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Chicks examining me with their eyes from head to legs during indirect day game? 🤔

Ronnie

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As posted in a previous post, in addition to direct approaches where I basically still play a number's game I am also doing many indirect approaches with the only goal of improving my fundamentals. Things like speaking calmly, kicking back, having the right posture, having a clear mind during the interactions etc. This are things I still can't do well during direct approaches where the tension generated by showing them interest kinda takes over, so I am basically using indirect game to train all of this until I feel totally comfortable and natural in doing these things. Watching advanced guys or naturals in action, I think these things (combined with style, grooming, working out and all of that) can increase my ROI over the long term.

In the last few days, I had various sets and there are two that made me curious. I ask for vague directions, it turns into a conversation (with the girl engaging at least as much as me), then a few laughs, a bit of chat and towards the end they both do this very peculiar thing: while half smiling they literally size me up, starting from my head going down to my legs and back up.

I don't really know how to interpret this.
They dig me and are trying to assess my sexual prowness?
They are frustrated I didn't transition to showing them interest and are trying to give me some shit for it?
They dislike me?

What's your take on it, guys?
 
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Sounds like an IOI - move into qualification, make them earn a compliment, then give it and proceed
 

DarkKnight

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Elevator gaze... can be sizing up someone as well. Would not say it is a clear IOI just yet. But I would say it means you are considered a sexual option.

Never mind I stand corrected below 🙂
 
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Chase

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@Ronnie,

It's called 'checking you out'. Bunch of examples here:


There's another solid scene in the new (2022) Batman film where Batman is in Selina's apartment:

BATMAN: You got a lot of cats.​
SELINA: [checks out Batman] I have a thing about strays.​
BATMAN: [checks out Selina] You're not safe here. [leaves]​

From that point on you know there's a mutual attraction between the two. Before that it's up in the air. After it, it's clear. All it took was a little two-party check out.

Generally speaking, if a girl checks you out, check her out back.

Then:

move into qualification, make them earn a compliment, then give it and proceed

Chase
 
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