So I went out again, but this time it was a spot I always liked a lot. This spot changed since last time; they were not playing any good music at all and there were barely any people there. I actually got dressed up nice for this thinking it would be a better night.
There was an empty spot in the club where I usually like to go and they moved it, I circled around a few times, but it wasn’t a good night. Many girls there were with their boyfriends or group of friends, none of them were off to themselves to make an approach easier.
Not saying that you can’t pull in that situation, but I wasn’t feeling the vibe to approach in that situation.
What I mostly see is girls with their bfs, why do couples always go to the club? I swear it seems like there are more couples than single people in clubs now.
The music was very bad and I just wasn’t feeling the vibe at all, so I left and went to another club.
This other club was too bright for my taste and very clickly, everyone was in a group and knew each other making it hard for me to be able to come and pull girls from it. I didn’t like that place either because it was too small and I felt like I couldn’t really move around. Left that place too.
It was at the point I was thinking of just going to the strip club or something, but didn’t.
I’m really not good with women being in groups and pulling from them, I’m more of the guy who peels off the girl that is off from the group.
Can’t stand nights like these and I really liked this place too, it makes me worry that it might suck now.
It also got me to thinking, how did guys with high lay counts from clubs deal with this?
Continuously going out and might have bad nights, moving solo, wasting time, etc.?
While doing this I’m like, this sucks that if the venue sucks for the night my night won’t be good.
It’s got me thinking the only way of really getting a high lay count relatively quick is dating apps.
Clubs are so hit or miss to me.
Hope this night was a fluke because I really liked that spot and pulled some good looking women from there.
There was an empty spot in the club where I usually like to go and they moved it, I circled around a few times, but it wasn’t a good night. Many girls there were with their boyfriends or group of friends, none of them were off to themselves to make an approach easier.
Not saying that you can’t pull in that situation, but I wasn’t feeling the vibe to approach in that situation.
What I mostly see is girls with their bfs, why do couples always go to the club? I swear it seems like there are more couples than single people in clubs now.
The music was very bad and I just wasn’t feeling the vibe at all, so I left and went to another club.
This other club was too bright for my taste and very clickly, everyone was in a group and knew each other making it hard for me to be able to come and pull girls from it. I didn’t like that place either because it was too small and I felt like I couldn’t really move around. Left that place too.
It was at the point I was thinking of just going to the strip club or something, but didn’t.
I’m really not good with women being in groups and pulling from them, I’m more of the guy who peels off the girl that is off from the group.
Can’t stand nights like these and I really liked this place too, it makes me worry that it might suck now.
It also got me to thinking, how did guys with high lay counts from clubs deal with this?
Continuously going out and might have bad nights, moving solo, wasting time, etc.?
While doing this I’m like, this sucks that if the venue sucks for the night my night won’t be good.
It’s got me thinking the only way of really getting a high lay count relatively quick is dating apps.
Clubs are so hit or miss to me.
Hope this night was a fluke because I really liked that spot and pulled some good looking women from there.
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