@Fluxcapacitor i meant that particular text. when i ask a girl out on the first message i often don’t get responses.
Calls & Texts Check-In Text If You Haven't Texted in a While
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@Jimmyshap dude! That particular text can work but you've got to calibrate to your experience. If your experience shows girls you've interacted with aren't responsive to this style of message go indirect/ slightly platonic just to gauge her interest first.
Ya can try the I've just been reminded of you text, hey name I've just seen blah blah that reminded me of you, hope you're well. I've been really slammed at work but just starting to calm down.... you let her know you thought of her which is why you're messaging, you're considerate hoping she's well and you've shared a little bit about yourself why you were busy. You can purposely not ask her anything, this provides value and baits a response. It avoids boring questions of how are you, if you've got something better if you knew she had a work deadline feel free to ask this for consideration.
That text is still relevant, but you have other options if it doesn't work for you dude!
Ya can try the I've just been reminded of you text, hey name I've just seen blah blah that reminded me of you, hope you're well. I've been really slammed at work but just starting to calm down.... you let her know you thought of her which is why you're messaging, you're considerate hoping she's well and you've shared a little bit about yourself why you were busy. You can purposely not ask her anything, this provides value and baits a response. It avoids boring questions of how are you, if you've got something better if you knew she had a work deadline feel free to ask this for consideration.
That text is still relevant, but you have other options if it doesn't work for you dude!
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I saw something in the chats.
Thought this might give some context on how to give parting text, too. Another thing: Time constraints work when two things happened
- 1)she likes you
- 2)she gives specific instruction
Sidtenote: Recent posts on girls dumping their shit on you, where fog and Chase noted this. I believe that post has relation to this. If she is getting more specifics and/or also randomly, the only thing left is the other half, Compliance.
She likes You + Specifics (whether instruction or story to build as current and/or future state) + 'wAHmen YOU MUST OBEY ME' (asking for compliance)= Chances of lay goes up
Sorry for the CAPs. Got a little too excited.
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Thought this might give some context on how to give parting text, too. Another thing: Time constraints work when two things happened
- 1)she likes you
- 2)she gives specific instruction
Sidtenote: Recent posts on girls dumping their shit on you, where fog and Chase noted this. I believe that post has relation to this. If she is getting more specifics and/or also randomly, the only thing left is the other half, Compliance.
She likes You + Specifics (whether instruction or story to build as current and/or future state) + 'wAHmen YOU MUST OBEY ME' (asking for compliance)= Chances of lay goes up
Sorry for the CAPs. Got a little too excited.
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You field tested and those were your results, go by your field testing... This post is over 10 years old, please guys not bumping old post...
