Have a Girlfriend But Not Sure Where We Stand

[Troy]

I've done a lot of improvements and now I have a girlfriend, a second lay, and someone to get sex with regularly. However for some reason things seem to be going downhill and I don't want to hear the line so early "we are breaking up ".

It's been two weeks and we still behave distant in public. I don't know whose fault it is. We go to the same school and she is 2 lower grades. Her name is Amanda. So far I've learnt that my girlfriend has fucked 7 guys, including myself and she is 16 (what the fuck? Why are these girls having so many partners and they still in school?. It makes me feel I'm not trying). Amanda takes school seriously and said sex comes after. I've bedded her 2 times in two weeks and we agreed that she take Wednesday (skip school) and come to my house for a 4 hour fuck session.

Here is the problem though : she makes me feel insecure a lot. She shows me whatsapp messages of guys who are begging her to cheat on me so they can fuck. She hides a lot of things from me ( telling me she is going home and her friends tell me she going to meet a man somewhere.... I don't know why... But I feel nervous thinking she fucked them. Reason I say that is because I can text her and say " come give me a fuck " and she comes over (no resistance) . Last week Shanel, her best friend and I sat with her phone and Shanel, went through her texts (it's a thing best friends do). We saw some texts with guys saying similar stuff and she said "ok" (so easily) . I should also note that this was before we were together. But I have seen her flirt with other men in front of me and she doesn't flirt much with me. I'm wondering if she finds them sexier than myself.

She loves muscular men (and I am skinny plus she teases me about my inability to get muscles like those guys who she adores), she laughs more even if they said nothing and she initiates conversation with more passion ( with me, we laugh sometimes but I have to talk 3 times more than those guys to get a similar response from her. When I keep quiet like those dudes she just stares at me and starts a boring conversation,with them she jokes).

Also when we plan to go somewhere ( even if I keep her engaged, laughing and stuff) the moment she sees her friends it's like I am invisible. When we meet at school she prefers talking to friends... AND YOU KNOW WHAT? all her friends are asking me if we are still together because we don't behave like a couple. I told Shanel that Amanda behaves aloof with me in public but when we are alone she is a lot more affectionate. Shanels reply "I wonder why?

Next issue is when we are alone she has a urge to always be texting the random guys ( I'm confused because when she is with friends she talks ) . I sometimes take away her phone and let her know we should talk now, not text or call later. She loves texting me so why not talk in person?


Finally I realize the problem MIGHT be I am acting needy . Remember she is behaving distant and I talk about it. I find it disrespectful to be talking while she is texting, when we plan to go somewhere and she sees friends and changes plans, she doesn't want anything from me ( how can a girl want NOTHING from her boyfriend? Does that mean I am doing well?), and she isn't as talkative with me compared to her platonic friends ( and some of the guys she fucked ).

What should I say to her? How do I be " sexy enough " so she doesn't cheat? I'm not saying she cheated, I'm only saying she behaves like she wants to do it. I'm probably over thinking this and being needy....she makes me wonder : am I being a good boyfriend, does she want more excitement, is she saying " give me space ", and go live my life with my friends? How do I progress a relationship if I don't know what SHE WANTS FROM ME?

Troy

 

[Mr.Rob]

Finally I realize the problem MIGHT be I am acting needy .

YUP! "Might" is an understatement.

This girl is an angel to you because she has exposed your weak points.

Forget the relationship and start studying, learning, and taking action to fix your self esteem issues and insecurities that are only going to inhibit you and your love life in the long run.

Learn to love yourself, fix what you can that you don't like, and own every flaw you can't fix to the hilt.

Lastly don't take yourself too seriously. You should be able to genuinely laugh at yourself in the same way that the girls tease you for being skinny.

A lot of the time when a girl pokes/prods at you about not looking like the ideal sexy man she's doing so not because she really cares about you being super muscular but because she wants to see if YOU CARE!

