Here's the context. I have this cougar FWB that I've been seeing and before she left I stayed over at her place fucked her all day and night and made her cum every session, while her roommate (she's renting the place out) was next door. We spent a lot of time at different venues and connected pretty well I'd say, before she went on vacation. Before she left she asked if I'd miss her. Can't remember what I said but I think I said probably, or of course and wasn't too serious about the response.
Here's the text summary (based on memory since I deleted the text convo out of annoyance):
Morning after I left her place
f(wb): Drive safe
f: Let me know when you get back home
m(e): I got home
m: Thanks for your time
[some emotionally connecting texts/banter]
We didn't text for a while. She's on vacation
f: [pings me a picture of a buddha and some kind of comment]
m: You remembered I like buddha statues
m: When are you coming back?
f: [pings me a picture of another buddha statue]
f: another one
m: [hearted the picture, but didn't respond since she didn't reply to my question about when she's coming back]
Few weeks pass
m: When are you coming back?
f: I'm back
m: Since when?
f: Since x
m: said something like, ah ok, want to catch up on sat?
f: I have plans this weekend, maybe next week?
m: Sure, so next friday then?
f: Hm, I want to check out this art exhibition [link], are you interested?
m: Yeah sure
m: So saturday then? [museum free on sats]
f: Ok [strange for her to reply so mildly]
m: banter about the art exhibition
f: replies three messages so pretty enthuastically
m: banter about some cartoons she showed me she liked, and her place being free now of the roommate. My banter was probably kind of bad
f: [doesn't reply, several days pass or even a week]
m: What time should I come over?
m: [after a couple of days] Let me know by tonight if you're still interested in checking out the museum
f: Sorry for taking up your time, please feel free to make other plans for Sat if you have any [don't remember the exact wording but basically a formal flake with no interest in rescheduling]
m: No worries, thanks for keeping me updated
It's been several weeks now since we last talked. I wouldn't mind getting her back as a regular.
Hey [fwb]! Sorry to drop off the map, I just came back from [country] and getting back into work again, ugh. Hope life's been treating you well... let me know how you've been! -[me]"
I've been debating between a casual hey how are you vs something more thoughtful. Thoughts on that? Though my usual texts I sent her is pretty bland and basic compared to this one. Thinking of adding a proposal/ask on her schedule at the end of the message too.
Here's the text summary (based on memory since I deleted the text convo out of annoyance):
Morning after I left her place
f(wb): Drive safe
f: Let me know when you get back home
m(e): I got home
m: Thanks for your time
[some emotionally connecting texts/banter]
We didn't text for a while. She's on vacation
f: [pings me a picture of a buddha and some kind of comment]
m: You remembered I like buddha statues
m: When are you coming back?
f: [pings me a picture of another buddha statue]
f: another one
m: [hearted the picture, but didn't respond since she didn't reply to my question about when she's coming back]
Few weeks pass
m: When are you coming back?
f: I'm back
m: Since when?
f: Since x
m: said something like, ah ok, want to catch up on sat?
f: I have plans this weekend, maybe next week?
m: Sure, so next friday then?
f: Hm, I want to check out this art exhibition [link], are you interested?
m: Yeah sure
m: So saturday then? [museum free on sats]
f: Ok [strange for her to reply so mildly]
m: banter about the art exhibition
f: replies three messages so pretty enthuastically
m: banter about some cartoons she showed me she liked, and her place being free now of the roommate. My banter was probably kind of bad
f: [doesn't reply, several days pass or even a week]
m: What time should I come over?
m: [after a couple of days] Let me know by tonight if you're still interested in checking out the museum
f: Sorry for taking up your time, please feel free to make other plans for Sat if you have any [don't remember the exact wording but basically a formal flake with no interest in rescheduling]
m: No worries, thanks for keeping me updated
It's been several weeks now since we last talked. I wouldn't mind getting her back as a regular.
Hey [fwb]! Sorry to drop off the map, I just came back from [country] and getting back into work again, ugh. Hope life's been treating you well... let me know how you've been! -[me]"
I've been debating between a casual hey how are you vs something more thoughtful. Thoughts on that? Though my usual texts I sent her is pretty bland and basic compared to this one. Thinking of adding a proposal/ask on her schedule at the end of the message too.
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