DoWhatWorks City Daygame

[DoWhatWorks]

Hi guys,

I'm at a point where I consistently get numbers and from Daygame. Roughly 2-3 a week without much effort on my part as I do it while grocery shopping, lunchtime walking or on public transport.

Dates are coming in pretty easily too now but my missing link is converting those dates to girls I sleep with and MLTR's. I have a foundation from online but think I have to make more tweaks in being more sexual on dates as I can't rely on the context of the app.

My vibe is super warm and friendly which is great for building comfort but I now need to layer on a sexual vibe in a calibrated way (which is tough for me!).

Writing this journal sporadically for lightbulb moments and to get additional thoughts on my situations too.

My short term aim for this is to get a high end MLTR (to add to the 2 I already have) before reaching a long term aim of "absolute abundance" where I know I can get high quality girls into my life on auto-pilot by just going about my day.

 

[DoWhatWorks]

11.1.21

Number Close - Slim blonde dancer on my lunchbreak today

Outfits

I had a black parka jacket, slim fit black tracksuit and white trainers. Think sport wear made presentable.

She had a puffy black bomber jacket and black baggy joggers with white trainers. Ironically looking back she had a very similar outfit to me and I hadn't even realised until I wrote this out lol.

Approach

She was walking her dog who stopped on a corner and as I walked past I said "that's a great excuse to get outside the house" she replied with "I have another one at home" and that's when I stopped and spoke as she bit the bait.

We speak about the dog before transitioning to learning about each other. She's a dancer and always lived in London. I talk about how much I love the area and mentally checked out from lockdown.

I propose a walk (that's my lockdown proof date) and we agree that this Wednesday afternoon while she walks her dog will be good. She was a bit coy and unwilling to lock down a day/time so it's not too strong of a lead but we'll see how it goes.


Prediction

I'd say this is a 2.5/5 lead. She was conversational and opened up without me asking much but may be out of boredom if anything. My prediction is that she postpones the date and it fizzles out. If I'm pleasantly surprised cool but we'll see how it goes.

 

[DoWhatWorks]

15.1.21

Number Close - Pretty economic student on my lunchbreak today

Outfits

Same as my last post. I had a black parka jacket, slim fit black tracksuit and white trainers.

She had a puffy purple north face jacket and cream corduroy trousers with dirty white trainers. These kind of girls give me mixed feelings as they tend to be gorgeous, intelligent and with solid family backgrounds but dress quite badly (in my opinion) because it's edgy and in fashion I guess.

Ah well... In terms of aesthetics she was brunette with blonde highlights and really nice teeth and brown eyes.

Anyone else notice that girls' nails are terrible recently??? Think because nail bars are closed but I digress lol...

Approach

I was walking into the park and spotted her behind me. She doesn't enter and walks off in a parallel to the park route on the pavement so I get back out, catch up with her then grab her attention with an arm wave before saying "hi I saw you and thought you looked cool so wanted to say Hi"

She says thanks and stops. She seems very calm and chill which tends to be a good sign. Ask her if she's like me and taking a break after WFH and turns out she's an economic student who's always lived in London.

Funnily enough her name is the exact same as the last girl I number closed ahahahah.

Qualify her with economics and how she's clearly smart as I expected her to do fashion and I propose a walk (as usual) and we agree that this late Sunday afternoon would work.

Body language

Chill and relaxed with my hands in my pockets and back upright. I also seeded in the exact time and date just after I was about to leave so it's an after-thought and doesn't appear too keen which I think didn't do me any favours with the last girl.

Number close

My battery was running low so I gave her my number and got her to msg me on whatsapp. I think I may make this my staple as it sets a chase frame right away. It's also a test to see how invested a girl is too.


Prediction

I'd say this is a 3/5 lead. She agreed to a date in 2 days time and she had that calm accepting vibe which is good. When a girl's too chatty/friendly they're just being nice and if they aren't giving you anything they aren't interested.

This seemed to be that right middle of the road but we'll see.

Onwards & Upwards

 

[DoWhatWorks]

Recap on previous number closes:

They went nowhere. The dancer was expected and she didn't reply to my initial message. The economics student was a bit more of a surprise because she blocked me lol. Think the whole "running after a girl thing" is too polarizing. I need to make sure I don't hesitate and smoothly open girls when they're first close to me to make it seem more "accidental" and "fate brought us together" like instead.

I also find that the 4 girls a day rule is gold. I seem to be consistently getting a number every 4 girls I approach.


21.1.21

Number Close - blonde Australian girl on the way home from shopping

Outfits

>> My outfit: Grey overcoat buttoned up, denim blue skinny jeans and white trainers.