If she teases you for being skinny and you get butt hurt about it she's going to see you're weak in that area. If instead she teases you and you shrug it off like she's weird for even thinking the skinny guy that SHE CHOSE to sleep with isn't the sexiest thing since sliced bread she'll see you don't need her validation and become more attracted to you just like she wants.

-Rob

 

[ray_zorse]

Mr.Rob is right, but to add to his response you should never have asked her those things (how many guys etc) or looked at her phone or discussed those matters with her friend (you can bet everything you say gets relayed to het, giving her more material to manipulate you with). Additionally by saying things are disrespectful etc, or bringing up her behaviour with her or her friend, what you've done is reward bad behaviour with attention, thus ensuring it will continue. You need to be willing to walk away. Value yourself and your standards of behaviour (giving and taking) more than this relationship. From that vantage point it's easy to punish bad behaviour with no attention and reward good behaviour with attention and also touch, affection, sex and so forth.
Ray

 

[Troy]

What I'm understanding is that I set bad precedent. Before I faced these issues I read these articles to avoid this:

Operant Conditioning in Your Romantic Relationships

Dating and Relationship Precedent: Why It's So Very Important

but to add to his response you should never have asked her those things (how many guys etc) or looked at her phone or discussed those matters with her friend (you can bet everything you say gets relayed to het, giving her more material to manipulate you with). Additionally by saying things are disrespectful etc, or bringing up her behaviour with her or her friend, what you've done is reward bad behaviour with attention, thus ensuring it will continue. You need to be willing to walk away.

Mhmm, what's bad about knowing how many guys she has been with? Me and her best friend keep secrets and I asked her before to not tell Amanda anything we spoke about. I hope she did keep that promise.

A lot of the time when a girl pokes/prods at you about not looking like the ideal sexy man she's doing so not because she really cares about you being super muscular but because she wants to see if YOU CARE!

Sometimes when she brings it up I just say " Mhmm I don't care... It doesn't matter if I am skinny. After all I am already cute and you know it. If I did have the muscles I would be double sexy..too sexy that the girls would take me away from you . "

And other times she brings it up I get annoyed "I don't care girl. Shut the fuck up" I tell her and she laughs.


OTHER EXAMPLES

1) Last night she was going to call at 9:40. I sat and waited for her to call and she didn't (it was 10 pm). I texted her saying "you can call now.... Mhmm " and she didn't reply so I called her 2 times and she didn't answer. That was enough trying so I went to bed. This morning she texts back "hey... I'm SO sorry I didn't call.... I fell asleep.... I woke up and realized my phone was still open on whatsapp so don't think I ignored you ". My reply was " (a emoticon art with a couple clouds surrounded by diamonds and saying good morning my sunshine), then a follow up text saying "OK. It happens to me sometimes...sleep well?". She replied saying " no...I had weird dreams ". I ask her to tell me about her dreams, she gives a summary, we laugh, then I told her "well we can talk about this soon... I'm going to get on with my days stuff ". How did I handle that situation?



2 ) We are walking after school to come by my house.... Of course the excuse is to pick up some papers for her to copy... But she should know that we going to to sex then she get the papers. Someone says "Amanda " and she looks back to see her friends coming and turns to talk to them. I stand there and play cool and look at my phone while she talks with them. I had her phone in my pocket so she wouldn't ditch me just like that I thought. She walks off with her friend's forgetting I am there and I call to her...she looks at me and says

Amanda: where is my phone?

Troy: I have it. Come and get it.

Amanda (She comes over and protests)

Troy: ( I tell her quietly ) we going the same place to pick up the papers...remember?

Amanda: no I have to get home

Troy: We made plans from this morning and you told your girlfriend she would have to wait....I'm going home...come if you want or go on home

......................this is a long story so in summary I use her phone as the bait because If I give her she will walk away. I know she doesn't have anywhere going but because she sees her friend's she wants to bail on me. I keep walking and one of her male friend's follows and persuades me to give her the phone. I ignore him and talk to Amanda " you can go home...after all there has been a change in plans...

