Girl tries to give me her phone number early in set without me asking for it. Take it or Reject it? Please help from Great PUA

[BlueK]

This happen to me a lot of time. Girls try to give me their phone numbers very early in set.
What should I say or do guys ? I would like to hear your opinions.
I do not know what really it means, if it is a shit test, or a nice blow out, or if they are DTF girls who are fast and want to skip the seduction process. Idk
How would you guys respond to that?
I know for sure that beta males will take the numbers very early but i have the intuition that an alpha guy wouldnt take it so easy, i think.
So I think that We shouldnt take it and say something like "No, I do not want your number. I just want to know you" and ask for the number later"
What do you guys will do?

 

[BlueK]

Thanks Velasco for replying but They want to give it to me without me asking for it but very early in the set , that is the problem, it is too early and I think I shouldnt take it but I am not 100% sure since there are girls who are DTF and like to be fast and skip the seduction process.
What I mean by "very early" is right after the opener. She wants to give me her phone number right after my opener.
It sounds like a "nice blow out" and she gets rid of me by giving me her number, i know it is probably the case but my question is what to do, take it or reject it?

 

[Velasco]

I think I shouldnt take it but I am not 100% sure since there are girls who are DTF and like to be fast and skip the seduction process

Don't see the harm in taking the number then. The ones who are giving you their number to get rid of you, won't respond. The ones who want attention will respond, but not meet up. The ones as you say, like to skip the process, will be more than happy to meet up.

 

[BlueK]

It is not that simple mate, and actually it is a situation that only players handle well since most beta males will be hungry to take it, so I see it as shit test as well, she wanna see if you are easily sold, if you take it, she won't reply in the text game, if you do not take it, you will gain attraction in her eyes and asking for the number later could really make something happen, you see the idea?
If I take the number, I will be low value because I wouldnt be a man with standard, in other words, a man who fuck anything

 

[Velasco]

She's giving it to you because she wants to get rid of you in a safe way possible or fuck (circumstances get in the way sometimes and a girl that was initially down, becomes more and more difficult to meet up with until it becomes too inconvenient for her and she ghosts). Delaying it, will only delay that decision. While clubbing when girl wants to go, (one I remember said, "wanna go fuck?") I say yea let's go, then lead out and fuck. Its not gonna make me higher value and show I have standards if I say to her, "nah not yet. I'm not that easy, girl". She'll just move on to someone else.

 

[BlueK]

No bro, let me explain you the situation.
I am talking about when you do a cold approach daygame and you walk to a girl and deliver a direct opener and she wanna give you her phone number quickly. But she was not in a hurry, she was sitting and I approached her
Would you take it and keep talking or would you say "No I dont want you phone number. I just want to know you". That situation

 

[Skills]

No bro, let me explain you the situation.
I am talking about when you do a cold approach daygame and you walk to a girl and deliver a direct opener and she wanna give you her phone number quickly. But she was not in a hurry, she was sitting and I approached her
Would you take it and keep talking or would you say "No I dont want you phone number. I just want to know you". That situation

weird! if a girl does not like you she would not give you her number, i was leaning towards she is trying to get rid of you, but women don't usually give you the number if they don't like you they say "i have a boyfriend"... just get the number, and keep plowing through the seduction...(stay in set)

 

[Skjöldr]

Yes i have that happen several times too. The girl is like "OMG thank you so much, do you want my number" and im just like "Woaah, i would like to get to know you a bit first" and then they either go "haha okay" or "Oof im in such a rush though" and in the latter case i just make a quick chat with her while getting the number.

 

[BlueK]

Thank you "Skills". That was exactly what I wanted hear. Awsome man, 10/10 answer
Yes, I was thinking that when a girl does not like you and want to get rid of you early in set, they rarely offer their phone numbers since it is easier to reject us and say "sorry, I have boyfriend" but wanted to know if you guys agree

 

[BlueK]

Thank you so much, Phoenix. Good to hear your experience bro

 

[Velasco]

Yes, I was thinking that when a girl does not like you and want to get rid of you early in set, they rarely offer their phone numbers since it is easier to reject us and say "sorry, I have boyfriend" but wanted to know if you guys agree

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then they either go "haha okay" or "Oof im in such a rush though" and in the latter case i just make a quick chat with her while getting the number.

Meaning

She's giving it to you because she wants to get rid of you in a safe way possible or fuck.

Meaning this is false

If I take the number, I will be low value because I wouldnt be a man with standard, in other words, a man who fuck anything

Because if she WAS trying to get rid of you, then

Delaying it, will only delay that decision.

 

[ulrich]

Which exact openers are you using?

It seems that these girls are trying to place you in the “follower” category too soon too often.
There could be something about your approach.