College Women and Men in their 30's Help

[flguy1988]

Hey, I am a 32 year old man, stay in shape etc. Live in Tampa, FL college town. Thought about moving to Miami or somewhere else but my issue if you want to call it that is that the women who go out are mostly in there 19-24 year old range. I have no problem talking to and trying to but I worry about the issues that can come up. I love night game and going to the bars and my fears are always the same. Am I creepy older guy? Even if i did manage to have a few good conversation and have the opportunity to take her home would she regret it and claim a false rape charge? How can I live my dreams and get through this stigma or should I just work online and move to a city like Miami, or even Latin america where age really doesn't matter. Are college ages women attracted to men in there 30's and even 40's if you stay hot? Any examples from the men in there 30's and 40's who have success please post and what has worked.

The women 25+ don't go out as much and really would lead me to happy hours etc which aren't fun.

Thank you!

 

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Give those a read. There are plenty of older dudes smashing younger girls. Young girls love older men. They prefer them to younger men. So really you shouldn't have any issues so long as you are an attractive guy.

 

[Skills]

Hey, I am a 32 year old man, stay in shape etc. Live in Tampa, FL college town. Thought about moving to Miami or somewhere else but my issue if you want to call it that is that the women who go out are mostly in there 19-24 year old range. I have no problem talking to and trying to but I worry about the issues that can come up. I love night game and going to the bars and my fears are always the same. Am I creepy older guy? Even if i did manage to have a few good conversation and have the opportunity to take her home would she regret it and claim a false rape charge? How can I live my dreams and get through this stigma or should I just work online and move to a city like Miami, or even Latin america where age really doesn't matter. Are college ages women attracted to men in there 30's and even 40's if you stay hot? Any examples from the men in there 30's and 40's who have success please post and what has worked.

The women 25+ don't go out as much and really would lead me to happy hours etc which aren't fun.

Thank you!

Total none sense, men are the most attractive between 35-38.... I am in Florida i tell you for a fact is totally not an issue.. even my wing is your age or older no issues... But you need to believe this yourself, if you have this limiting belief it will make you act weird when interacting you are going to make the girl feel weird... Women love men 10 year looks age their senior...


all these dudes reach peaked on the 30 plus:

 

[Zoro]

As these guys are saying, age is not the issue you here, it's your mindset/beliefs about age that are fucking you up.

Am I creepy older guy? Even if i did manage to have a few good conversation and have the opportunity to take her home would she regret it and claim a false rape charge?

These kind of thoughts are not helpful.

Most men want to know how much of a challenge something is going to be, hoping for a small or easy thing. Instead you could embrace the challenge, know it will take work and that it will be worth it if it's really what you want. You'll grow and you'll eventually succeed, if you embrace it as it is– a challenge with things to figure out, fears to face, and effort to be put into it. Not going to be easy, but that doesn't mean it's not do-able.

 

[alleniverson]

I am in the Upper end of the age range of the girls you’re referring to. Girls my age literally want guys your age Lol. Many of my girl friends, who are hot, have their Hinge/other dating app ages set from like 28-40. It’s a mental belief, my man.

Fun relevant anecdote - My good friend who is a girl, lives elsewhere in Florida But is originally from Tampa, 24 y/o, literally banged some ~35 year old in the bathroom of a bar recently. And she is a hot and not that trashy despite what the story may indicate. So go get ‘em!

 

[Fuck This]

Qualify them. "you really are more mature than most girls your age..."

By the standard "half your age plus seven rule" 23 works....

Focus on the bars attached to nicer restaurants. You are looking for recent college grads who are earning good enough money to go out with the girls for Cosmo's and appetizers. Their friends are getting married and their Biological clocks aren't clicking TOTALLY just yet. They are LOOKING for that solid guy with a job and a car who doesn't get Trashed and start fights in the club, but who is fun. You have to be confident in your looks, and career and not worry about the opinion of some GIRL....

 

[Derek da man]

Am I creepy older guy?

This will come accross if you feel you are, fix your belief, be confident and be socially calibrated.

Total none sense, men are the most attractive between 35-38....... Women love men 10 year looks age their senior...

Agree - and they don't usually limit themselves to "10 years", they are very open to a mature confident man

Qualify them. "you really are more mature than most girls your age..."

By the standard "half your age plus seven rule" 23 works....

Focus on the bars attached to nicer restaurants. You are looking for recent college grads who are earning good enough money to go out with the girls for Cosmo's and appetizers. Their friends are getting married and their Biological clocks aren't clicking TOTALLY just yet. They are LOOKING for that solid guy with a job and a car who doesn't get Trashed and start fights in the club, but who is fun. You have to be confident in your looks, and career and not worry about the opinion of some GIRL....

