I never pay for shit I split everything 50/50. If she don’t like it I say “do you have a job?” If she says no downgrade her and say are you a lazy persons without motivation? Makes her feel guilty
if yes then she can easily pay and it’s not a problem.
And how is this working for you to get laid???
guys btw is not like i do not get my $20 or whatever first dates investment back, as we date, women spend waaaaaayyyy more than that on me for the duration of the relationship.... I am also talking in the context pre fuck