approaching

Hey guys, hope you are all doing well. Just moved to a megacity; was previously living in the Bay Area. Been daygame approaching for the past two weeks and have done about 100 approaches. The reason I'm posting, however, is because I'm getting the most polarizing results here, and I'm not sure...

Hi all, A little bit confused by the situation so I am here seeking help. To be upfront, I messed up a lot of stuff so it is definitely on me. About 2 yrs ago, I joined this new gym and started working out every Sat morning. Saw a pretty cool girl who usually comes in at the same time too...

Hey guys, for anyone who doesn't know me my name is Johnny Kendhammer. I am currently 43 living in Bangkok and doing what it takes to get my dating skillset handled I was in a 12 year marriage that ended 9 years ago (2017) and since then I have been in and out of game. For the first few years...

Many times while approaching, I end up approaching the same person again not on the same day, but on a different occasion, usually around a college campus or business district. I typically open with a fashion compliment, and sometimes the girl responds by saying that I’ve already approached her...

This is a an aspect of cold approach that I feel is severely under discussed though @Chase has written an amazing article on it here : https://www.girlschase.com/content/picking-girls-and-game-asymmetric-returns I think what has helped me progress this far with my journey with cold approach...

Hi there i'm looking for a wingman to go out and game with, let me know what days you guys are free and we can take it from there. whether beginner or nor we can practice and learn together.

I've got a great video to share to motivate you to approach more. Regardless whether you want to get laid more often or whether you want higher quality chick, it's the same advice - you've got to approach more. It's a video from Andrew Tate. I don't want to get involved in the discussion...

So, for the few friend or kinda family people I have let known that I am trying to learn and Master DayGame the overwhelming response is: YOU CAN ONLY MEET GIRLS FOR DATING ONLINE ONLY!!! It’s almost like an old skool cartoon of the one character getting beat over the head with a board. I get...

i was in club yesterday and it was bad for me,i could not approach any girl i need your advises guys what to do,where to go? i think to stop in summer

Hey there... Looking for a wingman in Los Angeles with good DayGame experience... I started cold approach last September after reviewing Hector's series about DayGame. I've approached many females, and have gotten many numbers, but have had a hard time translating those numbers into meet-ups...

I joined the forums a couple months ago and started practicing doing approaches in public in order to try tackle my approach anxiety, which was going okay but I had to take my focus away from practicing seduction during the last month due to other things in life. I practiced some direct...

I recently had an interesting conversation with my girlfriend about cold approach. A bunch of her female friends have been melancholy about the current dating scene with a few common themes: - Dating apps are tiresome, the men aren’t sexy - Nightclubs are miserable, the good-looking men don’t...

Hi, I am a recent university graduate, and during my time in uni I was able to date due to being in social circles and fraternity groups. Now that I've graduated, I felt pretty lost on how to go out there and approach someone out in the public and discovered the GC website last month. I tried...

At night when the actual bar is packed and you see a group of women (3 or more) standing there all with their back turned talking to each other, how do you approach them? More specifically when you’re waiting behind the overall crowd to order a drink (due to no physical room to squeeze in). I...

These are the concerns that I have after having done 20+ approaches. I know it's a small number but I'm going to track my progress the whole way through. What do you do when the girl says immediately after you approach her that she has to get going? Is that just a problem of you having really...

It gets dark quite early where I live, at around 5 pm. I finish work around that time and I'd still have some time to go home and do some approaches on the way home but I'm not very experienced approaching in the dark/dusk/after sunset and also girls are usually rushing home. Most shops also...

Hi guys I went out last weekend and found myself in situations I didn't know how to handle. I had similar problems in these situations before so I need to improve to capitalise on the chances. Situation 1 I turned up early, the dancefloor was half dead. There was a hot chick I liked on the...

I wanted to start this journal to keep me motivated and accountable. I am new to pick-up. A little background. I grew up in a culture that does everything to keep women and men apart. Interaction between men and women were almost non-existent. That was a huge handicap after moving to a western...

I want people's view on whether it's appropriate to go into girls in certain situations. I feel like sometimes it can be considered a little much - but i think this is in my head and just my own perception and limiting beliefs. So i'm doing day game and walking down this very empty side street...

Hi guys, TL;Dr : if a girl is not used to being cold-approached (regardless of the way I approach her - direct/indirect/situational etc) she'll Auto-reject even if she was attracted to me. How to overcome this? Sorry for the long post but I didn't want to miss out any details, that may be...