Hello fellas,
Havent been approaching for quite a while and yesterday I did my first in sometime. I am foreigner living in Finland somethings pissed me off.
I did only one approach and it bombed badly(doesnt bother me much except the woman was full of her self and arrogant kinda wanted to tell her she shouldnt be too arrogant and full of herself but whatever just proud and strangely happy that I go rejected)...Very hot blonde with a nice butt Finland has lots of those.
What I dont like is that by this times after these years i assumed Imshould be a bit confident approaching women, i like a bit or some heart beat i dont like freezing and thinking.As much as I enjoyed doing the kapproach I didnt like thatI stopped there so some excuses that came to my head as to why I didnt do more approaches hope you guys can help me get over it me help myself
1. I frequent the place so am a known face and I didnt want to like the guy who is horny trying to approach everyone in the place(also it is a small place)
2. I am a foreigner in Finland and no disrespect but I dont know if women wojld like to be responsive to a foreigner i front of their country men, I know they dont care but it gets to my head it might be uncomfortable
3. A lot of the attractive women are surrounded by the men and women, to me it is possible to approach her with the men but it looks wierd and I dont know if the man or men could be hostile or confrontational/also I dont know if she would like to be receptive to be talking to a foreigner infront of her guy friends especiallynthat I dont have lots of connections etc...
4. I like going out a lone, and I can be quite in the corner so I can look a bit strange(I am comfortable with it) but maybe it comes across stramge
5. An issue I really want to fix is I can be awkward or have an awkward vibe, it is something I want to fix
6. Most i,importantly I just want to talk to. Lots of women atleast just to gain the confidence when a woman I really like comes a lomg but I am afraid losing face and looking like a desperate and a creep(am neither of these thankfully but maybe I might across this way)
7. A lot of imsecurities come to my head all of a sudden and there one/two really BIG INSECURITY that really freeze me out with almost ALL women.
But the end the strange I just want to,approach most women I desire regardless,if I look bad it is ok(a sacrifice)but I also a bit scared of confrontation or disrespect or if I get many rejections in a raw
what do you guys suggest
Havent been approaching for quite a while and yesterday I did my first in sometime. I am foreigner living in Finland somethings pissed me off.
I did only one approach and it bombed badly(doesnt bother me much except the woman was full of her self and arrogant kinda wanted to tell her she shouldnt be too arrogant and full of herself but whatever just proud and strangely happy that I go rejected)...Very hot blonde with a nice butt Finland has lots of those.
What I dont like is that by this times after these years i assumed Imshould be a bit confident approaching women, i like a bit or some heart beat i dont like freezing and thinking.As much as I enjoyed doing the kapproach I didnt like thatI stopped there so some excuses that came to my head as to why I didnt do more approaches hope you guys can help me get over it me help myself
1. I frequent the place so am a known face and I didnt want to like the guy who is horny trying to approach everyone in the place(also it is a small place)
2. I am a foreigner in Finland and no disrespect but I dont know if women wojld like to be responsive to a foreigner i front of their country men, I know they dont care but it gets to my head it might be uncomfortable
3. A lot of the attractive women are surrounded by the men and women, to me it is possible to approach her with the men but it looks wierd and I dont know if the man or men could be hostile or confrontational/also I dont know if she would like to be receptive to be talking to a foreigner infront of her guy friends especiallynthat I dont have lots of connections etc...
4. I like going out a lone, and I can be quite in the corner so I can look a bit strange(I am comfortable with it) but maybe it comes across stramge
5. An issue I really want to fix is I can be awkward or have an awkward vibe, it is something I want to fix
6. Most i,importantly I just want to talk to. Lots of women atleast just to gain the confidence when a woman I really like comes a lomg but I am afraid losing face and looking like a desperate and a creep(am neither of these thankfully but maybe I might across this way)
7. A lot of imsecurities come to my head all of a sudden and there one/two really BIG INSECURITY that really freeze me out with almost ALL women.
But the end the strange I just want to,approach most women I desire regardless,if I look bad it is ok(a sacrifice)but I also a bit scared of confrontation or disrespect or if I get many rejections in a raw
what do you guys suggest
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