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Dudes! It's been a long time since I've been active on here, but I've kept active in the field, I've always enjoyed Halloween and this year it's came early. This is a 2 part LR with 2 LRs, the girl from pt. 2 was met first and played a part with pt. 1 so I felt it needed to be included.
Situation, Fashion, Venue
I was out with a couple of friends on Saturday night to watch a band in a town roughly an hour away, I wasn't staying over so didn't plan on being out too late and just checking out a few places after the band. To my surprise there were a few people at the gig dressed for Halloween and when the gig ended the were a few people in costumes walking around the town. It was a bit of a mix between normal clothes and costumes, I thought it was a little early for Halloween and with being out for a gig I was wearing black skinny jeans, a tight fitting black T-shirt, black canvas shoes and black leather bracelets.
We went to a bar that was a bit of a hybrid between a bar and a nightclub, they had loud music playing and some lights near the makeshift dancefloor, the rest of the bar had tables and chairs out. It was fairly busy with all the tables taken, groups of people standing and queues at the bar more like a night club than a bar.
Approached (Girl from Pt 2 (BD))
I wasn't planning on being in the field, I only went out to watch the band and catch up with my friends however there were some girls that caught my attention and old habits die hard. I locked eyes with a brunette when I was going up the stairs in the bar, she had long curly light brown hair, wearing a black dress, black boots and silver jewellery. After going to the "night club" part of the bar I went to the bar to get some drinks, while being served the brunette came over to the bar with her blonde friend and randomly told me how much her feet were hurting.
Girl: My feet are hurting me, it's the first time I've wore these boots
Flux: It's the first time you're wearing them? I'm not surprised your feet are hurting
Girl: it's the first time I'm wearing them
Flux: You should've broke them in first
Girl: I know, I should just take them off but I won't
Flux: They look good though, they work really well with your dress (touches forearm towards the wrist)
Girl: Thank you, I thought they were cute so I had to wear them
Blonde friend is looking at me, now making eye contact as if apologising for her friend
Flux: They do look good (touching side/hip)(looks to her friend) hi, (moves round the back of the brunette switching hands, leaving my hand on her lower back, positioning between the two girls (like a triangle) and touching the hip of the blonde girl, now talking to both girls) how's your night been?
I continued talking to both girls keeping them both included, moving back round the back of the brunette to get my drinks before exiting the set.
Flux: I'm heading back to my friends, enjoy your night girls
Social Proof / Part 1 Girl (SW)
I head back to my friends towards the edge of the makeshift dancefloor with the drinks, there's a group of girls on the dancefloor. They were dancing and having a good time, they seemed closed off and focused on partying with their friends, they appeared to occasionally look over. There was a darker brunette with her hair a few inches past her shoulders dressed like snow white with yellow ruffle shorts and a blue corset (SW). Despite knowing the odds weren't in my favour with the set up, I still wasn't planning on being in the field and was just having fun and talking to girls is fun.
The blonde and brunette (BD) from the bar were making their way onto the dancefloor and stood near the group of girls. After a few minutes the blonde looked over and smiled, the brunette looked over her should and smiled, I excused myself from my friends and walked over to the girls. We picked the conversation up and I pointed over to my friends telling them who I was with and twirled both girls dancing to the music. The other group of girls on the dancefloor bumped into my back a couple times, the first time the girl that bumped into me quickly turned round said sorry with a giggle before bouncing off. The girls I was with (BD) were going to the girls room so I told them I'd be with my friends, this helped fractionate the set and gave them a nudge to action of where they will find me when they come back.
BD Exit / Number close
Despite the bar being busy there was space on the makeshift dancefloor, the girls (BD) came back from the girls room and came straight up to me. This joined our groups and I introduced them to my friends. The girls really liked one of the songs that came on, I put my hands out for them and twirled them both before guiding them onto the dancefloor to dance with my friends coming with us.
