approaching

At night when the actual bar is packed and you see a group of women (3 or more) standing there all with their back turned talking to each other, how do you approach them? More specifically when you’re waiting behind the overall crowd to order a drink (due to no physical room to squeeze in). I...

These are the concerns that I have after having done 20+ approaches. I know it's a small number but I'm going to track my progress the whole way through. What do you do when the girl says immediately after you approach her that she has to get going? Is that just a problem of you having really...

It gets dark quite early where I live, at around 5 pm. I finish work around that time and I'd still have some time to go home and do some approaches on the way home but I'm not very experienced approaching in the dark/dusk/after sunset and also girls are usually rushing home. Most shops also...

Hi guys I went out last weekend and found myself in situations I didn't know how to handle. I had similar problems in these situations before so I need to improve to capitalise on the chances. Situation 1 I turned up early, the dancefloor was half dead. There was a hot chick I liked on the...

I wanted to start this journal to keep me motivated and accountable. I am new to pick-up. A little background. I grew up in a culture that does everything to keep women and men apart. Interaction between men and women were almost non-existent. That was a huge handicap after moving to a western...

I want people's view on whether it's appropriate to go into girls in certain situations. I feel like sometimes it can be considered a little much - but i think this is in my head and just my own perception and limiting beliefs. So i'm doing day game and walking down this very empty side street...

Hi guys, TL;Dr : if a girl is not used to being cold-approached (regardless of the way I approach her - direct/indirect/situational etc) she'll Auto-reject even if she was attracted to me. How to overcome this? Sorry for the long post but I didn't want to miss out any details, that may be...

Lately I have been at a loss on how to approach women wearing earphones/ on their phones, usually with women on their phones, I tell excuse me and open them and with women on earbuds I wave to them and then open them, with these approached my anxiety has been skyrocketing more so than...

Approach 1 Approached girl in a cute yellow dress and nice legs sitting in a bench right before I go to the gym. I did a back and forth to get a good look at her before I approached. I went up to her after some mild resistance. Say excuse me wanted to say I like your dress or something like...

I have recently been going to the mall once a week, mostly on weekends when the mall is popping. The overall goal of getting to the mall is doing Day Game and getting over the fate every man has to go through "Approach Anxiety" I never been good at approach women and starting a conversation out...

Hello fellas, Havent been approaching for quite a while and yesterday I did my first in sometime. I am foreigner living in Finland somethings pissed me off. I did only one approach and it bombed badly(doesnt bother me much except the woman was full of her self and arrogant kinda wanted to tell...

Hey guys I consider myself to be an intermediate in Game. Especially daygame as I have had a few successes and quite a significant number of approaches under my belt. But I have never been consistent and always stopped approaching when I found a girl to have a relationship/mini-relationship...

This is a response to the last post on the main site. For 30 Days I’m going to take on the challenge of approaching four times a day and see where this takes me. Just got out of a relationship this lockdown so it’s time to open some things back up ;) I’ll be tracking my experiences here...