As the Title suggests - is crying good or bad?
Of course, I don't mean crying as a seduction method, nor do I mean crying in front of people. But occasionally crying at home, alone, would you say it's beneficial for your overall emotional and mental health as a man? And does the reason for crying matter or not (i.e. are some things more okay to make you cry than others)?
I'm asking this because I felt like crying yesterday, though in the end I didn't. Then the same thing happened today, and again, couldn't do it. And that made me reflect back on the last time I cried, and I honestly couldn't remember. I know for a fact I haven't done it since I got into game, which was 2 years ago, so it's been at the very least 2 years, but likely much longer.
Personally, I think the reason I felt like doing it yesterday and today is because the last 2 weeks have been so eventful for me. I slept with 5 new girls in that time, which is by far my personal record. With one of them I had a really strong connection, she spent multiple days night at my place, we bonded a lot, probably more than with anyone else in the past 2 years, and then one day she just pulled back. The reason is not important (she is leaving the country in a week, I'm guessing she's trying to preserve her emotions), but the last 2 weeks have definitely been an emotional roller-coaster for me, and I think I just feel like letting it out somehow.
I'm really interested in what your experience has been with crying. Is that something you simply do every once in a while, and if so, how often do you do it? Do you think that men shouldn't cry, unless it's something truly tragic e.g. death of a family member? Have you cried over girls? Do you still do it?
Of course, I don't mean crying as a seduction method, nor do I mean crying in front of people. But occasionally crying at home, alone, would you say it's beneficial for your overall emotional and mental health as a man? And does the reason for crying matter or not (i.e. are some things more okay to make you cry than others)?
I'm asking this because I felt like crying yesterday, though in the end I didn't. Then the same thing happened today, and again, couldn't do it. And that made me reflect back on the last time I cried, and I honestly couldn't remember. I know for a fact I haven't done it since I got into game, which was 2 years ago, so it's been at the very least 2 years, but likely much longer.
Personally, I think the reason I felt like doing it yesterday and today is because the last 2 weeks have been so eventful for me. I slept with 5 new girls in that time, which is by far my personal record. With one of them I had a really strong connection, she spent multiple days night at my place, we bonded a lot, probably more than with anyone else in the past 2 years, and then one day she just pulled back. The reason is not important (she is leaving the country in a week, I'm guessing she's trying to preserve her emotions), but the last 2 weeks have definitely been an emotional roller-coaster for me, and I think I just feel like letting it out somehow.
I'm really interested in what your experience has been with crying. Is that something you simply do every once in a while, and if so, how often do you do it? Do you think that men shouldn't cry, unless it's something truly tragic e.g. death of a family member? Have you cried over girls? Do you still do it?
R: If you are by YOURSELF, feel free to do whatever you want