Alright guys is it going? Not new to the site but I need some advice as I've never been in this type of situation. To begin there's this girl at work. Ever since she was hired she's been after me. Sexy blonde, tits ass and lips. All the guys at work were after her accept me. I did the smart thing and stayed away increasing her attraction to me. She has/had a boyfriend. During that time I had a girlfriend I was very faithful to despite the blonde chasing me. Anyway I broke up with my girlfriend, ended up going out with the blonde a few months later. Fucked her and never really went out with her again. During the time until we slept together she was calling me baby, left me a hickey, left her phone in my car. I sort of treated her like shit. I don't call girls back after I sleep with them so if was weird seeing a girl I slept with 5 days a week. Anyway eventually she sort of stopped talking to me (attraction expiration). Fastforward six months later and I have feelings for her. At first I thought I was feeling territorial cu of some new guy that was hired. Now I'm seeing I totally have feelings for her. I told her and she went into total autoreject mode. At first she was sort of happy/surprised and waited for my input. I got annoyed at her mocking me opening up because she knows how I am. She agreed to not bring it up again and I've only tried one more time but she got annoyed at me trying again. My mistake was when I told her. I should've gamed her and slept with her before mentioning it. But now there's this awkwardness and I'm good at pretending I don't care but she stares at me all day and does her best not to work near me or speak to me. I don't really want to text her but then I don't want to lose her. She's in the process of moving out of her boyfriends apt and I'm in the process of moving as well. Also I just found out I have slight kidney failure. Everyone at work except her came and worried. She didn't even bother asking if I'm okay. I didn't expect to like her but now she's all I think about.
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Hmm sounds like you're not in a place with abundance with women... pretty much the reason we all ended up on this forum LOL.
https://www.girlschase.com/content/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls
Good luck pimp
-Rob
https://www.girlschase.com/content/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls
Good luck pimp
-Rob
Let me get this straight:
1.) The girl cheated on her boyfriend to fuck you
2.) After she fucks you she avoids you
3.) She is annoyed that you have feelings for her
4.) And she has thoroughly demonstrated that she doesn't give two shits about you
Sounds like a real catch.
Don't waste your time with this one mate, that's my thought.
1.) The girl cheated on her boyfriend to fuck you
2.) After she fucks you she avoids you
3.) She is annoyed that you have feelings for her
4.) And she has thoroughly demonstrated that she doesn't give two shits about you
Sounds like a real catch.
Don't waste your time with this one mate, that's my thought.
She cheated on her boyfriend with me, tried to be my girlfriend, I avoided her and ignored her. Now somehow by dumb magic I like her. But yea you guys are right. Gonna suck it up and move on. It's just annoying wanting someone I didn't want to begin with.
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Do you think you'd be caught up on her now all of a sudden if you never saw her again like you do with most women?
Obviously not. You've just been around her every day, and since she's like the hottest girl at your job and you see/think about her everyday you've slowly developed a crush on her.
Have you been regularly meeting and sleeping with lots of new women since you two were together?
If you have then perhaps you do genuinely like her. If you haven't then I think you're coming from a place of scarcity and your mind has tricked you into thinking she's super amazing.
This used to always happen to me in class room setting where I was always around a girl I kind of liked but the more I was around her in class (and out of class) the more I felt like she was my fucking soul mate. I wasn't meeting other women and she seemed like the best bet in my life.
Food for thought...
-Rob
Obviously not. You've just been around her every day, and since she's like the hottest girl at your job and you see/think about her everyday you've slowly developed a crush on her.
Have you been regularly meeting and sleeping with lots of new women since you two were together?
If you have then perhaps you do genuinely like her. If you haven't then I think you're coming from a place of scarcity and your mind has tricked you into thinking she's super amazing.
This used to always happen to me in class room setting where I was always around a girl I kind of liked but the more I was around her in class (and out of class) the more I felt like she was my fucking soul mate. I wasn't meeting other women and she seemed like the best bet in my life.
Food for thought...
-Rob
That's EXACTLY it Rob. I've been with a few girls after her but recently due to medical stuff I've been on the back burner of things. Now out of nowhere I care for her. Mind you she has several qualities I dislike. I just want my regular mindset back. Trust me I know she's no good. My brain just keeps trying to convince me she's it for me. Since then I'm having trouble talking to other women. I figured maybe I really did like her. And to top it off I can't drink for three months to inspire some liquid courage to help me get out of this rut. Any links to self improvement?
You don't need liquid courage mate, watch this video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UHRd3qJOHPU
See how many times he fails? More importantly, see how many times he SUCCEEDS? That's what it's all about!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UHRd3qJOHPU
See how many times he fails? More importantly, see how many times he SUCCEEDS? That's what it's all about!
And yet he got numbers from some good looking girls. That's exactly why I linked to the video. He had no liquid courage, and his game was off, but he still managed to score some numbers on cold approaches to girls who would classify in the 8-9 range for most guys.
I'm not trying to hate but i'd guess you don't go out and meet girls yourself. He came off so awkward in that video. Maybe he's not always like that though. I was doing day game twice a week for about 5 months this year and I'd have sets go way better than those, i'd be actually having fun instead of forcing it. And you really learn that getting numbers doesn't mean anything. I wouldn't be surprised if not even one of those girls texted him back.