Most rapport is shallow.
This is because men don’t actually care about getting to know someone. They only care about achieving their outcome.
There was a girl once I kept trying to "game". One day she said, "Tony, why don't you just get 'real?'"
It took me years to figure out what "real" meant.
I’m in South America. And street hawkers will say “Hello! Como estas? How are you? Where are you from? What are you looking for?”
You know after meeting enough of these people that the moment you give them your time and attention, they will try to sell you something. So you feel a little bit used. We buy from people who like us for who we are, not people who pretend to like us.
Someone may like the way you look. But that’s not enough to make you buy. But if they like YOU, for WHO YOU ARE… well then you’ll only buy from them. Especially if you also like THEM.
The girl must know you like her… all of her. The good and the bad.
She must like you… all of you. The good and the bad.
This means you need to dig deeper. You need to learn more about her, but also share more about yourself.
You need to get REAL.
Not just where you travelled… but why. Did you go to Colombia because you heard there were sexy women with huge boobs that liked gringos? But you ended up disappointed after you got robbed by a Tinder date? This is real. It’s a story that tells both the best, and worst parts of your personality. The duality. The range.
If the girl is studying to be a ballet dancer… why? Sure, she likes dancing… but what is it that drives her? Get past the bullshit. Is it because she always wanted to be the centre of attention? Because her brothers always got more time with Dad? Is it because she only feels seen and heard when she’s moving?
Why does she need to party so much? Why did she go to Paris, of all places?
Most guys say this: “Cool.” Or “Interesting.” Why? Why is it cool or interesting? Why do you actually give a shit that she’s really into Harry Potter? Or Yoga?
Deep rapport is about more than just finding stuff in common. It’s about finding “why” you have stuff in common.
The way most men talk to women… they know you don’t really care what they do for fun, where they’ve travelled, or what their work is. You just want them to touch your pecker.
You’ve probably heard this before: “You have to actually care.” While this sounds great, how do you actually care? Why should you actually care?
There is nothing wrong with wanting an outcome. If you find a woman desirable, that’s great. But you should have standards. You should want to connect with her intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually. Why?
Because:
More fun
More trust (Safety)
Faster connection
Better conversation
Better sex
Honestly, who would you rather have sex with? A stranger from a bar, or your new best friend, who you also find to be really hot?
Personally, I like sleeping with people I actually like, who I can trust, and feel understand me… or are at least very interested in understanding me. Even if it’s only for one night of sex. When I say “Hey I need to sleep now, can I call you a cab”, a good friend would say “Sure thing!”
When I say “Hey, can you suck my balls like this?” They’ll do their best to please me.
You’ll also have women that don’t ghost and flake on you.
So how do you create this deeper rapport?
I’ll have to show you by example. We will do live examples, and practice with each other. That’s why you should attend the webinar.
Here's the link. It's this Saturday, and it's LIVE. So you have to register to attend.
Free Webinar Sat July 3rd, 1 pm CST (Guatemala City Time)The Deepest Rapport With Tony Depp Do you struggle with knowing what to say to get women excited, horny, and eager to jump in your bed? I’m a master of getting action from sexy women on the first date. Part of that process is creating...
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