THE FLIRT - Flirting
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Flirts are central as part of seductions - a key centre line. Here flirts are understood in a wider sense involving banter, playfulness, feistiness and potentially other dimensions. But it removes many elements. Might be behind why humor is so key to women cause it removes their insecurities, relaxes and gets them into a totally different mode. Might even pass over resistance points.
Multiple techs fit into this and can support various nuances of flirt while still circulating the rapport-soft-fun centreline.
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My Recall: Change of energy through shift to teasing - SC girl change FRENCH - her changes and fun opening when teased from basic - awakening.
Parts in flirting at the moment:
- Teasing in its various forms.. playfulness or more fiery.
- Openings w receptiveness and polite-intelligent playful framing of situation as her not getting something
- Opening w more direct energy of it, more tension in the frame set w a smile.. putting it out for her to bite on
- Mischief and weness... roleplays, we frames..
- Singy songy summerish liberated joyfulness...
- Add to fun nudging part of the verbals - being more active in the fun vs just nudging. stimulate on response especially but dont limit to that.
- Use with touch to smoothn escalation
- Articulate the energy, give it life, shape it..
- The nourishing addition of sexuality - this is not the flirt but next stage...
Mmmhh i get it . the flirt, the role of it, the nuances... how they collect in a central energy
The tease and the warmth as important as the tension
Bigger picture
Do we have an intimacy principle? or is it too simple to encompass all dimensions? something else. including the fun too, the joyful connection..
Like the pleasure principle the connection intimacy feel and the fun playfulness and banter feistyness all provide good feels that can fuel things. This is a very joyful fun stage where the connections are central. The lover side of things. I think its stronger than sexual feels tbh. Maybe due to girls seeds. But also for actual mens true needs across many things. My sense of intimacy has always been its more effectful. the softness, the real rapport. The intimacy of the connective feel on this area.
but much more to be understood..