Let me help you out in a different way.
Once you see how much abundance there is, you won't worry about missing out on sets.
For example, if all you did was master starting conversations with stationary sets (which are 1000x easier), or just made use of all the low hanging fruit in stores and markets, you'd have more leads then you knew what to do with.
When guys are starting it's recommended to get volume up just for experience. But you'll find every single artist ends up getting selective once they go through that initial stage. Eventually it gets to the point where he only opens girls who end up standing next to him at the bus stop or grocery aisle where he was going to go anywhere.
So don't worry too much about needing to open every single type of set anyway, especially not if they're just for practice and not really 'omg she's wow amazing'.
If you do see a "once a month girl" walking fast, do open her with any excuse. Or even just hello, how are you doing today.
It doesn't even matter what your excuse for stopping them is. As long as it's not to tell them they're hot. That ship has sailed for those of us who are older.
Whether it goes well doesn't depend on the excuse, but your confidence tonality, body language etc.
Truth is you can transition any opener into flirting, whatever the excuse for opening was. But you might say "won't it kill attraction if I opened with an excuse?"... Not really since attraction comes from body language, voice, etc... the actual words are 10%
And even if you believe the theory that direct gives you an attraction boost... That doesn't apply for older men, so it's irrelevant.
Once you see how much abundance there is, you won't worry about missing out on sets.
For example, if all you did was master starting conversations with stationary sets (which are 1000x easier), or just made use of all the low hanging fruit in stores and markets, you'd have more leads then you knew what to do with.
When guys are starting it's recommended to get volume up just for experience. But you'll find every single artist ends up getting selective once they go through that initial stage. Eventually it gets to the point where he only opens girls who end up standing next to him at the bus stop or grocery aisle where he was going to go anywhere.
So don't worry too much about needing to open every single type of set anyway, especially not if they're just for practice and not really 'omg she's wow amazing'.
If you do see a "once a month girl" walking fast, do open her with any excuse. Or even just hello, how are you doing today.
It doesn't even matter what your excuse for stopping them is. As long as it's not to tell them they're hot. That ship has sailed for those of us who are older.
Whether it goes well doesn't depend on the excuse, but your confidence tonality, body language etc.
Truth is you can transition any opener into flirting, whatever the excuse for opening was. But you might say "won't it kill attraction if I opened with an excuse?"... Not really since attraction comes from body language, voice, etc... the actual words are 10%
And even if you believe the theory that direct gives you an attraction boost... That doesn't apply for older men, so it's irrelevant.
