College dating tips other than Cold Approach?

[FunkMaster69]

Hey so I've recently went back to college to finish my degree. I'm a senior so I only have 1 year left.

The thing is, I don't have time to slow game and build a huge social circle, yet cold approach doesn't really work at college (from my experience). Most girls care about their reputations and such. I usually ask girls out to coffee and even then I get told that I'm too forward. How am I supposed to get to know them if I can't even get a coffee date?

Any and all tips would be appreciated. I'm just trying to get a gf as I don't really want a player reputation...

 

[Derek da man]

You're right that girls want to protect their reputation but why should coffee with you damage that? Do you have a reputation?

It sounds more like that you haven't built enough rapport with girls that are interested. Girls will be polite and pleasant but that doesn't mean they are interested in you beyond the public interactions.

In my experience there are lots of college girls are often very interested in short term hook-ups or insta-dates etc. Equally there are a lot who aren't. You need to work out which ones are, build rapport then move them and escalate. You also need to be able to do it discretely to maintain the public image.

When I was at college I was useless with girls but having got older I've had a lot of fun with college girls, it's just a case of working out the ones that are interested and pass the rest by.

 

[ulrich]

#1) Work on your calibration. It’s not bad to be forward… if girls are telling you that you are too forward, you’re either going too fast or missing some playful banter.
For both cases, time and experience will help you improve.

#2) Dont worry too much about college. As long you don’t get complacent, your better seduction years are yet to come.
College is the best part of life only for those who stop living after college.

 

[HumanWhoLearns]

Todd V has a good video on this. Basically, if the girl is around people all the time you're supposed to treat it like social circle game. If she's alone or if you can isolate then you can run your normal game. I think it's especially important to show some intent so you don't get stuck in the friend zone. It shows you have confidence which separates you from all the other guys she knows from school.

In your case, I'd work on building attraction through game techniques and also inner game (confidence & reducing neediness). You'll find girls are much more receptive after you've worked on these things.

 

[Fuck This]

Question...you said BACK TO COLLEGE. are you older than your classmates? If so that is ok ...it is just that university girls tend to be more concerned about reputation especially in the Greek system.

You still have to build a social circle. It can center around your classes and the subject matter. If you know your Shit straight up and down, women WILL use you for your knowledge. It has potential to attract them to you if you don't come off as creepy.