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I don’t know how to write this without sounding as needy, bitter, blamer and complainer. My main problem with women is that literally no one wants me no matter what I do. I tried with different types of girls including ugly and needy and even they aren’t interested in me. Drop that filled the glass and made me to write this is when I was rejected from some ugly, super needy girl on vacation after conversation that included flirting, deep diving and every other tech I know with standard ”I am busy” excuse.
On paper everything is OK with my fundamentals, vibe and game but in practice no one girl is really interested in me. If fact I am typical ”perfect on paper guy” with everything allegedly needed to attract the girl but in practice it is far from that.
Like I was born undesirable as someone was born sick and there is no cure for that. Even advices I give to other men work for them but nothing works for me.
Simply my fundamentals and vibe don’t fascinate women and more they know me the less interested they are. There is something in me that women generally don’t like and thus don’t want anything with me.
I am hard working, high-principled, ambitious man with warm attitude toward people. Look masculine and sexy (with moderately masculine and sexy vibe). Do a lot of things in my life. I am not insecure, complex, etc. I had anxiety disorder in high school but I am cured now completely and don’t have any consequences. Have many friends in life from different countries. Due to my problem with fundamentals, my game is often misattributed as unproductive, so:
Deep diving puts me into friend zone as boring, too serious, etc. or as such a good friend
Flirting and teasing girls puts me as entertainer instead of strong, bold guy. It also makes some girls combative.
Sex talk does sometimes make her curious and she just wishes why there is not some other guy to come after my sex talk to pick her up.
To sum up: girls of any type don’t like me, most of them because I am not their type and all of them because they simply don’t feel any spark around me. Maybe 1% of girls are interested but they see me as husband material and are those who ended up with hook ups and casual relationships. Since the moment we meet girls act as uninterested or neutral. Often they do talk with me, sometimes even auto-qualify but I am always rejected when time comes for escalation. One more thing: I am 29 and noticed that younger girls 18-19 really hate me. In fact I am less attractive to them now than when I was their age.
Did someone meet or worked with some of us ”unusual case of man where nothing works for him”? Or was someone in situation that can’t get girls to save his life and turned it around? I read some advice that if things don’t work someone should do opposite i.e. for example if he presents himself as warm guy with canned routines should switch to jerk and natural game. Could this be some solution?
On paper everything is OK with my fundamentals, vibe and game but in practice no one girl is really interested in me. If fact I am typical ”perfect on paper guy” with everything allegedly needed to attract the girl but in practice it is far from that.
Like I was born undesirable as someone was born sick and there is no cure for that. Even advices I give to other men work for them but nothing works for me.
Simply my fundamentals and vibe don’t fascinate women and more they know me the less interested they are. There is something in me that women generally don’t like and thus don’t want anything with me.
I am hard working, high-principled, ambitious man with warm attitude toward people. Look masculine and sexy (with moderately masculine and sexy vibe). Do a lot of things in my life. I am not insecure, complex, etc. I had anxiety disorder in high school but I am cured now completely and don’t have any consequences. Have many friends in life from different countries. Due to my problem with fundamentals, my game is often misattributed as unproductive, so:
Deep diving puts me into friend zone as boring, too serious, etc. or as such a good friend
Flirting and teasing girls puts me as entertainer instead of strong, bold guy. It also makes some girls combative.
Sex talk does sometimes make her curious and she just wishes why there is not some other guy to come after my sex talk to pick her up.
To sum up: girls of any type don’t like me, most of them because I am not their type and all of them because they simply don’t feel any spark around me. Maybe 1% of girls are interested but they see me as husband material and are those who ended up with hook ups and casual relationships. Since the moment we meet girls act as uninterested or neutral. Often they do talk with me, sometimes even auto-qualify but I am always rejected when time comes for escalation. One more thing: I am 29 and noticed that younger girls 18-19 really hate me. In fact I am less attractive to them now than when I was their age.
Did someone meet or worked with some of us ”unusual case of man where nothing works for him”? Or was someone in situation that can’t get girls to save his life and turned it around? I read some advice that if things don’t work someone should do opposite i.e. for example if he presents himself as warm guy with canned routines should switch to jerk and natural game. Could this be some solution?