>> Her Outfit: Black shearling jacket, dark grey jumper, navy blue yoga pants and white trainers

>> Her Aesthetics/Vibe: Very little makeup (which I like) and quite a bubbly open personality

Approach

On the way back from the shop I notice her and she walks past... I then spin round walk to the side of her and say excuse me, saw you and liked your outfit and wanted to say Hi. From there we chat about how she's just moved from Ireland, but is Australian work etc etc.

If I'm honest I think I stayed in convo a little too long (5 minutes) as I was enjoying it after going through 3 rejections back to back before her.

Body language

Usual chilled relaxed with my body upright and hand in pockets. Even squeezed in touching when I moved her away from a car driving close by placing my hand on her back and moving her gently. To which she said "what a gentleman"

Number close

I'm implementing the whole get her to message me on whatsapp first to get the chase frame rolling. She sent me "G'day" and I followed up with a voicenote today and she replied with 2 paragraphs which is a positive sign.


Prediction

I'd say this is a 2.5/5 lead. She agreed to a Sunday walk but I sensed the hesitation. Also think she's finding it refreshing that she's been approached on the street but I'm not necessarily her usual type but we'll see. I also get an enthusiastic innocence vibe from her I.E shy excited girl which will be interesting to see if I'm right if it does go anywhere.


Onwards & Upwards

 

[DoWhatWorks]

Side note: Be present in DG and ditch the phone... I literally find it meditative/relaxing at this point... Like a fun game

I missed out on another number today by being too focused on my phone (as I was replying to the above girl).

My eyes met another blonde (no idea why I'm attracting blondes... I've always been a brunette man) as we walked past each other and gave warm smiles. I then pointed to my ears and mouthed "what are you listening" to but she carried on walking. As I went back to look at my phone I notice her look back as she 2nd guessed herself & realised I had spoken to her.

By the time I looked up to re-engage she was further away and the moment had passed. I could have probably jogged after her but it wouldn't have been as smooth and I was nearing the end of my lunch break.

 

[Nicko]

Hey thats a good advice on ditching the phone, im hooked onto it lol when im cold approaching during the day.

Question 1: If you see a girl that is walking infront of you but not close enough to open( like 2-3 meteres away) but she glances back/ show ioi would you run up to her and close the distance to approach? i have speed walked to catch up to them and its a pain but i don't want to not come off as un-smooth.

Question 2: You see a girl infront of you and demonstrates ioi(flick hair, glances at you ect.), as you catch up to her and you made up ur mind to approach her but she then turns left/right to a shop/different venue. Would you still approach?? i skipped out on a lot of girls that suddenly go into venues when they demostrated iois to me. I feel kinda off by following them when they are going to a female dominated venue like: girls make up stores, Victoria Seceret, girls clothing stores. what do you think?

 

[DoWhatWorks]

thats a good advice on ditching the phone, im hooked onto it lol when im cold approaching during the day.

I used to be same. Leaving it it forces you to be more aware & it makes for smoother opens too.

: If you see a girl that is walking infront of you but not close enough to open( like 2-3 meteres away) but she glances back/ show ioi would you run up to her and close the distance to approach?

In this instance I speed walk... past her before I then glance back so it looks more incidental. This combined with a situational opener about her e.g. Ankle jewellery makes the convo very smooth. I met my current FB of 1yr this way.

“Hi I walked passed & couldn’t help but notice that anklet... What’s the story behind it?”

When possible I also time the walk past her near a road that splits off. I can then pretend I’m about to walk in the opposite direction so she feels like there’s no awkward walking side by side and this guy was going about his business and we “bumped into each other”.

You see a girl infront of you and demonstrates ioi(flick hair, glances at you ect.), as you catch up to her and you made up ur mind to approach her but she then turns left/right to a shop/different venue

This one is tougher and I’m still working it out. It’s why no hesitation is so important as it’s far easier & more comfortable to make conversation after the IOI rather than pausing & losing her.

For me if a girl goes into a side street I’ll quickly approach... If it’s a shop I cut my losses lol.

I DG locally so don’t want to raise red flags.

Currently experimenting with strong eye contact, smile and standing still before waving her over.

Interested to see what others say though!

 

[DoWhatWorks]

27.1.21

4/5 approaches today in 2 different outings. 1 was during my lunch break and one after work when I got tired of staring at my screen.

2 girls hooked. 1 had a boyfriend so I left it and the other wasn't attractive as I initially thought when I spoke to her up close.

