hey guys i'm Tom, i recently gathered the strength to ask a girl i know for 3 years out and i have some problems..
well first of all i want to take her to somewhere that we can talk about her feelings towards me because she knows how i feel about her, i'm sure about it because our friends always throw hints in the air about us and talk about how we match together and it always creates this sort of a weird situation where we barely talk.. but she doesn't really take it seriously cus that's her personality shes not a very serious person. plus when i talked to her girlfriend which is a good friend of mine too she told me that when they talked about us she always said that she is afraid that it wont work because we are already good friends.
so i'm just gonna talk to her and find out how she feels and where we can go from here although i have no idea how to do it.
second problems i have is that i recently passed my driving test and i don't know how its done in other countries but in mine i have to wait 3 months until i can drive alone, and she passed a long time before me and can drive alone but it feels awkward to let her drive and pay for gas while i'm sitting next to her even though its a short drive to where i want to take her.. i thought about taking a cab together but it still feels weird with the driver and all and because we're both grown and not kids... so should i make that sacrifice and let her drive instead so we can be alone?
thanks a lot guys i hope it will work out..
well first of all i want to take her to somewhere that we can talk about her feelings towards me because she knows how i feel about her, i'm sure about it because our friends always throw hints in the air about us and talk about how we match together and it always creates this sort of a weird situation where we barely talk.. but she doesn't really take it seriously cus that's her personality shes not a very serious person. plus when i talked to her girlfriend which is a good friend of mine too she told me that when they talked about us she always said that she is afraid that it wont work because we are already good friends.
so i'm just gonna talk to her and find out how she feels and where we can go from here although i have no idea how to do it.
second problems i have is that i recently passed my driving test and i don't know how its done in other countries but in mine i have to wait 3 months until i can drive alone, and she passed a long time before me and can drive alone but it feels awkward to let her drive and pay for gas while i'm sitting next to her even though its a short drive to where i want to take her.. i thought about taking a cab together but it still feels weird with the driver and all and because we're both grown and not kids... so should i make that sacrifice and let her drive instead so we can be alone?
thanks a lot guys i hope it will work out..