Hi everyone,
First of, big respect to Chase and Girlschase team from Europe. Been reading you for over a year and i have nothing but a big respect for you guys. I have learnt so much and implemented that knowledge so seduction is not a problem anymore.
Sorry for grammar mistakes
I have a question regarding an ex girlfriend. Im 27, she is 23, we have been together for 5 years. I Broke up with her last year after almost 6 months deciding to do it or not. Relationship with this girl was beautiful for 4 years., She was apsolutely my type, amazing sex and personality, my friends and family loved her and vice versa.
Last year went litlle downhill, we smoked a lot of weed, rutine kicked in, i started to feel depressed, forgot my friends and apsolutely wasnt happy with my life. I wasnt happy so that had influence on relationship, and change was neccesarry. I could also see signs of her losing attraction for me, i cant even blame her. But i started to change my habits, excercise, meditatig, studying, socializing more etc. but she didnt want to stop smoking, or start any new healthy habit. So i broke up with her and that devastated her. I was a big mess emotionaly for 4 months, but went full no contact till she contacted me for my birthday. We went on a friendy drink and chat. She was in a relationship wih a new guy and i was happy for her. But i could see she still had feelings for me and me for her.
10 months to now im pimpin, have a litlle rotation and im pretty happy regarding my sex life. But she was still on my mind occasionaly.I had dreams about her all the time.
She contacted me yesterday and told me she broke up with that guy a while ago. Admitted she was not feeling good because of using lot of drugs, had some hallucinations about us back together and was happy that she could talk to me.
Now, i am not planning on starting relationship with her again, I know that would not be a good idea. But i admitt i still have strong feelings for this girl, after all we were together for five years.
Now i dont know what to do in this situation. She wouldnt contacted me if she did not need me. She stopped with drugs and is going through rough times, she even said she was going to hospital to recovery. Im feeling guilt because i think that its my fault for breaking up with her. that destroyed her and her views on relationships and love. She had forgave me everything and wants us to stay in touch after her recovery and maybe try again,
Im confused and dont know what to do. should i be there for her as a friend, would i be crazy even considering trying again with her? Or should i just remove myself from that situation completely and go on without her. ( i would feel very bad for not being there for her)
Sorry for long post but i would appreciate yout opinions.
First of, big respect to Chase and Girlschase team from Europe. Been reading you for over a year and i have nothing but a big respect for you guys. I have learnt so much and implemented that knowledge so seduction is not a problem anymore.
Sorry for grammar mistakes
I have a question regarding an ex girlfriend. Im 27, she is 23, we have been together for 5 years. I Broke up with her last year after almost 6 months deciding to do it or not. Relationship with this girl was beautiful for 4 years., She was apsolutely my type, amazing sex and personality, my friends and family loved her and vice versa.
Last year went litlle downhill, we smoked a lot of weed, rutine kicked in, i started to feel depressed, forgot my friends and apsolutely wasnt happy with my life. I wasnt happy so that had influence on relationship, and change was neccesarry. I could also see signs of her losing attraction for me, i cant even blame her. But i started to change my habits, excercise, meditatig, studying, socializing more etc. but she didnt want to stop smoking, or start any new healthy habit. So i broke up with her and that devastated her. I was a big mess emotionaly for 4 months, but went full no contact till she contacted me for my birthday. We went on a friendy drink and chat. She was in a relationship wih a new guy and i was happy for her. But i could see she still had feelings for me and me for her.
10 months to now im pimpin, have a litlle rotation and im pretty happy regarding my sex life. But she was still on my mind occasionaly.I had dreams about her all the time.
She contacted me yesterday and told me she broke up with that guy a while ago. Admitted she was not feeling good because of using lot of drugs, had some hallucinations about us back together and was happy that she could talk to me.
Now, i am not planning on starting relationship with her again, I know that would not be a good idea. But i admitt i still have strong feelings for this girl, after all we were together for five years.
Now i dont know what to do in this situation. She wouldnt contacted me if she did not need me. She stopped with drugs and is going through rough times, she even said she was going to hospital to recovery. Im feeling guilt because i think that its my fault for breaking up with her. that destroyed her and her views on relationships and love. She had forgave me everything and wants us to stay in touch after her recovery and maybe try again,
Im confused and dont know what to do. should i be there for her as a friend, would i be crazy even considering trying again with her? Or should i just remove myself from that situation completely and go on without her. ( i would feel very bad for not being there for her)
Sorry for long post but i would appreciate yout opinions.