In hindsight there would of been no harm in taking her number but I want to only focus on girls I'm excited about this year. Paid my dues on "meh" girls and want to take it up a notch.

Purpose of this post is to show that the "grind" so to speak doesn't stop. No one is sleeping is with 50%+ with their approaches unless they're selling you a PUA course. Hence why I'm focusing on this social butterfly approach to make it as "fun" and sustainable as it can be.

Online definitely had me burnt out and fed up at one point and hoping I can avoid that with D.G

So far so good as even when it doesn't work out girls treat and respond to you a lot more kindly and I see the process as 2 birds in 1 stone as it improves my social skills as well as my sex life.

Onwards and upwards x

 

[DoWhatWorks]

04.03.21

Still been doing day game intermittently and nothing crazy to report. One thing I wanted to share that may help others is how I've been getting numbers a lot more smoothly and it's made some of my interactions very flawless just by making a few tweaks in how I position myself.

The below approaches took place after I had a break mainly due to bad weather & frustration of continual numbers going nowhere. After reflecting I realised I was getting down as I was outcome dependant so I need to remind myself to focus on the process and not the end result.

Example 1

I was on a way to a house party and was walking to the nearby station where I would call an Uber. While crossing the road I noticed a girl on my left walking down the hill but she was quite some distance away. I stayed still then pretended to play on my phone.

It ends up being 2 girls and they try to get into a shop for drinks which was closed. I laugh and tell them I did the same thing (which I didn't lol) and we start having a conversation.

Long story short I win girl 1 over while girl 2 goes to a nearby cash point and she is the best wing woman (almost too good lol) and I get the number of girl 2.

I sadly miss an escalation window as girl 2 invites me back to drink with them but I have a party to go to so I decline. She doesn't reply to my text the next day but it's all good. It was a very quick number grab that happened simply by me positioning myself correctly


Example 2

Again on a way to another houseparty and go to the station to book my uber. There's no real reason for me to book it at the station and not just outside my house except for the fact that there's more footfall near underground stations so it increases my chance to meet someone new.

I compliment a girl as she walks past me who has the same jacket as me in a different colour. Quick vibe then number exchange as my uber was on its way. Again this number goes nowhere as she says over text that she's out of a relationship & still hurting (she did mention being freshly single in person). No biggie I said feel free to find me when ready.

Daygame is all about lifestyle and that's why I love it. I'm doing less of the run after the girl type approaches but they served their purpose.

I know if I just carry on living my life I'm almost "incidentally" going to end up with someone new.

Side note / Ramblings

The above girls didn't say anything about "do you do this a lot" like other girls have in the past. It's fascinating how much "acting" comes into play to make it "feel natural". I guess you reach a point where it's not acting anymore & it's just who you're but I'm still on that journey.

Probably explains why girls are more "spiritual" and think things "just happen" because as the woman it probably feels that way. As a man you have to be very intentional and consistent to get the results you want (in dating and life in general).

Hell I even notice this with my main where I have to keep track of train times, schedules, ensuring we don't drink too much when together, remembering to wear condoms and she's just like la la la live love life and she's not a bimbo - she speaks multiple languages & has a masters.

I digress - If any of you want some light girls & guys dynamic humour Youtube "Kevin Samuels" lol.

My side biz is also hitting record highs this month so life's good. Girls are at the bottom of my priority list after gym & biz but cool I can keep the top end of the funnel active in quite a low maintenance way.

Onwards & upwards

 

[DoWhatWorks]

Reviving this thread.

Been on a mini-hiatus for most of last year, hit some personal targets and now being pro-active with girls again.

Went on apps and long story short, I think my previous automation got me shadow banned as the quality was horrific. This could be fixed with new phone, sim, apple account, pics etc. but I thought fuck that let me double down on offline instead. I got x2 new numbers (best out of a bad batch) that I don't think will go anywhere but in any case I'm doubling down on offline.

Think this will be a cool record to see my build this from close to 0 to multiple FB's/MLTRs. I found my last posts useful to help me start again.

What's my approach in 2024?

