text game

  1. Higher

    FU Was i too eager/impatient?

    Met this hot Latina with full-body tattoos while daygaming last week. I approach her informational, then i compliment her style. She thanks me and we exchange numbers. We have a bit of a language barrier, but here the texts (some in english, most are in spanish and i translated them): One...
  2. DakenMarquis

    Should I pursue or wait for interest to build

    Hey guys had a girl who has been into me,and flirting etc, we kissed, went on a date bout 2 wks ago, made sure to make discretion and casual frames, and have stayed in touch over snapchat/ number. Issue is we were flirting last week, I was teasing her about her kissing technique (mind you kept...
  3. Higher

    Calls & Texts Texting mistakes?

    Met this Asian gal a couple days ago. Usual indirect-then-compliment approach. Now, im cool with the fact that she was not feeling it anymore. That can happen and its completely fine. (EDIT: might have been on her period too) How would you pros have played this?
  4. Higher

    Calls & Texts Texting busy girls

    This is something that i keep tripping on. Whats the best way to text girls that dont really have time to chat due to time-consuming jobs / rather hot insta profiles that take all their time? With these girls i cant seem to make the standard "flirt-softclose-hardclose" procedure work. My...
  5. SmooothOperator

    👮‍♂️✋🛑Stop. Go directly to jail; do not pass go. How would you escape this ??

    My response here will dictate the terms of engagement going forward so I need to nail this. So I saw this girl at a club fair we had at school. She was bad and was giving me intense eye contact but I kept it professional and talked about the club blah blah blah. I didn’t take her number cause...
  6. T

    Calls & Texts No Response After Sexting Girl I Slept With

    I went on a coffee date with a girl from hinge. The date went well, handled any resistance/objections better than I ever have before (inviting her to my place & LMR in bed). One of the best (coffee) first dates I’ve ran from start to finish. We ended up having sex and when she left I told her...
  7. T

    How to react when a girl chooses something else over a date with you?

    There's this girl I've had two dates/hookups with, ended up in my bed both times, and she's been kinda iffy with me over being kinda not in a super outgoing mood over these past two dates. Now I asked her to get drinks with me at this place, she said she had to make up her mind between that and...
  8. leadingbealwaysido

    Text after sex

    I am improving my text-game these days... I wanted to ask a quick feedback for what to write after sex. Just had a girl sleep over from friday to saturday, leaving saturday morning. I did not send her any text on sunday, but nomday 17:00 i sent this: "Hey ************, trust you got to...
  9. Higher

    Texting a busy, high-profile lawyer

    Hey folks, Met this chick couple days ago. She's hot and very feminine, and was all giggles and smiles when I approached. We talked a few minutes, then she had to go and catch her flight back to Monaco. She suggested we keep in touch, so we traded digits. Sent her an icebreaker, to which she...
  10. T

    Calls & Texts Date/Meetup Plans Without Appearing Desperate

    Last Friday I met this girl at the end of St. Paddy’s night and brought her back to my place. We fucked a couple times that night (which ended my 6 month dry spell). The following morning we fucked yet again. She enjoyed the experience and we exchanged numbers & snapchat info. We’ve texted a...
  11. Higher

    Barely saw her and she asks me what my ascendant sign is...

    Gents, I met this girl back in November. I cold approached her and we went for a coffee. We traded numbers. We met again end of Jan (we couldn't meet earlier), and we went for a walk and another coffee. Never kissed. Overall facetime: 3.5h. Now, I realize I give off massive boyfriend vibes...
  12. V

    Calls & Texts Girl says need to know me more before going out

    Picked up a girl and have some chat, then I got her number and continue texted her. When trying to invite her out, she say "I still don't know much about you yet, I need to know more about a person before going out with him". What does this mean? Should I just keep texting her and share more...
  13. T

    How frequent should I text her after the date has been set?

    If I scheduled a date for Saturday (on Monday) and sent her a ping text on Thursday, should I also text her Friday or should I just wait till Saturday?
  14. T

    DTF Hinge Girl Unmatched Me Right Before Setting Up The Date

    So I've been starting to have some success with online dating and this is one of the first times that I've had a a woman be this blunt with her intentions to meet up and fuck. Things seemed to be going well in the interaction and just like that... unmatched. Should I have gone with a soft close...
  15. BIGGUS DICKUS: PUSSY MAN

    Texting troubles: Do I send another text?

    If you look at my journal day 6, I met a girl at a birthday party and got her number. In person we agreed to a date, that's tomorrow, on campus. Here are the texts: Me: Hey x, its y from the birthday party (3 hours later) her: Hiii her: I just got home (two laughing emojis) (15 minutes...
  16. BIGGUS DICKUS: PUSSY MAN

    2 CRUSHES AND CLUELESS TEXTING

    Okay so about the crushes: there's this girl I see in college cafeteria everyday, she's so bad its insane. I want to fuck so bad. Probably the most attractive girl I've seen in a long time, and I've seen a lot of hot girls. My question about her is: Should I approach her now with my very bad...
  17. Calibration

    FU Old habits die hard (texting failure)

    Update: She got back to me and we're texting. So, it's not a failure yet ;) I'll keep you guys updated how it'll go and maybe update it to a LR ;) Prelude: For those who missed my LR, https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/long-bad-streak-finally-ended.26538/page-2 This had given me massive...
  18. Higher

    "Let's meet spontaneously"

    Hi all, Got this text from a few girls over the past months. Some girls suggest this in a kinda cute, shy way (group A). Other girls are quite condescending, i.e. "i'm busy, so make it spontaneous", or "please let's make it spontaneous, i don't like planning lately" (group B). My attitude as...
  19. Calibration

    Calls & Texts How can I change the frame over text?

    I met a super hot chic today in a park. Tbh, I was a bit intimidated by her looks (I know, I know). I opened her direct, complimented on her hair. She was investing and the conversation lasted a good 15 mins or so and I left the conversation since I had to go somewhere. She was a psychology...
  20. Calibration

    How to pull back from an interaction if I've pushed too much?

    Yet another post relating to texting lol Some of you here know that I'm not good at texting but the good news is, I think I'm improving... One of the big breakthrough for me to know that I was writing lengthy texts which came across very logical. Anyway, after @DoWhatWorks pointed out this, I...
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