In the end we had a argument in the town at her bus waiting area. Her male friend gets involved and eventually I decide to give up the phone. I KNOW I WAS WRONG TO TAKE AWAY HER PHONE. This happened on Wednesday. On Friday when I told her to come fuck me she said " I'm having my period and it would end on Monday". I asked her if Wednesday is a good day and she said "yes ...I will take the day to see you darling (skip school).....THAT EXPLAINS WHY SHE DIDN'T COME WITH ME ( She was probably insecure that I would see her period ). Anyways can't win everything right.....??



3) I see her around school and she talks to everyone animated. When I see her I wonder if it's a good idea to go talk to her because she might ignore me to talk to " friend's". It would be very embarassing to be ignored by my girlfriend but I go never the less. She was talking to her male friend and I stood there relaxed waiting for her to finish talking to him. He walks away and she looks over my shoulder as if looking for someone to talk to. I say " hi " and she replies then stops another guy to talk to him. I was shocked because all my friends/acquaintances were in the cafeteria and saw what happened. Tell me now, which guy in their right mind would be relaxed? I was pissed off and almost got furious to curse her. It isn't the first time this has happened....I feel rejected when she is with friend's

All these things are enough to drive a sane man batty!!! It is very insulting to see my girlfriend holding her male friend's hand at school ( she initiates ) and she doesn't hold my hand. Her male friend's get more attention than myself at school...Ask yourself if you wouldn't feel HORRIBLE AND NEEDY?

I feel needy around her because I'm being treated worse than a platonic friend in public, yet when she gets home she texts me like EVERYTHING IS OK...sending me cute pics and wanting to talk for hours.

What should I do? How do I set precedent? I have said to her As your boyfriend I don't feel good when I am around you at school. You seem more interested in speaking with your male friend's and I'm just staring at you. I feel hurt and I would like us to spend more time talking at school and behaving like a couple so others can see ".

She doesn't care and I don't know what to say. What should I do?

Troy

 

[Troy]

In general, women start earlier than men and HS is a closed social system. Most people in hs only have their hs for their social life. It is hard to go sharpen social skills in a place that is not your high school which is unfortunate. Its not incredibly strange for many girls to have ran through a string of men in their HS years, usually an entire group of popular guys. The phrase "she fucked the whole football team" is not really wrong most of the time. The reason for this is that hs is typically it is a time of EXTREME insecurity for women.

It's quite sad to know that these little girls are fucking so many guys...Honestly I don't know what else to think. I sexed 2 girls in a month only to find out that they both are sex addicts. It makes me wonder if I will find a girl who hasen't tasted the seed of many men. You are right about it being hard to sharpen social skills in a place outside of high school.That's the biggest motivation and fear I have. The fear is leaving the one place I get the best chance to improve 10 fold. And the motivation is " Yes I can do what I want now so that when I leave high school I won't enter as a NEWBIE. I won't suffer ( as much ) if I have some experience ". " She fucked the whole football team" haha I know a girl who fucked 27 guys on the track team and 3 top guys on the football team she gave blowjobs. It's quite sad though because I feel I'm being left in the dust. I have to catch upif I'm ever going to be comfortable knowing my girlfriend'shave been with a parade of men...I need to get more lays, and fast

. She wants to make you insecure. She shows you how other guys message her and she flirts with other guys in front of you. It seems to me she also uses this tactic to solve a level of insecurity in herself. She probably keeps you around because of your needy behavior but is also turned off by it.

She sends screenshots on whatsapp all the while asking me what how she should reply. It does make me jealous; fortunately I can keep my cool since she doesn't see me. What makes me feel good is she has a awesome face pic of me coming out of the shower and being caught off guard smiling...at least when she is messaging these guys she never forgets I'm in the picture

Other people tell you she cheats.

