FU Barcelona Layover Insta Date

[Swati]

(I've noticed people saying this place was the hardest place in Europe) Spain compared to LATAM is more cold/ reserved, has euro iciness, and bigger egos. Within the recent 2-3 years an increase of "COACHING" in popular cities, has been flooded by uncalibrated western geeks' direct gaming... spamming the streets, doing jogs, 180 spin, hounding solo/2set girls. These street harassers cause higher barriers and defensiveness from locals. I saw Sasha Day game 95%, it's him, was coaching this Western dude, running after a girl, blowing out after a minute
DorkZ: "hEy I saw you, you look like you have AmZInG FaSHun" or "Ey I ThUk U CuT=e!"
In Europe, what I have noticed is that most of the coaches are from North America. if you are good why aren't you coaching in the States?!

Alek: "Good Game is not supposed to look like game"

Karea wrote a post about "WHY beginners shouldn't do direct game or even approach girls at first if you haven't been socialized properly"

HB, Barcelona layover
(I'm FUCKING PIMP no CITY is HARD FOR MIIII!!!!!)
So I ventured out to see the city, check out some HBs, and look for pussy

HB, not Spaniard, a medical student, from Latin America, looks European with green eyes

I was sitting down on a nearby tree, with sits around the tree all empty but a green eye HB decided to sit right next to me. approach invitation
with a bit of Spanish, I was able to speak

me: hola,tienes de acceso para hotspot?
HB: Que? wifi?
me: si. ingles?
HB: a little
blah blah blah

me: "mi padre vivo xxxxxx(city around her city)"
(basically hit my limit for Spanish LOL)

me: "I want to buy a cigar here"
HB: "OK, we think we can find"
me: "We can go to the park afterward"

She was quite invested in the situation and started googling the park and next destination. I was transferring flights, was exhausted from the plane ride, didn't get to sleep much, and tried to look for coffee, I don't remember finding any...

while at the park, we hear Latin music playing and see people dancing the bachata, it was an escalation point where I started to twirl her around, a couple of spins, but I didn't want to physically escalate too hard since it was it might trigger ASD... fractionated out and continued to do a loop around the park.


I go to grab her hand to hold for a few second, she was stiff and I released it

HB: "I haven't been with a guy for 1 year"
me: "Oh really?!"
At some point she mentions she has a BF
HB: "I have a boyfriend"

me: "oh really, how long you guys been together for?"
me: "Is the place over there?"

Later on in the interaction
HB: "What else do you want to do?"

ME: "We can/ let's go eat"

She proposed to split the bill, but I insisted on paying for it. During the food, I should have smiled more and put my hand on her legs, my energy was outta wack, missing windows. We had medical conversations and were surprised by how much knowledge I had about health.

HB: "I dont feel like I'm talking to a 20s-year-old"

I paid for the meal. I take her with me back to my hostel, and she says I'll walk you halfway, I persisted in her coming with me, and she complies. While walking she took off her glasses, she's even prettier, green eyes. She stopped at my hostel gate calling her dorm to extend the time for curfew so somebody will open the door for her.
"whaT R wEEE GOnnA DOoo" "I'm NoT GOinG Up" Hesitating at the gate, eventually comes. She called her security for her dorm to extend the time of entry, "escalation window"

HB: "I'm going to scream if you do anything...." and proceed to come with me. She was grabbing the frame of the situation... this statement tinted my mind, I got a flight to catch not trying to spend time in Spainish jail,

Important conversation points
Me: "For 11 years you never been with a different guy?

HB: "Blah blah blah, there's a lot of temptation in Barcelona" (which I think is an escalation window as well....

I believe at this point, she was ready for me to persist with lighter kinos but my lack of energy couldn't get me through it. She cut space and I was tired and didn't process harder.

Would have been a better response I believe originally from "Chase"
"We don't have to do anything WE don't want to. And we can check out my balcony" when coming with me.

instead of JUST checking out my balcony

My shitty hostel logistics room smelled like smoke, the only thing good about it was the balcony, have a view of the strip

Funny thing, she didn't admit to even seeing me? I guess I was invisible. Emission of truth, lying

At one point I did try to kiss her by grabbing her face and she dodged me. I should have put my hand on her waist and escalated from there. Bad calibration on my part.

80% sure I could have laid her if I wasn't so tired or had more sex drive, the day before I had sex

This type of girl requires better game and calibration, not your club hoes. This girl had routines, a medical student, dedicated to studies for masters.

Believe women for their actions, not their words

 

[Karea Ricardus D.]

