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Hey gentlemen,
I have my favorite bar in town- i will either go by myself or with coworkers after work. I usually dont make plans to go with friends/coworkers when im not working but sometimes i will go alone knowing that i might see them there. Anyway ive gotten to know all the bartenders well, and have made friends with some and established attraction with a couple of the other regulars there- mostly others in the restaurant industry, during late night hours. Anyway, i feel like i have developed a pretty good reputation for myself around there, but i dont want to overdo it by heading in too often by myself, especially now that ive started to form closer relationships with the people ive met- some of them have invited me over for a fire on a random night, or to afterparties, etc. so i am just wary of losing that establishment by continuing to lone wolf it. Or appearing like just another regular with nothing to do but wait for late night happy hour. I dont really worry about going after work though everyone needs a beer after work but on nights off i dont want to appear like a loser. I dunno maybe im just being paranoid due to being there a lot lately and meeting a lot of new people there lately but i just wanna think things through before i blow up my own spot. Or even get a bad reputation at work for being the guy that goes to this bar every night. Anyway what you guys think- i have a great time here and always find interesting new people to chat up or flirt with but dont want to overdo it.
I have my favorite bar in town- i will either go by myself or with coworkers after work. I usually dont make plans to go with friends/coworkers when im not working but sometimes i will go alone knowing that i might see them there. Anyway ive gotten to know all the bartenders well, and have made friends with some and established attraction with a couple of the other regulars there- mostly others in the restaurant industry, during late night hours. Anyway, i feel like i have developed a pretty good reputation for myself around there, but i dont want to overdo it by heading in too often by myself, especially now that ive started to form closer relationships with the people ive met- some of them have invited me over for a fire on a random night, or to afterparties, etc. so i am just wary of losing that establishment by continuing to lone wolf it. Or appearing like just another regular with nothing to do but wait for late night happy hour. I dont really worry about going after work though everyone needs a beer after work but on nights off i dont want to appear like a loser. I dunno maybe im just being paranoid due to being there a lot lately and meeting a lot of new people there lately but i just wanna think things through before i blow up my own spot. Or even get a bad reputation at work for being the guy that goes to this bar every night. Anyway what you guys think- i have a great time here and always find interesting new people to chat up or flirt with but dont want to overdo it.