A group of girls approached me and said " check her whatsapp and you will see the lot of men she fucked. Has she even given you anything? And I reply " Ask Her..She will tell you ". Apart from those girls no one has told me she is cheating. I hope she isn't cheating.

First of all, just dump her, DO NOT BE SAD AT ALL ABOUT YOUR BREAK UP but BE VERY DRAMATIC ABOUT IT. Heres how.
1. Dump her via text and say something like I KNOW YOU CHEATED its cool were done

What if she didn't cheat? Wouldn't that look very bad on me to accuse her and I have no evidence?

Stop explicitly telling girls you want to fuck them. This in itself shows neediness because you are essentially just asking for sex. Learn to navigate the social sea so that you can get sex with never having to ask for it. This is bad for business in hs. Remember, hs is a big social circle, so you need to keep your intentions discreet, just flirt hard, make a non-sexual excuse to be alone with girls, and then just make a move. This will net you much better results and be much better for your long term growth as a seducer.

I don't explicitely tell girl's I'm going to fuck them. That is just stupid and more often than not the girl would ensure I didn't have a chance to do it. Sorry about the misleading statement. This is the first time I explicitely told a girl I want to sex her. Only because I saw her texts where every guy and his brother said the same thing, and it worked did I choose to try it. And it worked lol.. What I always do is tell girls " You need the school assignments and I'm not coming to school tomorrow so you could stop by later and get them " or " I'm going to KFC after school. Come lets chill out and get free wifi ".

Simple as that and they rarely flake

Troy

 

[Troy]

I have other things to do yet I keep thinking about her. I don't have time to go out and meet more girls so any other tips to get her out my head? I feel the oneitis coming on.

Troy

 

[Troy]

Hey Everyone

In summary what you have told me is to:
1) Deal with self esteem issues
2) Let go of this relationship
3) Continue learning to love myself
4) Know that what my girlfriend is doing is bad
5) Find other girls to flirt heavily with in front of her

....on the last one, I struggle to do that sometimes... Yes I'm learning how to make girls laugh however there are times when I am also extremely boring. Many times I don't know what to say to a girl I barely know to be flirty. I don't want to just be " talking boring to some girl in front my girlfriend.. I definitely need the girl to be engaged and that's partially the problem why my girlfriend is losing interest. Any tips on dealing with being boring? I need a quick tip to be relatable to anyone and share jokes fast. Many times I have no idea what the girl/person likes thus wants to talk about and even if I know what they like I don't know how to put it across flirty....

Troy

 

[Sub-Zero]

Hey Everyone

In summary what you have told me is to:
1) Deal with self esteem issues
2) Let go of this relationship
3) Continue learning to love myself
4) Know that what my girlfriend is doing is bad
5) Find other girls to flirt heavily with in front of her

....on the last one, I struggle to do that sometimes... Yes I'm learning how to make girls laugh however there are times when I am also extremely boring. Many times I don't know what to say to a girl I barely know to be flirty. I don't want to just be " talking boring to some girl in front my girlfriend.. I definitely need the girl to be engaged and that's partially the problem why my girlfriend is losing interest. Any tips on dealing with being boring? I need a quick tip to be relatable to anyone and share jokes fast. Many times I have no idea what the girl/person likes thus wants to talk about and even if I know what they like I don't know how to put it across flirty....

Troy

Bro... your girl can't be disrespecting you like this, and she's younger. She's disrespectful as hell, i would dump her, she's making you feel bad about yourself, why would you want to date her? She's making you insecure, and you're worrying about her fuckin other guys, and all of this stuff. It sounds like she's having fun fuckin with your head. she's really young and girls love doing shit like that for fun to guys to make them mad or worry. You have to gain control back.

On not being boring, do you have a job? Play sports? Not much you can really do in high school. ]

 

[Drck]

Great answers, and - NEXT!

She doesn't respect you at all, she sleeps with bunch of other guys, she will sleep with any guy who shows her some attraction and interest....