(I've noticed people saying this place was the hardest place in Europe) Spain compared to LATAM is more cold/ reserved, has euro iciness, and bigger egos.

Also very feminist. Feminists can be ball breakers but they can also be very slutty. I've lived in Spain and I found it's either very hard or very easy.

On the one hand, I literally had many of my easiest lays in Madrid, including a girl texting me right after first meeting: "So Karea, where are you going to sleep tonight? maybe you want to sleep with me?" I had a threesome there and I think 3 SNLs, all before I actually got very good. I had an instant lay at the airport in Madrid on a long stop over.

On the other hand I also had a very hard time on many days out. Actually a lot of hard days/nights out to the point where I wanted to leave. Maybe in retrospect it was more about my vibe on those days, it's a very long time ago.

I saw Sasha Day game 95%, it's him, was coaching this Western dude, running after a girl, blowing out after a minute

Probably not him, he stopped teaching daygame years ago, he's now teaching spiritual stuff.

In Europe, what I have noticed is that most of the coaches are from North America. if you are good why aren't you coaching in the States?!

I think that's mostly because most US cities are "driving cities", you're screwed without a car, there's no subway, no big pedestrian zones. New York is supposed to be a great daygame city but many US cities are just logistically set up in a bad way for daygame.

Alek: "Game is not supposed to look like game"

So true.

Karea wrote a post about "WHY beginners shouldn't do direct game or even approach girls at first if you haven't been socialized properly"

I think you mean this post, right? Yeah this direct daygame trend is a total pest. I don't think I started doing a lot of direct daygame until I had about 50 lays already. Newbies running around with direct openers is straight retarded.

me: hola,tienes de acceso para hotspot?

Nice! Much better than "Hey I saw you from over there and I know this is really random and I'm the 17th guy today but do you wanna bang?"

"whaT R wEEE GOnnA DOoo" "I'm NoT GOinG Up" Hesitating at the gate, eventually comes. She called her security for her dorm to extend the time of entry, "escalation window"

did you have any sexual frames in place prior to this?

My shitty hostel logistics room smelled like smoke, the only thing good about it was the balcony, have a view of the strip

did you have a private room in the hostel?

Funny thing, she didn't admit to even seeing me? I guess I was invisible. Emission of truth, lying

Interesting... i guess it's possible that she didn't see you? But then because you thought she sat down next to you, you believed from the start that she wanted you? And it probably made your game better... if only there was a way to always get this placebo!

Nicely done, keep in mind also not all girls will cheat on a BF, I think you did well!

 

[Swati]

Newbies running around with direct openers is straight retarded.

all great minds think alike

Also, I hear people saying girls don't get approached during the Day, that's an incredibly stupid comment and I think is a sales point/lie of "no competition", these people believe they can sneak your way into some pussy or hack that high-quality girl being a loser

Nice! Much better than "Hey I saw you from over there and I know this is really random and I'm the 17th guy today but do you wanna bang?"

"haAA, mI noMbrE (GEEk), quEiRo seXO" 15x for the day

did you have any sexual frames in place prior to this?

some kinos I overly extended on my end, not sure that would be considered a sexual frame. During the time at the hostel, we did talk about sex, the amount of hookups and sexual relationship people in Barcelona has on average throughout a year, how her roommates were fucking a different guy every week, etc... HB: "There's a lot of temptations and handsome guys here" etc

Interesting... i guess it's possible that she didn't see you? But then because you thought she sat down next to you, you believed from the start that she wanted you? And it probably made your game better... if only there was a way to always get this placebo!

Maybe, but that hook was pretty fast and strong, it took like 5min of talking for her to go on a 5hour date with me

Also very feminist. Feminists can be ball breakers but they can also be very slutty. I've lived in Spain and I found it's either very hard or very easy.

On the one hand, I literally had many of my easiest lays in Madrid, including a girl texting me right after first meeting: "So Karea, where are you going to sleep tonight? maybe you want to sleep with me?" I had a threesome there and I think 3 SNLs, all before I actually got very good. I had an instant lay at the airport in Madrid on a long stop over.

On the other hand I also had a very hard time on many days out. Actually a lot of hard days/nights out to the point where I wanted to leave. Maybe in retrospect it was more about my vibe on those days, it's a very long time ago.

cancer spreading to the Latin culture....Madrid sounds fun! BTW that airport bathroom close is on my list, so close in Lisbon last year. I feel is a general attitude people from Spain/ France have, my old wing was French, let's just say he wasn't the most friendly to others LOL

I think that's mostly because most US cities are "driving cities", you're screwed without a car, there's no subway, no big pedestrian zones. New York is supposed to be a great daygame city but many US cities are just logistically set up in a bad way for daygame.

