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God it feels good to write one of these.
So I met this girl last week, and did a direct approach. It was notably good, because I got her to lean into me while trading numbers, since she was Chinese, and her phone had last name first.
Scheduled a date originally for Friday, but moved it to today.
We met nearby-she was about 30 min late coming from school. I went for a hug, and she didn't notice and walked past lol. I just patted her on the back instead. We walked and talked as we moved towards the bar, and I was doing a good job deep diving on her. What was good was that I barely talked about myself, outside of a couple of stories that I told. We talked about how she worked with dogs while an intern for special needs children. And I teased her a little bit.
At the bar, I suggested we sit next to each other, instead of the usual spot in the corner where it was harder to get incidental touch. I asked her what her drink of choice was, and she asked me back. I used this opportunity to start seeding the pull. I also mentioned that I'd make it for us sometime. I ordered us drinks, and our legs were touching for almost the whole time. I continued deep diving, making jokes along the way. She was leaning in often and was visibly enjoying herself. She made an offhand comment about her cat being naughty, and later her friends being naughty, and I told her she seemed to have a lot of naughty friends. She said she did, and I told her she must like that. She also said her fantasy was to have a lab coat (in that she had once wanted to be a doctor), and I joked that most people had different fantasies. Then I suggested that lab coats weren't very form fitting, and made some jokes that they'd be a lot better if they were. She was laughing pretty well at all the sexual humor.
There was a decent amount of touching, and when I ribbed her, she would push back in a flirty way. I moved the conversation to the discretion frame quickly, just saying that I liked being in the city because no one judged you and you could keep things private if you so desired. I also asked her if she was close to her parents, and we went deep into that, and how she felt that her parents cared more about her results in life than her as a person. I think I did a good job bringing this back up by agreeing with her that distance is important, and that once you move out, you can meet people who like you for you, and who want the best for you.
We also talked about dating in the city, and she mentioned how she hadn't been dating in a while, and I told her I enjoyed it because you always meet new people and have exciting adventures. I told her I enjoyed being single for that reason, because it was almost like a huge adventure, and I wasn't ready for that adventure to end (boyfriend disqualification). She nodded ahead and I moved past the topic.
A little while later, I suggested we grab some plum wine nearby. We're walking and I do what Grand Pooba suggested and put my arm around her shoulder and pull her to me-she accepted happily. Along the way we'd show each other things on our phones and huddle close to each other. A block away from the wine place, I think fuck it, and ask her if she'd be down for a change of plan, and suggest I mix us some Blue Hawaiians instead. She says sure, and we head to my place instead. I make sure to not make it awkward.
Once we reach my place, I have her take her shoes off, and also get her jacket and hang it up. I then give her a tour of the place, and then have her mix the drinks for us. I'm pretty physical here, grabbing her around the waist and stuff. We make the drinks and I take them to my bedroom. I tell her to make herself comfortable while I use the bathroom. I come back, and close the door, and show her some of the stuff. We spend a lot of time on my map, and then we sit back, and it's silent. There's only one thing to do, so I kiss her. I make sure to pull back first, and keep it going. She's really hot and heavy, and this time I don't make the mistake of talking too much. Our clothes start coming off without any resistance, and I go down to eat her out, and she's writhing around a little bit. I tell her to tell me to fuck her, and she does. Unfortunately my dick decides to go soft on me, so I have to go back to making out. This goes on for two condoms, and I have her suck my dick until I'm hard, then have her put it on me, and just stick the dick in her. I don't get really hard until I start talking more dirty to her about how she likes the feel of my dick inside her (clearly my dick reacts well to aggressive dominance). We fuck for a few minutes then sadly I nut early and it's a little disappointing.
I'm slightly worried because when I pulled the condom out, I felt some cum dripping, so I kept the condom to inspect later. I didn't find a break, so I think it's more likely that as I was pulling out, my dick went a little soft and so it pulled some cum out with it. In the future, I'm just going to pull out as soon as I cum.
Anyway, first sex in almost two months, and first time I've orgasmed in a month. Feeling clearheaded for the first time in a while.
While talking, I focused on slowing my rate of speech to make it more sexual, and I think it worked somewhat.
