew what she was doing when it came to signalling men. She was a very fascinating and intelligent woman, we spoke for like 40 minutes, she said she was taken but told me "why couldn't I have met you earlier" lol, toward the end I got the idea she would have been down for something.

The point is that women know when they are placing themselves in the 'line of fire' and when they aren't. A faithful woman doesn't put herself in places where she could be tempted easily. And also we seducers tend to become biased toward women displaying signals of sexual openness and lack of inhibition or self control, because we know that that's where the trail is hot.

 

[D. Gately]

I agree with the senior members above.

For the college girls I was dating, I didn't care whether they were or not, I didn't ask, sometimes they said they would be, but I figured out a way to tell [in my mind] that I think was correct:

Girls who were overall *busy* and were coming to see me 1-2x a week were likely to be monogamous.

Example -- This super-sexy girl Chloe, 19, junior at a very selective school. She's in a sorority, that's one weekend night a week gone off the bat. She's studying at the library in her room 3-5x nights a week. Oh, she also did track & field [not D1 but still]. Plus regular hanging out with female friends. And she was president of some club too.

Our relationship used the rest of her time, essentially. She had one 'free slot' left and I filled it, no pun intended. That's certainly not to say she couldn't find an hour somewhere to have sex with a new guy, but my personal experience is these well-organized girls were looking for one guy they could go off-campus and fuck 2-3x on a Saturday/Etc night and also be taken out for drinks/dinner. They're not looking for some new dick on campus, if that's what they wanted they wouldn't be using up all their spare time on a guy more than 2x her age. JMHO.

I also think smart girls realize the more they invest, the more we invest in them, and the better the relationship is. Also, some of these girls will just ghost you so they can sleep with a new guy, they're serially monog.

Another topic around this we've spoken about here is women who you can tell aren't used to being touched by men, are probably inexperienced and less likely to cheat. Your low N girls.

 

[Skills]

Does having a boyfriend or a husband mean anything anymore?

I've hooked up with so many so called "taken" women I don't think it matters anymore.

I don't feel bad for them or me. I'm just saying.

those taken women are in the "boredom" stages and "roomate" stages or "checking out stages" not all women cheat, but every women can cheat... the girls that are you meeting are women that would cheat...

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The 3 "I have a boyfriend" scenarios

1.- She really has a boyfriend and will not cheat.- This is a girl that has a boyfriend and is really happy and invested with the boyfriend, she is not really going to cheat on him ever or will not cheat (at least in this stage of a relationship, some women can cheat at final stages of a bad...

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[Teevster]

Does having a boyfriend or a husband mean anything anymore?

I've hooked up with so many so called "taken" women I don't think it matters anymore.

I don't feel bad for them or me. I'm just saying.

The “status” of being in a relationship means nothing. What matters is how much she respects and likes you.

You can’t “moralize” a woman into being faithful anymore. That stopped once women became independent of men.

Personally, I usually avoid women with boyfriends—partly to steer clear of hassle and drama, and partly out of pity for the guy.

But let’s be real: being in a relationship or married doesn’t mean much today. And this isn’t even new. It’s been like this since at least the 2000s (if not earlier).

Monogamy is only temporary - but it can last for a good amount of time. However the passion eventually fades, and when it does, she might stay in a comfort-relationship—but the devotion is gone. The longer it drags on, the more likely she is to cheat.

In other words, you can be periodically monogamous. Now how long this lasts depends on many factors - who she is, her socio-cultural background, her current situation... and of course you, who you are - and more importantly how well you manage the relationship. But make no mistake, all relationships die.

Institutionalized monogamy (and the moralization that comes with it) is a patriarchal construct, rooted in male virtues. Pre-patriarchal (matriarchal) tribal societies were almost never monogamous.

(And just to be clear: when I mention patriarchy and matriarchy, I’m not using the politicized definitions. I mean the original ones—patriarchy meaning inheritance through the father, and matriarchy meaning inheritance through the mother.)

-Teevster

 

[mirror]

Women 100% faithful to their husbands won't be hanging out in bars and clubs and make themselves available to advances.

This. Or at least not alone without others to shield them from advances.

I think women, just like men, can be found in all shapes, sizes and persons.
So some will be faithful and others less. Just a sad fact.