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Started off the night with a blowy from a Tinder date, then went to have some drinks with my high school friends. Just a casual night. I go on to hit a bar with my brother and meet a cute HB6 at the bar. Unorthodox lay, I'm not sure if I'd recommend everything in here, but it shows frame control. Enjoy.
My brother and his friend text me right as we're finishing up to meet them at the bar. I've already had a few so figure why not and meet them at a dive. We shoot the shit and I flirt with the bartender a little bit. Then I stroll over to the pool tables and talk to some girls who are at the pool table. Not tryna smash just chatting, and then setting us up for next game. We eventually play for a bit with some regular that apparently hustled my brother a while back.
The "hustler" has a cute friend, who I assumed was his GF. I introduce myself and chat for a little bit, then screen to see if she is in fact his GF. Nope, just friends who live together. Cool. I pull away for a little bit and return to my brother. Then go back to her and escalate with light touch and some deep diving. The style I was working was low energy and trying to get the story behind how she got where she is now. I back off and sit back with my friend.
My brother's friend asks if I know the girl, probably from the impression I've made with us talking. I tell him no, but I think I should get to know her. I walk back over to her and sit down, going back to us talking about her old life in a small town. Then I sit back with my friend, and she leaves her seat and sits down next to me.
Things get weird from here and I don't totally recommend following this.
Her and I start talking again, and she randomly tells me that I'm underweight. My friend and I laugh at this and I just say "oh yea I'm underweight?" then go back to talking to my friend. Then I turn to her and change the subject. My brother and his friend are ready to leave and tell me they are, and I just chill and say naw I'm good staying here.
Then it's just her and I and I try to screen for her logistics by asking what it's like living with the "hustler". She starts acting really aloof and tells me I'm bad a reading signs.
so she wants me to move faster? I say "signs of what?" and touch her leg. She let's out a sigh and goes "I should probably go home". I say "yea you could do that, or we could go do something". And she turns and stares at me for a few seconds, then turns away again and goes back to being aloof.
Then she turns to me and goes "what do you want?", pulls me into her and says "tell me what you want". I'm taken off guard, but try to maintain composure and say "I want you to come home with me because I'm getting bored with this. Not with you, but with *this*. Are you going to come?". She gets up and walks away. I get up and get my coat, and stick around for a bit longer.
She comes back and says, "I had to check on me roommate. I'm ready now". Lol, cool, let's go.
We go to my car and get back to my place, sit on the couch and watch some music videos. She's got a shirt with a back zipper, and as I ramp physical escalation, I start undoing the zipper while talking to her, as she switches the song with the controller. She can't find the song, and so I try to just take the controller so something is playing, and she doesn't want to hand it over.
I tried to playfully wrestle with her for the controller, and we do for about 5 seconds, but then she turns and slaps the shit out of my face. Like 7/10 slap. I forcibly sit her on the couch and go "bitch! you don't slap me". She's startled and I ask why the fuck she thought she could do that. I can feel my left cheek getting red. She goes "I'm into that." Well, fuck, bitch. Screen me for BDSM or something, don't just fucking walk into my house and think it's cool to hit me in the face.
I'm inches from telling her to get the fuck out. Instead I get up and get a glass of water. I'll admit, I was pissed.
When I come back she's on the phone with her friend. I assume she's getting picked up, so I ask leading questions to her leaving. But no, apparently she got called by her friend and wanted to stay. I separate entirely and we sit there for a little bit. Then I swallow my pride and start talking to her again. I'm looking at her very intensely and oddly feel a sexual energy fill the air. I tap her leg and she says "no, don't do that."
I pause, then just look her dead in the eye and say,
From here we talk about different sex shit and hot wax treatment and the contrasts of sensations. I make a clear note of saying that being submissive / dominant is different than the contrast of pain and pleasure, and she accepts my frame. She says that hard sex is "her vice". I think GC has made me somewhat more sexually open minded, because it was almost like she was embarrassed to tell me about her kinks, yet she slapped me in accordance with it. Talk about conflicting beliefs/actions.
Then she starts telling me to get naked. At first I'm hesitant, but then I do, telling her not to get used to ordering me around.
Next thing I know she's giving me a really solid blowjob, which turns into me fucking her in doggy and slapping the shit out of her ass as she screams to hit her harder. I move to the bed and we fuck for about 20 until I start to lose wood. A lot of throat fucking. We hang out and talk, then I slip on another condom and fuck her in adapted missionary and come after about 5. From here we actually had some good conversation. I definitely turned it around for both her and I in terms of enjoyment. She says she was hesitant to come home with me because I'm 21 and she's 27, but obviously it didn't matter too much.
