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Tribal Elder
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I am a complete noob and idiot to texting. Always relied on day game impression leading. Recently tried Tinder. Did the thing above (merge POB + Skills). I dig the clockwork funnel type approach.

Me: "Hi :)"
Her: "Heluu"
Me: "Are you the angel I'm looking for?"
Her: "That could be."
Me: "What do you like to read?"
Her: "Romance books ahaha"
Me:" Hahah you know, I noticed something interesting about your profile."
Her: "Oh what's that?"
Me: "Your gaze"
Her: "I've heard that before, more intense in real life."
Me: "If I were to guess then I'd say you re extremely honest with people, a bit like me."
Her: "Absolutely haha"
Me: "I don't think this is going to work in real life, the world isn't ready for it, everyone is going to go nuts and get jealous over our energy."
Me: "But tell me something about yourself, how does the guys treat you here?"
Her: "I think it's worth it, let the people just be jealous and wish they were us."
Her: "Someone said "So sexy come to by bed... not my vibe"

Me: "OH wow lots of creeps I guess. I guess the bar is low which is to my favor :) Any good experiences?"
Her: "Hahaha I've been invited on dates and met nice people I thought were genuine but didn't vibe. So now I'm just on Tinder and what happens happens."
Me: "Hahah I can't complain myself, I've been treated good here. What would you say are your best two qualities that has nothing to do with your appearance?
Her: "My compassion and I'm good at communicating. And you?"
Me: "My sense of humor and relationship skills. Name, how happy would you say your life is right now from 1 to 10? 10 being best."
Her: "Hmm 6 right now, not where I want to be right now."
Me: "Interesting, I'm not 10/10 either because I'm always trying to imrprove and I miss my jiu jitsu club. Name I think you seem safe and someone worth knowing. I am barely rarely here so you can text at 2319853 and say you're Name from Tinder so I know who you are. If I don't reply right away it's not because I'm trying to let you wait but because I might be busy with work."

Her Text: "Hi It's Name *kissing emoji*"

I have no idea what I'm doing but seems to work ??

MV
a bit of freestyling, but it was not too bad.... now you reward,

hey! my favorite Glazing girl, i was looking forward getting to know you here, here finishing up with clients (or any high value activity), what are you up to besides thinking of me and smiling???

then you follow texting structure... i will post 2 important posts (but try to freestyle minimally till you get the flow of things)


 

MrVariety

Space Monkey
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a bit of freestyling, but it was not too bad.... now you reward,

hey! my favorite Glazing girl, i was looking forward getting to know you here, here finishing up with clients (or any high value activity), what are you up to besides thinking of me and smiling???

then you follow texting structure... i will post 2 important posts (but try to freestyle minimally till you get the flow of things)



Awesome thanks. Too much freestyling, wdym? I felt already like I was sort of disregarding her responses too already and it was a bit surprising how much I got away with it already, I feel like I have to tailor the responses a little bit so I don't come across completely disregarding, but I guess women don't really care?

MV
 

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Tribal Elder
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Awesome thanks. Too much freestyling, wdym? I felt already like I was sort of disregarding her responses too already and it was a bit surprising how much I got away with it already, I feel like I have to tailor the responses a little bit so I don't come across completely disregarding, but I guess women don't really care?

MV
freestyling means, when someone says do this and then you do your own version of it... (is ok but try not to do that too much till you get the flow)...

so if i tell you to say: "just curious, how are guys treating here?"

the person instead of doing it like that, they freestyle "have you been in a lot of dates here" ---> this is what i call freestyling....

if i say open> banter/flirt/deep dive/second gen> soft close>hard close

dude open>soft close> hard close ----->freestyling structure....

freestyling is bad till you get couple of lays....

cause methods are develop from multiple lays, when someone using new method has no lay using the new method.... that is why freestyling is bad, till the method has worked and he knows what he is doing fully... get it?


like no where in the structure say to open with : hi smiley emoji --->freestyling can work but is not optimal..
 

MrVariety

Space Monkey
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freestyling means, when someone says do this and then you do your own version of it... (is ok but try not to do that too much till you get the flow)...

so if i tell you to say: "just curious, how are guys treating here?"

the person instead of doing it like that, they freestyle "have you been in a lot of dates here" ---> this is what i call freestyling....

if i say open> banter/flirt/deep dive/second gen> soft close>hard close

dude open>soft close> hard close ----->freestyling structure....

freestyling is bad till you get couple of lays....

cause methods are develop from multiple lays, when someone using new method has no lay using the new method.... that is why freestyling is bad, till the method has worked and he knows what he is doing fully... get it?


like no where in the structure say to open with : hi smiley emoji --->freestyling can work but is not optimal..
Skills remember I am a complete idiot on texting online. I read your thread and when you write to open with "minimally banter or statement" I have no idea what to do else than freestyle. I couldn't use the Britney spears thing because it would have made zero sense lol with this girl.

MV
 

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Tribal Elder
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Skills remember I am a complete idiot on texting online. I read your thread and when you write to open with "minimally banter or statement" I have no idea what to do else than freestyle. I couldn't use the Britney spears thing because it would have made zero sense lol with this girl.

MV
No why would you use the Britney Spears with a girl that doesn't look like Brittany... Facepalm! Context brother
 
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MrVariety

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No why would you use the Britney Spears with a girl that doesn't look like Brittany... Facepalm! Context brother

I didn't use it and that was my point. I feel like freestyling is inevitable because I don't know any structure on bantering or opening statement. Help pls.

MV
 

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Tribal Elder
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I didn't use it and that was my point. I feel like freestyling is inevitable because I don't know any structure on bantering or opening statement. Help pls.

MV
I said try not to freestyle too much.... Is inevitable you will have to calibrate to situation... Too much, is the key word... I posted 2:guides and you can look for more texting guides and samples in my archives
 
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