Between Flights and Flirts

[Hazel]

Hazel’s Journal week 1: New Horizons, Same Challenges

Hey everyone,
I’m Hazel, 28, mixed and a digital nomad.
I’ve been traveling for a few years now, built my own business and I love the freedom of changing countries, cultures and social codes.
I got into seduction mainly to challenge myself socially.
I used to be introverted (much less now) but a part of me still is.
Seduction helps me step out of my comfort zone, gain confidence and open up to the world.

Arrival

I arrived in a new big city last Monday, late afternoon.
That’s always my favorite moment when you land somewhere new, don’t understand anything yet, and everything feels different.
Cultural shock, new smells, new energy.

I had lost the habit of approaching so I started slowly using Tinder.
First match, first meet-up the same evening: rooftop, laughter, amazing view, light chemistry.
She was pretty, very touchy and it felt natural.
We ended the night together: massage, FK.
No follow-up afterwards.

Tuesday Flow & Connection

Next day, new match.
A stunning girl, half Spanish with chestnut curls and deep eyes.
We met in the gardens of my residence chill vibe, very natural connection.
Holding hands, laughing, Ferris wheel, kisses.
Beautiful evening, strong energy.
We went back to my place and FK.
I’ll call her V.

Wednesday Chill & New Encounters

Quiet day but still a few matches.
A girl from my residence a Korean, tattooed, very sexy O.
We hung out talked got close but nothing more that night.
She planned to come over next Tuesday.

Later that night, I matched with H, a lawyer full of energy (maybe a bit too much ).
We met for cocktails and pool, great vibe, she was fun and spontaneous.
We went back to my place and FK, no pressure.

Thursday Reality Test

I decided to stop using Tinder that day.
Too easy.
I wanted to challenge myself in real life: approaching in bars or clubs.
But that night... total failure.
I went out alone, had drinks in a club, moved around but didn’t approach anyone group of girls.
Pure frustration.
Later that night, I saw H again it was nice we FK but deep down I wasn’t satisfied.
I felt like I had avoided the real challenge.

Weekend Comfort & Clarity

I saw V again.
I was honest told her I wasn’t looking for anything serious and that I was just passing through.
She took it well and despite that, we have a genuine connection.
It’s nice to share something real without pressure.

Monday

Date with a model. Gorgeous but… empty.
Bad choice of place (too loud) wrong energy, boring conversation.
I tried too hard to make it work.
Instead of being myself, I was trying to impress.
Result: dull date.
I told her honestly it was boring, she said the same
At least it was straightforward.

Weekly Reflection

This first week reminded me of a few things:

Seduction isn’t a race for quantity, it’s about authenticity.

Apps are comfortable but not really educational.

My real challenge is approaching in real life.

The setting, the place, the energy all that matters for the vibe of a date.

And above all: better an honest “no” than a lukewarm “yes.”


Next step?
Halloween.
Goal: approach at least 3 groups of women during the night, alone without hesitation.
Not to “score” but to reclaim power over my fear.

Hazel