So failure and rejection don't bother me anymore. I push forward anyways with every girl.
*If we talk I push to deep dive and flirt.
*If we flirt I touch.
*When we touch I ask out.
*When we are out I escalate.
And so on, until I get in bed with the woman. The last two weeks have been very eye opening because girls get very flustered when I act and move THAT fast. But they usually accept my advances because when they push me away, I seem to not care as much or at all. It's all about getting new experiences, remember?
Of course, getting them consistently in my bedroom is another story. Part might have to do with screening and another has to do with me being even more sexual. But either way, I am not getting friend-zoned anymore. Girls KNOW what I am about - and that's totally fine and a big leap forward.
Another thing, since I've been trying to run some social circle game a little as a side-thing to cold approach I now understand why girls have been deflecting my advances. It usually has to do with sexual availability (find out there a boyfriend or a good boyfriend candidate involved).
New teachings and worldviews
Tuesday night was a little sad night. For the first time in my dating life, I cried for a girl I barely know. She was into me but did not want to "complicate" things because she was a lover of a friend and a music-partner of mine. And as I was taking the bus back home I was sad because she was missing on something great. I know I change girls life for the better (at least from the past relationships I had), and she said "I can't" and that crushed me. I do not think about her anymore because I move on fast now, but still. She missed the opportunity of her lifetime.
I also went out with another girl yesterday and pushed it hard. Trying to manhandle kiss her, amongst other things. She fought back but loved it. I asked her out again and she might reply wanting to see me again.
But I really don't care about any particular girl and that's something new as well because she is just a process. Now that I get so many approach invitations and escalation windows, I realize that if not her, then another girl will have the chance with me. I am writing "with me" and not the other way around. I guess I am starting to see myself as the price. Thanks to improved fundamentals.
And I have a new date tomorrow that will make me continue doing new things with girls. That's fun.
My fundamentals are improving
So much that women (and some men) stop and stare. I get smiles, warm receptions, compliments, stuff for free, people going out of their way to help me with things, job offers....
I see that being hot moves beyond sexual opportunities. People make my life easier and that's totally new for me. It also helps my music career as I have better stage presence and being hot makes girls want to know me, and other male musicians want to work with me. Fundamentals open doors I never knew existed.
And that's awesome!!!!
*If we talk I push to deep dive and flirt.
*If we flirt I touch.
*When we touch I ask out.
*When we are out I escalate.
And so on, until I get in bed with the woman. The last two weeks have been very eye opening because girls get very flustered when I act and move THAT fast. But they usually accept my advances because when they push me away, I seem to not care as much or at all. It's all about getting new experiences, remember?
Of course, getting them consistently in my bedroom is another story. Part might have to do with screening and another has to do with me being even more sexual. But either way, I am not getting friend-zoned anymore. Girls KNOW what I am about - and that's totally fine and a big leap forward.
Another thing, since I've been trying to run some social circle game a little as a side-thing to cold approach I now understand why girls have been deflecting my advances. It usually has to do with sexual availability (find out there a boyfriend or a good boyfriend candidate involved).
New teachings and worldviews
Tuesday night was a little sad night. For the first time in my dating life, I cried for a girl I barely know. She was into me but did not want to "complicate" things because she was a lover of a friend and a music-partner of mine. And as I was taking the bus back home I was sad because she was missing on something great. I know I change girls life for the better (at least from the past relationships I had), and she said "I can't" and that crushed me. I do not think about her anymore because I move on fast now, but still. She missed the opportunity of her lifetime.
I also went out with another girl yesterday and pushed it hard. Trying to manhandle kiss her, amongst other things. She fought back but loved it. I asked her out again and she might reply wanting to see me again.
But I really don't care about any particular girl and that's something new as well because she is just a process. Now that I get so many approach invitations and escalation windows, I realize that if not her, then another girl will have the chance with me. I am writing "with me" and not the other way around. I guess I am starting to see myself as the price. Thanks to improved fundamentals.
And I have a new date tomorrow that will make me continue doing new things with girls. That's fun.
My fundamentals are improving
So much that women (and some men) stop and stare. I get smiles, warm receptions, compliments, stuff for free, people going out of their way to help me with things, job offers....
I see that being hot moves beyond sexual opportunities. People make my life easier and that's totally new for me. It also helps my music career as I have better stage presence and being hot makes girls want to know me, and other male musicians want to work with me. Fundamentals open doors I never knew existed.
And that's awesome!!!!