We kept dancing on the dancefloor and having a good time, I fractionated between talking to my friends and the girls giving them freedom to talk and dance with themselves and be part of our newly made group. I half isolated the brunette (BD) while dancing which created a "its on" moment and I pulled her in and kissed her, I had my friends so her friend wasn't left on her own however I made a point to still include her to prevent her being on her own and getting bored. As the night went on they asked what our plans were, they originally wanted to go to another club but were calling it a night. This seemed like the perfect opportunity to go back with the girls if they wanted to extend the night but I couldn't think of a way to invite myself with them other than playfully saying "That sounds fun, I'll come with you", they both giggled, I didn't push it and took this as a high note to number close. I didn't have the logistics handled and didn't feel I had the time to work with this while they were leaving.
Approach Invitation / Approach / (SW)
We were looking to leave the club but I thought we might as well talk to the other group of girls before we leave, I had a gut feeling about it after seeing them looking over and bumping into me earlier. They were still positioned next to us on the dancefloor so we didn't have to move. I was near a girl from the group that was dressed like a cat when a song came on that she really liked, we made eye contact and were having fun with the song and moving closer to each other until we were shoulder to shoulder enjoying the music. I noticed SW looking over during the song and we made eye contact, she looked away sheepishly but kept looking back. Everything flowed seamlessly with how I was able to position myself round the cat, the cat seemed to drift to provide an opening, there was intense eye contact with SW, I extended my hand out, she took my hand creating a "its on" moment, without hesitation I pulled her in and we kissed, it formed a bubble between us. Either SW and the cat had talked previously or she knew I was SWs type.
The bubble was formed, but I was conscious not to let the cat pop it while she was still near. She seemed won over just by including her and enjoying the music that when I half isolated SW she went back to her friends leaving me and SW together.
Isolation, Failed extraction
I had half isolated SW on the dancefloor turning her back to her friends and keeping on the perimeter of their group so she wasn't too far away from them. The cat came to tell her that she was going to the girls room, and didn't take her with her, she felt her friend was safe and happy with me and SW clearly decided to stay. I didn't have great logistics but I thought this was an opportunity to seed an extraction and check her buying temperature as things were heating up between us. She couldn't hear me on the dancefloor, I lead her to the side so we could talk.
She quickly told me when we got to the side that if I'm looking for something to happen then she's not like that and that she can't leave without her friend. I remained unphased and told her that was cool, I wasn't looking for something to happen, she said she'd love to leave with me but she can't leave without her friend. This quickly changed from she's not like that to she'd love to leave with me. I stayed in set and went back to the dancefloor with her.
Leaving and Accommodation
The bar was starting to get quieter with people moving on to bigger night clubs, I suggested we left the bar and looked to go somewhere else to which she agreed and told the cat that we were looking to leave. I lead her outside, with both our groups of friends following. One of my friends was calling it a night and my other friend was looking to go to another bar, the girls were deciding whether they were going to go for food or to another club. The cat and SW didn't want to go to the club and were either going to go home or go to the other bar with me and my friend.
Her friends said their goodbyes and headed off leaving us to go towards the other bar. We got halfway to the bar and they decided they were going to go to their accommodation to use the girls room. They invited us with them and left us in the lobby while they used the downstairs girls room. When they came out they decided they weren't bothered going back out but we could go to the games room.
We went in for a while, SW and the cat were going to the girls room again where my friend excused himself. It was still rather early for a night out and I later found out he went to meet a girl he's been seeing. The cat decided she was going to go to bed, SW said she'd be going to bed but stayed to say bye. She dragged it out for a while waiting for the cat to go upstairs. After talking for a few minutes we decide to go back to the games room where I pulled her onto my lap.