- really good advice

I've just turned the big 50 and I still have girls in their 20s looking for me to make overtures to them, some are very forward about it too. Occasionally even a 19 year old. Go back 4 years and I wouldn't have believed any would be interested; just shows how the biggest limitation is your own belief system. I'm not the best looking, I dress well with a quiet air of confidence and intreague. I don't push my luck with women, I let them know I'm interested and available and then wait for them to show interest which they invariably do.

 

[Chase]

With night game I will tell you it depends to an extent what venues you frequent.

If you go to the college bar where everyone is under 22 and they're all college classmates, unless you are a really well put together older guy (30s to 50s) you'll have trouble with a lot of the girls there. You'll still likely find a few free thinkers and/or old guy lovers who are okay with you, but they'll be outliers.

However, if you go to the eclectic club with a broader crowd, and it's a mix of different ages, including a lot of late teens and early twenty-somethings, you shouldn't have problems if your fundamentals are halfway decent.

The main obstacle you have to worry about is "school mentality", where the girl is constantly surrounded by age peers and thinks anyone a year older than her is ancient and anyone a year younger than her is an infant. If she's not in school (either due to graduation or not ever having enrolled) you won't have this issue, particularly so the longer she's been out of school and in the real world... many girls need a little time to readjust their filters and realize older guys are more attractive and put together than a lot of the guys their ages. Or, if she's a gal with a thing for older guys, you obviously won't have an issue even if she is in school.

In general, the girls with "school mentality" cluster in bars where they can stay around those who are just their age peers, where they feel more comfortable.

That said, even if that's all that's in your area, it's not necessarily a lost cause. I have SNL'ed some very good-looking late teens and early 20-something girls from college bars despite being a lot older than them. It's a lot easier if you roll in with a wingman who's your age though, I will say. Gets you instant social proof as "That one crazy guy who is just like us and a part of our circle even though he's so old."

Chase

 

[DonGately]

I'm 40s and have no trouble picking up in Miami or in the NE. Miami girls of literally any age like older men.

 

[Skills]

I'm 40s and have no trouble picking up in Miami or in the NE. Miami girls of literally any age like older men.

Same

 

[flguy1988]

Tampa I am set up on Howard Ave if anyone is familiar so I have all the bars/clubs there. I know it is a big University of Tampa crowd etc.. Would I be ok at places like Hyde park Cafe or Macdintons? Should I consider St Pete, or Miami? In Miami the logistics were tough because I was in 33179 zip which was 20-30 min away from downtown and nightlife. Also so you guys are saying just approach be confident and cocky and act the same even with women 20-25 years old which seem to be the ones I focus on at least with nightlife and I can still get them? Of course I am in good shape, tall etc.

 

[flguy1988]

This just gets me to think I should have moved to Miami not tampa lol Or Orlando's nightlife would be better ?? Or are those spots in Tampa fine and I am overthinking it ?

 

[DonGately]

It's always better to be closer/walking but a 20 min Uber ride in Miami isn't that long. In NYC, going across town basically takes you that long or from the 20s to the 70s with moderate traffic.

 

[Skills]

This just gets me to think I should have moved to Miami not tampa lol Or Orlando's nightlife would be better ?? Or are those spots in Tampa fine and I am overthinking it ?

Tampa is a toilet, sorry...

 

[POB]

Hey, I am a 32 year old man, stay in shape etc.

Nah, too young to seduce them in my opinion Lol. Don't worry, you are still on the path to reach the high point of your powers. Lots of guys do that at their early to mid 40s. Just relax and you'll be fine

 

[DonGately]

Honestly I hit my peak for picking up college girls starting around 41.

 

[Therasen]

I don't know what crack you guys are smoking. Every 18-22 year old girl I meet (I'm 29) is dating a guy 2-3 years older than them at most, and most of the guys I know in their late 30s or 40s are not banging young women and haven't done so for many years.

 

[Teevster]

Am I creepy older guy?

No.

Why? Because you are not old.

When did we become old at 32.

PS: the older I get, the more women seems to dig me.

Best,
Teevster

 

[JMarq]

Dude - get out of your own head. Stop listening to that socially conditioned bull-shit. I'm 35 - I just had phone sex with two twenty-two year olds from the Caribbean. My ex was 19 when I met her at 32. Younger women are hotter - sometimes more annoying but well worth it. As soon as Covid is over I'm going to run through a bunch more young ass.

The only time you'd be creepy would be if you're looking to get with a girl who is underage. In that case, yeah you're a creepy criminal. 32 is your peak dude. It's literally the most attractive you can get to an early twenties woman.

Women don't mature much mentally after about 17 anyway. Do any of you actually know any mature women? Is your mum a fully mature woman. Are they fuck - they act like children regardless of their age.

If you want a wing to pick up younger (but still legal obviously) chicks - come to the DR with me next month. Open invite.

 

[JMarq]

Where do you live man? In South America, Asia and Africa - ie most of the world, it's perfectly normal to date women decades younger than yourself if your an attractive guy. I'm based in the UK and also easily manage it.