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After first date lays, it seems like girls panic and want to try and sway the power back in their direction ever so swiftly.
Best example of this is a girl I took out for dinner and brought her home and had sex with her on a first date. For the second date, I texted her the day of and she asked me what time was good. I said anytime after 5, and she responds "Ok how about 5:30 because I have a conference at 7:45" which basically she's telling me we're going to eat and nothing else after. I just responded "Well how about we reschedule so you don't have to just eat and run?"
I nearly always get these attempts to suddenly swing everything back in their favor after a first date lay. Did I handle the above appropriately? How do you guys deal with these things?
-NJ
Best example of this is a girl I took out for dinner and brought her home and had sex with her on a first date. For the second date, I texted her the day of and she asked me what time was good. I said anytime after 5, and she responds "Ok how about 5:30 because I have a conference at 7:45" which basically she's telling me we're going to eat and nothing else after. I just responded "Well how about we reschedule so you don't have to just eat and run?"
I nearly always get these attempts to suddenly swing everything back in their favor after a first date lay. Did I handle the above appropriately? How do you guys deal with these things?
-NJ