Eyeglasses and Game, no go?

[RisingCane]

Hey guys, so thanks to vision problems, I wear glasses. They are one of the Hipster glasses with black frames. While I do own contact lenses, just putting them in at times can be quite a hassle.

However, given that I am in a city where women like macho guys (Miami), I am wondering if my nightgame results might be getting impacted by me wearing glasses. It is also stereotyped by media that men with glasses are more beta (Clarke Kent vs Superman).

Anyone in here tried seduction with glasses versus without?

 

[James D]

I wear glasses.

 

[Atlas IV]

I wore glasses until last year when I got LASIK (purely a convenience thing). Didn't really notice any difference in terms of reactions from girls after vs before. The right glasses can actually be very stylish. Make sure they suit your face shape.

 

[James D]

The best natural I've ever met wears glasses.

Is this a purely hypothetical thing or did you actually go out and run into issues vis a vis guys who don't wear glasses?

For me it boils down to a simple sexy/edgy vibe equation.

Glasses may result in, let's say, -3 edge points.

Solution: super charge your sexy'edgy vibe and make those 3 points irrelevant.

Look at bespectacled James Dean in my profile picture. I wouldn't wanna go up against him in a nightclub.

 

[Spike]

Glasses may result in, let's say, -3 edge points

Difficult to say. One of the girls slept with said it would actually add points with her and make me more attractive in her eyes if I wore glasses. But I know this to be the minority (I’ve also heard this from other girls that I slept with when I’ve put on their reading glasses for lolz). So while wearing glasses would raise my attractiveness with girls that share this sentiment. It would also reduce my attractiveness in the eyes of those who like me better without glasses (I wore glasses when I was in high school. They broke and I had to go a couple days without them while I waited for a new pair to arrive. When I went to school the next day I suddenly noticed I started getting attention from girls who I previously did not register on their radar).

it could make a huge difference. Or make little to no difference. Everyone is different. The field will reveal the answers to you

 

[Skills]

there is a new style of reading/fashion glasses with gen z (i am going to get a pair)... for higher odds no glasses less polarizing (reading glasses that is)... cause some women hate guys with glasses...a few like it.... like i like women with glasses....

 

[DonGately]

I wear glasses, never been an issue, had several girls tell me they made me look hotter.

As with anything, the key is to have the right pair.

 

[Rancorous]

When I wear glasses I attract other girls that wear glasses. Big shocker there. When I wear contacts(which is what I normally wear) I attract both glasses and non-glasses wearing women.

I know contacts can be a bit of a hassle to learn and get down, but they are worth it if you ask me.

 

[Adventurer]

I think girls backward rationalize that they like your type anyway

If you have glasses on, they will say they like guys with glasses/nerds. If you don't, they will find something else.

 

[Skills]

When I wear glasses I attract other girls that wear glasses. Big shocker there. When I wear contacts(which is what I normally wear) I attract both glasses and non-glasses wearing women.

I know contacts can be a bit of a hassle to learn and get down, but they are worth it if you ask me.

Correct no glasses will attract greater pool...

 

[Rancorous]

I think girls backward rationalize that they like your type anyway

If you have glasses on, they will say they like guys with glasses/nerds. If you don't, they will find something else.

That can be true. I remember when I switched over to contacts. My lay count went up. I have more confidence too.

 

[DonGately]

I would say the real answer is probably whatever gives you more confidence/congruence. Wearing a bespoke suit and Hermes tie, and 40+, glasses fit the image they have of me as 'successful businessman.' But it may not for others, so you can always try it both ways.

 

[topcat]

Glasses are a non issue. Girls don’t give a fuck. This is a dumb conversation.

I have more confidence too.

this was your issue. not the glasses..

 

[Rancorous]

Glasses are a non issue. Girls don’t give a fuck. This is a dumb conversation.


this was your issue. not the glasses..

I disagree.

I think I got treated differently wearing glasses.

 

[topcat]

I disagree.

I think I got treated differently wearing glasses.

Maybe you did. I haven’t, 160+ lays and counting. I’m short too. Guys will find any and any excuse for some physical mishap that affects your lay count or attractiveness.

It’s always your confidence..

 

[Rancorous]

Maybe you did. I haven’t, 160+ lays and counting. I’m short too. Guys will find any and any excuse for some physical mishap that affects your lay count or attractiveness.

It’s always your confidence..

How big of a city do you live in?

 

[topcat]

How big of a city do you live in?

9 million

 

[Rancorous]

9 million

Mines 12,000

 

[topcat]

Mines 12,000

another excuse.

 

[Spike]

another excuse

Very much look forward to your cold approach lay reports brother

About to run exclusively cold approach, so will put this to the test and report back