My disposition here is probably tuned a bit towards the extreme... But, in general if a girl wants a LTR but I don't have some clear markers of being the best for her in bed, I have barely any interest.
Now, obviously you are not going to be the best for everyone. There's also a large amount of random / compatibility factors outside your control. Some people might not even care much about this.
But to me it looms large, especially regarding infidelity. If I'm honest, I view it positively, as it's not just selection, but also a strong drive for improvement. I'm going to veer away from any personal psychoanalysis here, I'm merely curious to hear how others think of these issues of sex, fidelity, and LTRs. Perhaps there are some healthier perspectives on this?
Now, obviously you are not going to be the best for everyone. There's also a large amount of random / compatibility factors outside your control. Some people might not even care much about this.
But to me it looms large, especially regarding infidelity. If I'm honest, I view it positively, as it's not just selection, but also a strong drive for improvement. I'm going to veer away from any personal psychoanalysis here, I'm merely curious to hear how others think of these issues of sex, fidelity, and LTRs. Perhaps there are some healthier perspectives on this?
