Arousal- What If I Can't Find Any Rules To Break?

[James D]

Hey guys,

If you're familiar with One Date, you know about the SAC system to trigger chasing.

I think it's a perfect system and I've had some solid success adhering with the model.

Now I wanna make the "Arousal" part of my game more consistent, meaning I wanna be a more arousing person in general.

The times I've had success, there was usually a strong initial interest.

I've dug up One Date and revisted the "Arousal" part, which focusses on rule breaks.

There are numerous cool examples of rules breaks in different situations (I think in TDA module one).

The issue I face is sometimes I find myself in situations where I have no idea which rules to break.

For instance, I met an awesome girl on guided tour, and we took the ferry together and walked back to the dorms.

There used some light touch etc.

However, I was trying to come up with rule breaks, which is the strongest way to build arousal, and couldn't come up with anything.

Any suggestions anyone?

 

[Fuck This]

I'm assuming that means you demonstrate you are a rule breaker and not confined by the Rules of Society.

I've parked cattywampus in a parking spot and said "hey, that's how i mark my territory"

more often though I just Lead....

 

[Chase]

@James D,

If in doubt, do something childish to her:

• Flick her hair with your finger
  
  
• Give her a gentle, playful shove
  
  
• Put your finger on the tip of her nose and make a 'boop' sound with your mouth, then look away as if you were distracted by something
  
  
• Tell her, "Come here, stand on my feet," and have her put the fronts of her feet over top the fronts of yours. Then hold her hands and walk a few steps with her on your feet like that. When she laughs and asks you why, just tell her, "I wanted to move over here. I figured it'd be more fun if we did it together."
  
  
• Tell her, "Come here, I want to tell you a secret," and when she gets real close whisper, "You are a complete goober!" If she asks what a goober is, shrug, shake your head, and refuse to answer. If she presses, tell her, "YOU'RE a goober. That's what a goober is."
  
  
• Propose doing something together that is ridiculous in exchange for low amounts of money. e.g., see a homeless person on the street: "How much do you think we'd get if we grabbed a can and sat on the sidewalk like that right now?" See some guy washing windows on a scaffold: "We should go into business doing that together. I'll buy the scaffold, you do the window washing. Sound good?"

Etc.

Just pretend you're 12 years old and she is and suddenly you will have all kinds of rules to break.

Chase

 

[James D]

@James D,

If in doubt, do something childish to her:

• Flick her hair with your finger
  
  
• Give her a gentle, playful shove
  
  
• Put your finger on the tip of her nose and make a 'boop' sound with your mouth, then look away as if you were distracted by something
  
  
• Tell her, "Come here, stand on my feet," and have her put the fronts of her feet over top the fronts of yours. Then hold her hands and walk a few steps with her on your feet like that. When she laughs and asks you why, just tell her, "I wanted to move over here. I figured it'd be more fun if we did it together."
  
  
• Tell her, "Come here, I want to tell you a secret," and when she gets real close whisper, "You are a complete goober!" If she asks what a goober is, shrug, shake your head, and refuse to answer. If she presses, tell her, "YOU'RE a goober. That's what a goober is."
  
  
• Propose doing something together that is ridiculous in exchange for low amounts of money. e.g., see a homeless person on the street: "How much do you think we'd get if we grabbed a can and sat on the sidewalk like that right now?" See some guy washing windows on a scaffold: "We should go into business doing that together. I'll buy the scaffold, you do the window washing. Sound good?"

Etc.

Just pretend you're 12 years old and she is and suddenly you will have all kinds of rules to break.

Chase

Thanks for the reply!

All clear now