I love New York. mostly you need a car and your logistics come into play, gaming, especially at night, can't be driving 30min to pull then the girl falling asleep

Nicely done, keep in mind also not all girls will cheat on a BF, I think you did well!

Yeah I understand, still trying to find a "moral" compass for this type of things

did you have a private room in the hostel?

Yes, I had a private room

 

[Karea Ricardus D.]

Also, I hear people saying girls don't get approached during the Day, that's an incredibly stupid comment

yeah. Used to be true though, 12+ years ago. A lot of girls gave that comment "wow that has never happened to me before". The London Daygame crew ruined it for everyone basically.

Same thing happened with "pussy paradise". There were a few places where you could go and just have 2 lays a day without much game (or money). Those got ruined too by people blogging and youtubing about it and making it mainstream, just like daygame.

some kinos I overly extended on my end, not sure that would be considered a sexual frame.

No, you need to get it out there verbally. Study Teevster's stuff about that. I think I have a couple of articles on the blog about it too.

During the time at the hostel, we did talk about sex, the amount of hookups and sexual relationship people in Barcelona has on average throughout a year, how her roommates were fucking a different guy every week, etc...

Excellent. Just a bit late. I start getting into that stuff as soon as the set is properly hooked, so like a few minutes in.

HB: "There's a lot of temptations and handsome guys here" etc

almost certainly a big IOI from her. I think if you had the frames in place she would have put out. Almost certain.

cancer spreading to the Latin culture

yeah, even some Asian countries like Korea and Philippines

BTW that airport bathroom close is on my list, so close in Lisbon last year.

nice - actually wasn't in a toilet though, the flight was delayed by like 8 hours so the airline gave us rooms. i just told her "let's get a room together cause the line for single rooms is very long and the line for double rooms is very short, and i'll be flying out long before you so you'll have the room to yourself at night anyway". The entire plane load was staring at me afterwards lol.

mostly you need a car and your logistics come into play, gaming, especially at night, can't be driving 30min to pull then the girl falling asleep

CJ did that many of his lays lol. He says when the set is solid, logistics become irrelevant. I used to believe that logistics are like the #1 factor but I now think he's right, if you get her proper gamed up it's no issue. I did it many times in daygame too, live 30 minutes from the day 2 venue, pull 9pm ish though so fatigue isn't a factor but then CJ lived in Dallas where venues close at 2am.

 

[Swati]

almost certainly a big IOI from her. I think if you had the frames in place she would have put out. Almost certain.

FUCK MY LIFE

yeah. Used to be true though, 12+ years ago. A lot of girls gave that comment "wow that has never happened to me before". The London Daygame crew ruined it for everyone basically.

Same thing happened with "pussy paradise". There were a few places where you could go and just have 2 lays a day without much game (or money). Those got ruined too by people blogging and youtubing about it and making it mainstream, just like daygame.

HAHAHA you know when i see videos these days with the amount of foreigners in "pussy paradise" is like a total clown town, disgusting

CJ did that many of his lays lol. He says when the set is solid, logistics become irrelevant. I used to believe that logistics are like the #1 factor but I now think he's right, if you get her proper gamed up it's no issue. I did it many times in daygame too, live 30 minutes from the day 2 venue, pull 9pm ish though so fatigue isn't a factor but then CJ lived in Dallas where venues close at 2am.

Got you. I've done it and understand, just the driving kills MY mood as well LOL

nice - actually wasn't in a toilet though, the flight was delayed by like 8 hours so the airline gave us rooms. i just told her "let's get a room together cause the line for single rooms is very long and the line for double rooms is very short, and i'll be flying out long before you so you'll have the room to yourself at night anyway". The entire plane load was staring at me afterwards lol.

LMFAO I have to take more risks with these kinds of things. It's just too funny NOT to look back and have funny shit like this to laugh about. I imagine you were in high momentum when this happened?!

No, you need to get it out there verbally. Study Teevster's stuff about that. I think I have a couple of articles on the blog about it too.

 

[Karea Ricardus D.]

LMFAO I have to take more risks with these kinds of things. It's just too funny NOT to look back and have funny shit like this to laugh about. I imagine you were in high momentum when this happened?!

Yeah, absolutely. That was around the time I was experimenting with a lot of california pimp style game.