 

[sneaky_charm]

Troy,

For your own sake, dump this girl. At this point, you're going to make excuses, giving yourself a thousand reasons why you SHOULD NOT dump her. But those excuses are coming from a point of not having enough options. Go out and get new numbers, hook up with other girls, have sex even. Once you do that, leaving this girl won't seem too hard. Do it for yourself.

Also, if you just cannot make yourself dump her immediately, try giving her silent treatment for about 3 or 4 days. Absolutley no texts, calls or talks in person. See how she reacts!

- Sneaky

 

[Jaimie Richards]

+1 on what Drck and Sneaky said. Were I in your place, I would follow these advice above - first silent treatment (to gain more reference points, therefore new experience) and then break-up. Brace yourself, bro.

BTW > on fighting oneitis: try to think only about her bad sides whenever possible.* It will hopefully cause a cognitive dissonance between logic and emotions. From that point, it should be at least a little easier. Why? Because your logical part KNOWS she's bad for you while your emotional side believes otherwise, so such a thought/mental battles may finally help you get the proper image of her. (However, it's worth mentioning I don't know if it is a good method for everyone - what I know is that it works for me and with each oneitis it gets better every time - so field tested on me. I also know that it takes time, but it's better than nothing, so probably worth trying - at least, I guess so.)

* I don't mean you should make her a witch, just focus on her REAL disadvantages - and as we all know now, she has plenty of them.

J.

P.S. In the meantime, revising GC articles about red flags, crazies, handling your emotions and proper ways to break-up would be beneficial - so you can gain as much from this shitty situation as possible.

 

[Lotus]

I cant disagree with anything being posted... remember that dating a girl like that will make you look weaker and ruin your reputation

I

need a quick tip to be relatable to anyone and share jokes fast. Many times I have no idea what the girl/person likes thus wants to talk about and even if I know what they like I don't know how to put it across flirty....

I used to just ask everyone near me in class "how was your weekend?" most people generally love to talk about their weekends and I still use this today for sales calls at work. If they don't open up for you and just say, "good, how about you?" that leaves a window for you to tell a story about your weekend. If you do that in a couple different classes throughout the day your bound to get better at your stories.

On relating.... whenever you find yourself unable to relate to someone jot down it down in notes on your phone and do some research next time you have free time. IE- there is a cute girl in one of your classes who always talks about celebrity gossip, spend 5-10 minutes reading before class and ask her about something that has recently happened.

 

[Troy]

I'm beginning to feel that I slept with 2 crazy girls in a month. I don't know but why do they like me? I just want a normal girl I can relax around and even when they aren't around I won't be thinking " oh shit where is she gone to now?. I definitely need to break up with her because she is just so insulting ( sometimes) and other times so nice.....I'm wondering why it is so hard to break up with her. She isn't making me feel special one iota. All I get is a little sex ( which means nothing to me if she won't make me feel like a step above her platonic friends )....Here I am worrying if she is sitting on some guys dick while she just whatsapped me...

Everyday she texts me " Are you coming to school tomorrow? And I say yes/no....it depends if I got stuff to do at school. We had this conversation last night and I switched things up...and the response she gave was unfavourable:

Amanda: Are you coming school?

Troy: Yes

Amanda: ( 4 crying emoticons )
Y

Troy: Why you have crying emotions......I thought you would be glad to see me

Amanda: Slip of the finger.....I am......not tomorrow though

Right away I think back to the time she was texting this guy to meet him at the library and told me she was leaving. I had to pull her aside and convince her to stay so I thought " mhmm....she probably don't want me come school tomorrow because she has plans with some guy". I felt awful but played cool. On with the conversation.

Troy: Why not tomorrow?