So I met this girl last week, and did a direct approach. It was notably good, because I got her to lean into me while trading numbers, since she was Chinese, and her phone had last name first.
Scheduled a date originally for Friday, but moved it to today.
We met nearby-she was about 30 min late coming from school. I went for a hug, and she didn't notice and walked past lol. I just patted her on the back instead. We walked and talked as we moved towards the bar, and I was doing a good job deep diving on her. What was good was that I barely talked about myself, outside of a couple of stories that I told. We talked about how she worked with dogs while an intern for special needs children. And I teased her a little bit.
At the bar, I suggested we sit next to each other, instead of the usual spot in the corner where it was harder to get incidental touch. I asked her what her drink of choice was, and she asked me back. I used this opportunity to start seeding the pull. I also mentioned that I'd make it for us sometime. I ordered us drinks, and our legs were touching for almost the whole time. I continued deep diving, making jokes along the way. She was leaning in often and was visibly enjoying herself. She made an offhand comment about her cat being naughty, and later her friends being naughty, and I told her she seemed to have a lot of naughty friends. She said she did, and I told her she must like that. She also said her fantasy was to have a lab coat (in that she had once wanted to be a doctor), and I joked that most people had different fantasies. Then I suggested that lab coats weren't very form fitting, and made some jokes that they'd be a lot better if they were. She was laughing pretty well at all the sexual humor.
There was a decent amount of touching, and when I ribbed her, she would push back in a flirty way. I moved the conversation to the discretion frame quickly, just saying that I liked being in the city because no one judged you and you could keep things private if you so desired. I also asked her if she was close to her parents, and we went deep into that, and how she felt that her parents cared more about her results in life than her as a person. I think I did a good job bringing this back up by agreeing with her that distance is important, and that once you move out, you can meet people who like you for you, and who want the best for you.
We also talked about dating in the city, and she mentioned how she hadn't been dating in a while, and I told her I enjoyed it because you always meet new people and have exciting adventures. I told her I enjoyed being single for that reason, because it was almost like a huge adventure, and I wasn't ready for that adventure to end (boyfriend disqualification). She nodded ahead and I moved past the topic.
A little while later, I suggested we grab some plum wine nearby. We're walking and I do what Grand Pooba suggested and put my arm around her shoulder and pull her to me-she accepted happily. Along the way we'd show each other things on our phones and huddle close to each other. A block away from the wine place, I think fuck it, and ask her if she'd be down for a change of plan, and suggest I mix us some Blue Hawaiians instead. She says sure, and we head to my place instead. I make sure to not make it awkward.
Once we reach my place, I have her take her shoes off, and also get her jacket and hang it up. I then give her a tour of the place, and then have her mix the drinks for us. I'm pretty physical here, grabbing her around the waist and stuff. We make the drinks and I take them to my bedroom. I tell her to make herself comfortable while I use the bathroom. I come back, and close the door, and show her some of the stuff. We spend a lot of time on my map, and then we sit back, and it's silent. There's only one thing to do, so I kiss her. I make sure to pull back first, and keep it going. She's really hot and heavy, and this time I don't make the mistake of talking too much. Our clothes start coming off without any resistance, and I go down to eat her out, and she's writhing around a little bit. I tell her to tell me to fuck her, and she does. Unfortunately my dick decides to go soft on me, so I have to go back to making out. This goes on for two condoms, and I have her suck my dick until I'm hard, then have her put it on me, and just stick the dick in her. I don't get really hard until I start talking more dirty to her about how she likes the feel of my dick inside her (clearly my dick reacts well to aggressive dominance). We fuck for a few minutes then sadly I nut early and it's a little disappointing.
I'm slightly worried because when I pulled the condom out, I felt some cum dripping, so I kept the condom to inspect later. I didn't find a break, so I think it's more likely that as I was pulling out, my dick went a little soft and so it pulled some cum out with it. In the future, I'm just going to pull out as soon as I cum.
Anyway, first sex in almost two months, and first time I've orgasmed in a month. Feeling clearheaded for the first time in a while.
While talking, I focused on slowing my rate of speech to make it more sexual, and I think it worked somewhat.
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