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Calls & Texts  Booty call, shit test, or something else?? Help!

Gorili

Cro-Magnon Man
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New to the forum and first time posting so please bear with me folks :)

Background:
  • Day game cold approach on college campus in late April
  • She's a blonde German girl here since January working a low-paying (her words) research assistant job for a professor and leaving in July
  • Used my go-to reality pace opener but I can't remember too much of the convo since this was over a month ago
  • Pretty straightforward and typical approach with nothing that really stood out
  • She likes going to college bars for things like Taco Tuesday
  • She thought I wasn't American because the bar guys thought Germany was separate from Europe and I knew my geography...
  • I talked most of the time and she was generally nice
  • Felt up her thighs a few times since she was wearing booty shorts ;)
  • She was out on the grass tanning and we talked for an hour before she had to grab dinner with a roommate so I couldn't really move her
  • For most of the conversation, she sat criss-cross applesauce perpendicular to me while I was lying down on her mat in front of her talking
Texting:
  • Using the @Skills method, I texted myself from her phone
  • Opening text was from a conversation thread about her not getting paid a lot and used a relevant meme about bosses ripping people off
  • No response so I've pinged her every once in a while with the eyes emoji and that sort of stuff
  • Most recently I used @Skills happy holiday ping (in this case Memorial Day in the US) followed by a hail mary soft close lol
  • Now, tonight 7 weeks later out of the blue from the initial April approach she sends me the below:
[5/27 US Memorial Day] Me: happy memorial day
[5/27 US Memorial Day] Me: we should catch up soon
[6/8 tonight 11pm] Her: Sure in your dreams...
[Not sure if this is of any use but in her text above she has an extra space both before and after the first and last character so maybe a bit drunk idk]

Questions:
  1. To answer the question in the title, was this a booty call, shit test, or something else? My hunch is that this is a shit test to see how I would handle given this is a direct response to my Memorial Day ping, but she texted on a Friday at 11pm so the context might be different. I was staying at home, so I didn't respond and still haven't responded. Want to see what the OGs think
  2. What do I text her to optimize for a meet (assuming the sub-context isn't telling me to fuck off)?

I read this thread: https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/when-she-gets-nasty-disrespectful-or-bitchy-over-text.27458/ and was thinking of using something similar to the below line, but idk if it's the right context:

wowoW! who is this texting? can you please give the phone back to the sweet kind girl i met at the club that had this amazing chemistry with me please....You go away and bring my sweet laura back, if no i am calling the policy, and let them know you mean nasty monster have kidnapped her....

Thanks for reading and appreciate your help! Lemme know if any additional context would be helpful
 
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alexlaguma

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Bro ... sorry to say but I agree with @gameboy

She isn't interested. I wouldn't be surprised if a friend sent that text from her phone.

Even if she did send it ... its not exactly a positive text is it? She's saying 'in your dreams' as in ... you must be dreaming to think she will meet with you.

My honest advice to you would be to forget about her, go and approach 5 girls tomorrow, and then do the same thing every day for the next week. Then you'll be in a position where you don't even analyse texts from girls because you are getting too many to even care.
 

Skills

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@Gorili this is a case of context, if you text yourself from her phone, and follow up and she does not contribute she was not interested... At that point there is not need to cont. at all... other than a holiday ping like you did, to see if there is something there, if in the response she is not overly interested, it is a dead lead.....

this reminds me of a dude years ago first trying my advice look at the entry 2 sample lol:



^ good news is he got wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy better after...
 

Gorili

Cro-Magnon Man
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Thanks a lot everyone! One of my friends said she was being sarcastic, but that doesn't seem like the consensus here.

I've had past situations like this where I didn't have enough references points, so that's why I signed up here :)

@gameboy and @alexlaguma:
  • I hadn't thought of truth or dare or a friend texting on her behalf so appreciate the thinking
  • The context probably wasn't clear enough, but I cold approach regularly and don't have oneitis for this girl or anything
  • My initial thought process was this late night text could be a 'freebie' so needed the right angle to work it if she were interested
@Skills:
  • Nice to see you chime in, and I've got to say I have a lot of respect for you!
  • I've read a lot of your materials and study your text guides extensively
  • I pretty much use your method of texting myself from her phone ~90% of the time these days
  • One benefit that I haven't seen mentioned is reducing the possibility of her giving you a fake number or mistyping her number to 0%
 
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