Spoiler: Lifestyle changes

• Combine work and play. Rather than work in my flat 99% of the time, I'm going to make it 60% in flat & 40% in coffee shops, libraries etc. then talk to girls in, to and from those locations
• Rotate neighborhoods to not burn areas out. I'll stay relatively near me to increase % chance of meeting girls who live close
• I mapped out the kind of girl I like & the kind of venues she'd go to - I'll be more intentional with where I spend my time
• No online blitz until I hit my financial target for the year. When I do - I'll automate the whole process with VAs. I don't know anyone personally doing it. If I get this right? I'll enjoy easy lays and maybe even package/up sell the process
• Get good at central London pulls. I avoided this and went to local bars but my wing is doing 2-4 lays a month consistently so I can too
• I may also experiment with going out solo in local bars to supplement the volume and great for building core confidence

Spoiler: Improved Fundamentals

My wardrobe is good but needs a revamp. Substantial amount of my "key pieces" are worn out. I'm also tracking my habits (something I embarrassingly haven't consistently done before) to ensure I work out 3x a week at least too

Spoiler: Maintaining a consistent "good mood"

I'm very vibes/mood influenced. When I feel like I'm in a good momentum lays and openers are effortless. When in a rut I feel like I'm bothering people. Going to focus on consistent "small wins" e.g. work outs, biz targets, sports, exploring new things, inspiring conversations with friend's, to transfer across to girls and do better

04.01.24


As part of me changing my lifestyle to have the opportunity to talk to more girls, I walked to run some errands which I would have ubered in the past.

Pinged/spoke to x2 girls that went nowhere but following the process and easing myself back in. Definitely rusty & experiencing AA but I'll shake that off with more reps and recent success

Spoiler: Girl 1 - Bus Stop

Complimented a girl on her outfit. She seemed appreciative but politely uinterested by giving a warm thank you followed by "have a good day" which is a kind "we're done here". Respectfully took the hint and warmly said bye

Spoiler: Girl 2 Tube

Complimented a girl's outfit on the way out a train, warmly said thanks then quickly left. Took it as a polite sign that she wasn't interested in the convo and held back

Onwards & Upwards x

 

[DoWhatWorks]

6.1.23

Slowly but surely shaking of my rust lol. Estimate I did around 10-15 approaches yesterday. 3 from day game and rest from nightgame.

Feels good to know I'm not completely starting from 0 because some of my number closes were pretty smooth if I say so myself

Spoiler: Girl on Subway escalator

On the way to have lunch with a friend I saw a girl walk up an escalator who was cute and petite. Walked past her, made sure there was a few steps between us then looked over my shoulder, smiled and complimented her outfit. She was warm/receptive, complimented my outfit and we started a casual conversation. Complimented her on being warm/upbeat unlike most people in London and exchanged numbers (but it's a weak lead because she spoke about seeing someone so don't expect much to come out of it... Still good practice

Spoiler: Girl on the way to the gym

Similar thing to the last girl. I was walking on a main road to the tube station on the way to a friend fo drinks. Complimented her outfit saying she's somehow made winter look good and made a self-deprecating joke about how I look like "I'm about to rob a bank" because of my snood. She was bubbly and fun, lived near me and we had a cool back and forth. I squeezed in light sexual prizing and she even made a cute joke about how our names were similar and made a cute pairing. Quite a strong lead but unfortunately I didn't save her number, answered a call from a friend and lost it. Shame but I'll get better and either screenshot or call the number right away so it's on my call records to refer back to later. The fact I'm annoyed at this also shows I need more volume of numbers too.

Lesson from this above close - when you get a number give it a quick call so it's in your history. I lost this one lol

Spoiler: Nightgame approaches

By far queuing up at the bar is where I got the most warm receptions. Easy to go in-direct with how's your night going, make a comment on their drink choice, tease girls for similar outfits, make observations about their facial expressions e.g. you seem very serious, how many people have pushed in front of you? etc etc. Got about 2 numbers from the night. Loads I didn't bother with when finding out logistics that they live far away

Worth adding explictly here - with nightgame you want to approach girls in a way that looks friendly externally. If other girls see you "blatantly" hitting on other girls it can lead to greater resistance as you're labelled a player who "hits on all girls" as my wing got accused of... Funnily he still got her number but I think prevention is better than the cure.

Spoiler: Being asked for Instagram

So far, girls from nightgame most the time ask for Instagram. If I ask for number instead many don't believe I'm de-activated/don't really use it. Some even decline the number and I let it go. One girl even wanted to search my apps then when she saw there was no IG gave her number lol. I think in girls experiences guys who don't share IG secretly have girlfriends, wives or are just rampant players. So I guess I fit category 3 at times *shrugs* I may experiment with creating a new account, buying some followers for social proof and see if it helps with these "yellow" girls. I doubt it but important to always experiment and try new things.

Right now I'm embracing asymmetric returns and putting in the numbers.

May also look at going out solo locally as I'm getting bored of talking to cute girls who live 2 hours away lol... This matters to me because my ultimate aim is getting more attractive & compatible girls into my rotation. Having them live locally increases the odds of that.

Onwards & Upwards x