Teasing, token resistance, escalation Ladder
She was still telling me that nothing was going to happen and that we can go on a date sometime. I kept telling her that was cool and kept touching her, holding her by her hips and running an escalation ladder. I kept moving up and down the escalation ladder teasing her with my touch until I was deeply kissing her and her entire body was shaking. She took a moment to compose herself while she told me it's not happening. I fractionated back to talking to her making her crave my touch before escalating again. She got to the point of no return and decided we could go to her room, she made a point of telling me nothing would happen. The snow melted when we got to her room
Situation, Fashion, Venue
I was out with a couple of friends on Saturday night to watch a band in a town roughly an hour away, I wasn't staying over so didn't plan on being out too late and just checking out a few places after the band. To my surprise there were a few people at the gig dressed for Halloween and when the gig ended the were a few people in costumes walking around the town. It was a bit of a mix between normal clothes and costumes, I thought it was a little early for Halloween and with being out for a gig I was wearing black skinny jeans, a tight fitting black T-shirt, black canvas shoes and black leather bracelets.
We went to a bar that was a bit of a hybrid between a bar and a nightclub, they had loud music playing and some lights near the makeshift dancefloor, the rest of the bar had tables and chairs out. It was fairly busy with all the tables taken, groups of people standing and queues at the bar more like a night club than a bar.
Approached (Girl from Pt 2 (BD))
I wasn't planning on being in the field, I only went out to watch the band and catch up with my friends however there were some girls that caught my attention and old habits die hard. I locked eyes with a brunette when I was going up the stairs in the bar, she had long curly light brown hair, wearing a black dress, black boots and silver jewellery. After going to the "night club" part of the bar I went to the bar to get some drinks, while being served the brunette came over to the bar with her blonde friend and randomly told me how much her feet were hurting.
Girl: My feet are hurting me, it's the first time I've wore these boots
Flux: It's the first time you're wearing them? I'm not surprised your feet are hurting
Girl: it's the first time I'm wearing them
Flux: You should've broke them in first
Girl: I know, I should just take them off but I won't
Flux: They look good though, they work really well with your dress (touches forearm towards the wrist)
Girl: Thank you, I thought they were cute so I had to wear them
Blonde friend is looking at me, now making eye contact as if apologising for her friend
Flux: They do look good (touching side/hip)(looks to her friend) hi, (moves round the back of the brunette switching hands, leaving my hand on her lower back, positioning between the two girls (like a triangle) and touching the hip of the blonde girl, now talking to both girls) how's your night been?
I continued talking to both girls keeping them both included, moving back round the back of the brunette to get my drinks before exiting the set.
Flux: I'm heading back to my friends, enjoy your night girls
Social Proof / Part 1 Girl (SW)
I head back to my friends towards the edge of the makeshift dancefloor with the drinks, there's a group of girls on the dancefloor. They were dancing and having a good time, they seemed closed off and focused on partying with their friends, they appeared to occasionally look over. There was a darker brunette with her hair a few inches past her shoulders dressed like snow white with yellow ruffle shorts and a blue corset (SW). Despite knowing the odds weren't in my favour with the set up, I still wasn't planning on being in the field and was just having fun and talking to girls is fun.
The blonde and brunette (BD) from the bar were making their way onto the dancefloor and stood near the group of girls. After a few minutes the blonde looked over and smiled, the brunette looked over her should and smiled, I excused myself from my friends and walked over to the girls. We picked the conversation up and I pointed over to my friends telling them who I was with and twirled both girls dancing to the music. The other group of girls on the dancefloor bumped into my back a couple times, the first time the girl that bumped into me quickly turned round said sorry with a giggle before bouncing off. The girls I was with (BD) were going to the girls room so I told them I'd be with my friends, this helped fractionate the set and gave them a nudge to action of where they will find me when they come back.
BD Exit / Number close
Despite the bar being busy there was space on the makeshift dancefloor, the girls (BD) came back from the girls room and came straight up to me. This joined our groups and I introduced them to my friends. The girls really liked one of the songs that came on, I put my hands out for them and twirled them both before guiding them onto the dancefloor to dance with my friends coming with us.
