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BRUTAL night in the club

HeartOfChaos

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I am sitting in the Airbnb as we speak waiting to go to the club again

Do you even slightly enjoy club atmosphere? Or are you there for the sole purpose of getting laid?

I used to go clubbing a lot, but I mostly went to specific clubs and raves that cater to my specific music tastes - in my case House / Techno / Psytrance / Hip Hop , and I enjoy alcohol, smoking, and the general underground club and rave type atmosphere. And I never went there just to meet women. I went there because I loved the music and checking out new DJs.

If you aren't into any of this, it will show in your demeanour - no wonder you stick out like a sore thumb as "that guy who is trying to pick up girls"
 

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Do you even slightly enjoy club atmosphere? Or are you there for the sole purpose of getting laid?

I used to go clubbing a lot, but I mostly went to specific clubs and raves that cater to my specific music tastes - in my case House / Techno / Psytrance / Hip Hop , and I enjoy alcohol, smoking, and the general underground club and rave type atmosphere. And I never went there just to meet women. I went there because I loved the music and checking out new DJs.

If you aren't into any of this, it will show in your demeanour - no wonder you stick out like a sore thumb as "that guy who is trying to pick up girls"
To answer your question...my main reason to be there is because it has classically been the "go to" suggestion in the west for getting laid easily.

I suppose I do kind of enjoy it to be around people in a special occasion, such as new year's eve or those long, sweaty summer's nights.

And you get to see hot girls as well.

As for alcohol and smoking, I absolutely hate it. Just being in the smoking area makes me feel like my "health bar" like in a computer game, is draining away.

And I don't take a drop of alcohol either for the night.

The main advantage of the club is that you can approach the girls you wouldn't in daygame because you weren't sure how old they were as they walked past. It takes that barrier away so it broadens your approaching pool.

But it introduces many other obstacles such as the girl can barely hear you and the aforementioned horrible cigarette smoke in the only semi quiet area.
 

HeartOfChaos

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And I don't take a drop of alcohol either for the night
Alcohol is called social lubricant for a reason.
The main advantage of the club is that you can approach the girls you wouldn't in daygame because you weren't sure how old they were as they walked past.
I keep telling you, you should approach women of all ages. You are going to find it very tough to sell yourself to hot 20 year olds
 

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To answer your question...my main reason to be there is because it has classically been the "go to" suggestion in the west for getting laid easily.

Try to go to clubs that cater to your music taste. Helps if you are into electronic music, though. The women in those clubs are going to be different in terms of style, interests and outlook to the meat market trendy types of clubs you are probably visiting.
 

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Alcohol is called social lubricant for a reason.

I keep telling you, you should approach women of all ages. You are going to find it very tough to sell yourself to hot 20 year olds
I do approach women of all ages (well, up to 30).

But the club is mainly hot 18-24 year olds, so who else am I going to approach in there?
 

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I do approach women of all ages (well, up to 30).

But the club is mainly hot 18-24 year olds, so who else am I going to approach in there?

Watch for approach signals and for girls who are standing around / looking around. These are the chicks who are looking to get laid. Don't just go in blind.
 

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Watch for approach signals and for girls who are standing around / looking around. These are the chicks who are looking to get laid. Don't just go in blind.
To make the most of the night and get into a social flow, I prefer to approach as much as possible, especially challenging sets where the girls are much younger. Who knows, I may even get lucky.
 

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To make the most of the night and get into a social flow, I prefer to approach as much as possible, especially challenging sets where the girls are much younger. Who knows, I may even get lucky.

Honestly, just go in short before it is closing. The girls still looking to get laid will be there or may be open to it right after closing.
 

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Honestly, just go in short before it is closing. The girls still looking to get laid will be there or may be open to it right after closing.
Yeah, but I lack the expertise. And the tickets I purchased specify entry before 1030pm.

I can't just get into the club when I want to.
 

HeartOfChaos

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Honestly, just go in short before it is closing. The girls still looking to get laid will be there or may be open to it right after closing.

OP: Mirror is right. The later you go, the better your chances are, typically. I was going to suggest this myself. You begin to notice quickly which girls are actively looking to hook up later in the night.

Say you get in the club at 10.30, and it's open till 3am... You gonna waste 4 hours there just hanging around doing approaches to build "social momentum"? And you don't even seem like you enjoy the vibe or the music there... No wonder you are burning your sets into the ground and get noticed by security.
 

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To make the most of the night and get into a social flow, I prefer to approach as much as possible, especially challenging sets where the girls are much younger. Who knows, I may even get lucky.

Why do you want to make it extra difficult for yourself with challenging sets ? Surely if you want to get laid, you want to make it easier for yourself, not harder?
 
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