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Chase's recent posts have kind of hit a cord with me and whenever we talk about age, endgame, and being a player it usually resonates a lot with me. I have a dilemma that I have talked to guys like Hue, Franco, and various others on this sub about for actually years now and don't even know where to start with it. The dilemma revolves around not just getting laid but being involved in the hedonistic life of partying with hot girls, socializing with hot party girls, being able to show up to events with hot girls and making cool friends. Getting laid as a result of my lifestyle and having a lifestyle where I am introduced to party girls and partying which I never really got out of my system.
I know the work that will get me this is working in nightlife and it's something I've been wanting to do for a very long time but then there is the opportunity cost.
Right now my life is not bad at all. I make good money, I can get laid with decent looking girls thanks to dating apps and a strong online game, and I have a handful of friends I can go out with. The lack of satisfaction for me is in the fact that I do not feel like I am going "hard", I don't have status and power in the nightlife scene that I want, and I am not living that hedonistic party life to the level I crave.
On one hand, I can continue to put in these next few years to set myself up for wealth in my 30s. I am ultimately doing what I am doing so when I get to my 30s, I have enough money in the bank to actually live the life I want. That life would be bartending at a nightclub, drowning in the nightlife scene, fucking loose party girls, and really being that kind of guy while also making money doing it. In other words as close to Dan Bilzerian as possible, he might be the only older guy out there with a player life worth living.
The problem I run into is if I do that right now, I effectively throw away a promising career that can set me up for so much money in the future. I wonder if it is worth it.
Then on the other side, I wonder if the opportunity to live the life I want will still be around in my 30s. Will I be too old to fit in with the attractive people in those scenes? Will I be able to get a job at a nice night club? Will I be able to live a lifestyle centered solely around hedonism and pussy?
Looking at how many men age out of the game discourages me even further and makes me want to lean towards the former, walking away from a good load of money to get in on the hedonism life before it is too late.
For the first time in my life, I have come across something that makes me so lost that I do not even know where to begin.
I know the work that will get me this is working in nightlife and it's something I've been wanting to do for a very long time but then there is the opportunity cost.
Right now my life is not bad at all. I make good money, I can get laid with decent looking girls thanks to dating apps and a strong online game, and I have a handful of friends I can go out with. The lack of satisfaction for me is in the fact that I do not feel like I am going "hard", I don't have status and power in the nightlife scene that I want, and I am not living that hedonistic party life to the level I crave.
On one hand, I can continue to put in these next few years to set myself up for wealth in my 30s. I am ultimately doing what I am doing so when I get to my 30s, I have enough money in the bank to actually live the life I want. That life would be bartending at a nightclub, drowning in the nightlife scene, fucking loose party girls, and really being that kind of guy while also making money doing it. In other words as close to Dan Bilzerian as possible, he might be the only older guy out there with a player life worth living.
The problem I run into is if I do that right now, I effectively throw away a promising career that can set me up for so much money in the future. I wonder if it is worth it.
Then on the other side, I wonder if the opportunity to live the life I want will still be around in my 30s. Will I be too old to fit in with the attractive people in those scenes? Will I be able to get a job at a nice night club? Will I be able to live a lifestyle centered solely around hedonism and pussy?
Looking at how many men age out of the game discourages me even further and makes me want to lean towards the former, walking away from a good load of money to get in on the hedonism life before it is too late.
For the first time in my life, I have come across something that makes me so lost that I do not even know where to begin.