We kept dancing on the dancefloor and having a good time, I fractionated between talking to my friends and the girls giving them freedom to talk and dance with themselves and be part of our newly made group. I half isolated the brunette (BD) while dancing which created a "its on" moment and I pulled her in and kissed her, I had my friends so her friend wasn't left on her own however I made a point to still include her to prevent her being on her own and getting bored. As the night went on they asked what our plans were, they originally wanted to go to another club but were calling it a night. This seemed like the perfect opportunity to go back with the girls if they wanted to extend the night but I couldn't think of a way to invite myself with them other than playfully saying "That sounds fun, I'll come with you", they both giggled, I didn't push it and took this as a high note to number close. I didn't have the logistics handled and didn't feel I had the time to work with this while they were leaving.
Approach Invitation / Approach / (SW)
We were looking to leave the club but I thought we might as well talk to the other group of girls before we leave, I had a gut feeling about it after seeing them looking over and bumping into me earlier. They were still positioned next to us on the dancefloor so we didn't have to move. I was near a girl from the group that was dressed like a cat when a song came on that she really liked, we made eye contact and were having fun with the song and moving closer to each other until we were shoulder to shoulder enjoying the music. I noticed SW looking over during the song and we made eye contact, she looked away sheepishly but kept looking back. Everything flowed seamlessly with how I was able to position myself round the cat, the cat seemed to drift to provide an opening, there was intense eye contact with SW, I extended my hand out, she took my hand creating a "its on" moment, without hesitation I pulled her in and we kissed, it formed a bubble between us. Either SW and the cat had talked previously or she knew I was SWs type.
The bubble was formed, but I was conscious not to let the cat pop it while she was still near. She seemed won over just by including her and enjoying the music that when I half isolated SW she went back to her friends leaving me and SW together.
Isolation, Failed extraction
I had half isolated SW on the dancefloor turning her back to her friends and keeping on the perimeter of their group so she wasn't too far away from them. The cat came to tell her that she was going to the girls room, and didn't take her with her, she felt her friend was safe and happy with me and SW clearly decided to stay. I didn't have great logistics but I thought this was an opportunity to seed an extraction and check her buying temperature as things were heating up between us. She couldn't hear me on the dancefloor, I lead her to the side so we could talk.
She quickly told me when we got to the side that if I'm looking for something to happen then she's not like that and that she can't leave without her friend. I remained unphased and told her that was cool, I wasn't looking for something to happen, she said she'd love to leave with me but she can't leave without her friend. This quickly changed from she's not like that to she'd love to leave with me. I stayed in set and went back to the dancefloor with her.
Leaving and Accommodation
The bar was starting to get quieter with people moving on to bigger night clubs, I suggested we left the bar and looked to go somewhere else to which she agreed and told the cat that we were looking to leave. I lead her outside, with both our groups of friends following. One of my friends was calling it a night and my other friend was looking to go to another bar, the girls were deciding whether they were going to go for food or to another club. The cat and SW didn't want to go to the club and were either going to go home or go to the other bar with me and my friend.
Her friends said their goodbyes and headed off leaving us to go towards the other bar. We got halfway to the bar and they decided they were going to go to their accommodation to use the girls room. They invited us with them and left us in the lobby while they used the downstairs girls room. When they came out they decided they weren't bothered going back out but we could go to the games room.
We went in for a while, SW and the cat were going to the girls room again where my friend excused himself. It was still rather early for a night out and I later found out he went to meet a girl he's been seeing. The cat decided she was going to go to bed, SW said she'd be going to bed but stayed to say bye. She dragged it out for a while waiting for the cat to go upstairs. After talking for a few minutes we decide to go back to the games room where I pulled her onto my lap.
Teasing, token resistance, escalation Ladder
She was still telling me that nothing was going to happen and that we can go on a date sometime. I kept telling her that was cool and kept touching her, holding her by her hips and running an escalation ladder. I kept moving up and down the escalation ladder teasing her with my touch until I was deeply kissing her and her entire body was shaking. She took a moment to compose herself while she told me it's not happening. I fractionated back to talking to her making her crave my touch before escalating again. She got to the point of no return and decided we could go to her room, she made a point of telling me nothing would happen. The snow melted when we got to her room