She stays the night and I politely kick her out when I wake up.
All in all, that was pretty weird. Or maybe I'm looking at this a less-than-healthy way.
Hue
My brother and his friend text me right as we're finishing up to meet them at the bar. I've already had a few so figure why not and meet them at a dive. We shoot the shit and I flirt with the bartender a little bit. Then I stroll over to the pool tables and talk to some girls who are at the pool table. Not tryna smash just chatting, and then setting us up for next game. We eventually play for a bit with some regular that apparently hustled my brother a while back.
The "hustler" has a cute friend, who I assumed was his GF. I introduce myself and chat for a little bit, then screen to see if she is in fact his GF. Nope, just friends who live together. Cool. I pull away for a little bit and return to my brother. Then go back to her and escalate with light touch and some deep diving. The style I was working was low energy and trying to get the story behind how she got where she is now. I back off and sit back with my friend.
My brother's friend asks if I know the girl, probably from the impression I've made with us talking. I tell him no, but I think I should get to know her. I walk back over to her and sit down, going back to us talking about her old life in a small town. Then I sit back with my friend, and she leaves her seat and sits down next to me.
Things get weird from here and I don't totally recommend following this.
Her and I start talking again, and she randomly tells me that I'm underweight. My friend and I laugh at this and I just say "oh yea I'm underweight?" then go back to talking to my friend. Then I turn to her and change the subject. My brother and his friend are ready to leave and tell me they are, and I just chill and say naw I'm good staying here.
Then it's just her and I and I try to screen for her logistics by asking what it's like living with the "hustler". She starts acting really aloof and tells me I'm bad a reading signs.
so she wants me to move faster? I say "signs of what?" and touch her leg. She let's out a sigh and goes "I should probably go home". I say "yea you could do that, or we could go do something". And she turns and stares at me for a few seconds, then turns away again and goes back to being aloof. Then she turns to me and goes "what do you want?", pulls me into her and says "tell me what you want". I'm taken off guard, but try to maintain composure and say "I want you to come home with me because I'm getting bored with this. Not with you, but with *this*. Are you going to come?". She gets up and walks away. I get up and get my coat, and stick around for a bit longer.
She comes back and says, "I had to check on me roommate. I'm ready now". Lol, cool, let's go.
We go to my car and get back to my place, sit on the couch and watch some music videos. She's got a shirt with a back zipper, and as I ramp physical escalation, I start undoing the zipper while talking to her, as she switches the song with the controller. She can't find the song, and so I try to just take the controller so something is playing, and she doesn't want to hand it over.
I tried to playfully wrestle with her for the controller, and we do for about 5 seconds, but then she turns and slaps the shit out of my face. Like 7/10 slap. I forcibly sit her on the couch and go "bitch! you don't slap me". She's startled and I ask why the fuck she thought she could do that. I can feel my left cheek getting red. She goes "I'm into that." Well, fuck, bitch. Screen me for BDSM or something, don't just fucking walk into my house and think it's cool to hit me in the face.
I'm inches from telling her to get the fuck out. Instead I get up and get a glass of water. I'll admit, I was pissed.
When I come back she's on the phone with her friend. I assume she's getting picked up, so I ask leading questions to her leaving. But no, apparently she got called by her friend and wanted to stay. I separate entirely and we sit there for a little bit. Then I swallow my pride and start talking to her again. I'm looking at her very intensely and oddly feel a sexual energy fill the air. I tap her leg and she says "no, don't do that."
I pause, then just look her dead in the eye and say,
From here we talk about different sex shit and hot wax treatment and the contrasts of sensations. I make a clear note of saying that being submissive / dominant is different than the contrast of pain and pleasure, and she accepts my frame. She says that hard sex is "her vice". I think GC has made me somewhat more sexually open minded, because it was almost like she was embarrassed to tell me about her kinks, yet she slapped me in accordance with it. Talk about conflicting beliefs/actions.
Then she starts telling me to get naked. At first I'm hesitant, but then I do, telling her not to get used to ordering me around.
Next thing I know she's giving me a really solid blowjob, which turns into me fucking her in doggy and slapping the shit out of her ass as she screams to hit her harder. I move to the bed and we fuck for about 20 until I start to lose wood. A lot of throat fucking. We hang out and talk, then I slip on another condom and fuck her in adapted missionary and come after about 5. From here we actually had some good conversation. I definitely turned it around for both her and I in terms of enjoyment. She says she was hesitant to come home with me because I'm 21 and she's 27, but obviously it didn't matter too much.
She stays the night and I politely kick her out when I wake up.
All in all, that was pretty weird. Or maybe I'm looking at this a less-than-healthy way.
Hue