Amanda: The only thing that make I want you to come is to get your chocolate

Troy: ( I play cool here but I was angry with her response ) Kmt is so you see things. Oh I am the chocolate...eat me girl

Amanda: Lol...I will

Troy: Which part you want to bite first

Amanda: Any part you give me

Troy: First my lips...tell me the next part

Amanda: OK...I'll just start from top to bottom

Troy: Booring

Start at the parts you most want to sink in those teeth. And go from there

Amanda: Ok

Troy: Where is your favourite

Amanda: I'll start from your dick

Then move up to your belly bottom
To your tits
Haha
Onwards

Troy: Haha good plan...the dick comes with a extra special white milk......I know you love chocolate so my skin will do

Amanda: ( 2 roll eyes emoticons ) Yeah man

Troy: But I will bring chocolate tomorrow

Amanda: Yaaaaaay

Here is the interesting part....on Wednesday she skipping school to come by my house for a afternoon fuck ( she wants 4 hours.....Last time we sexed I lasted over 3 hours haha hopefully I can keep up for over 4 hours this time ). She insulted me, only want to see me to get chocolate. I just assumed she was flirting so I played along and she said I'd get a blowjob. Well I don't see the harm in getting her to blow me off then I dump her....I know it might be a little cruel....sigh....probably it's the only way I will be able to break up with her.

Even more so ALL THE ADVICE I GOT FEELS SO RIGHT AND I'M GOING TO FOLLOW THROUGH BUT I HAVE TO FUCK HER ONE LAST TIME. For some reason I find it DIFFICULT to let go without winning in some way. This is my winning point....besides it's not like I'm hurting her because chances are when we break up she will be moving on to fuck 5 more guys in quick succession. Still it's tough letting go of my ONLY sexual option currently....I know she is a bad fit for me...yet I want to hold on to the sex...I was going to ask if I can move her into a friends with benefits position but I changed me mind...Even if I'm getting to sex her I'm going to feel WORSE holding on. I'm going to feel worse that I'm getting sex from a easy girl... It's not so much me because I've realized she will fuck pretty much any guy as long as she knows him for a while and he is cute.... It feels like I'm with a girl that any man can have for lunch if he pushes the right buttons (they are easily pushed)... All I have to say is "come fuck me" and she is on my dick and it's the same thing other guys can do..... She is a lock that any key can pull, I want a girl that has a lock only the master key (myself) can pull (when we are in a relationship)
Might as well let go..............


Edit :

Also, if you just cannot make yourself dump her immediately, try giving her silent treatment for about 3 or 4 days. Absolutley no texts, calls or talks in person. See how she reacts!

She whatsapped me earlier and I replied. She wanted to know if I'm coming school tomorrow. I evade that question and other than that she has no conversation... Nothing to say to me after I bought chocolate and shared it with her today (we kissed and ate the chocolate mouth to mouth) and then I went into my exam ...and she has nothing to say... What should I do in such a situation? Her boyfriend sat a exam and she has nothing to say to him? Really now... Later she sent a screenshot showing her battery on 3% and she hasn't replied so I can understand that.

I wanted to ignore her first message but she would know I ignored her. And I couldn't read her message...double trouble.

I aimed to follow your advice... The next time she messages me on whatsapp what should I do? I can't hide because I'm busy talking to other girls.

Troy

 

[ohooh64]

Troy,

You got quite a thing for crazy chicks. lol
But in all seriousness, you absolutely need to cut her off immediately.
Make her as non-existent as possible!!
I don't care that you want to fuck or get a blowjob from her, because based on previous posts over a different girl (Malia?) it seem to only create more drama and delaying the inevitable. Next thing you know, you're probably gonna make another post why you're having a difficult time letting her go even though people have repeatedly told you to cut her off.

I'm not trying to be mean or anything, but you really need to stop hanging around negative people like them, and find or create a new social circle that is healthier and there to uplift you.
The next post you make on GC better be a girl that is mentally stable.

 

[Jaimie Richards]

Troy,

I know I'm repeating both others and myself here, but that's because I care.

As we see now another way of letting go isn't an option this time (slow letting go and getting more reference points for the future so you can stay away from crazies), so let her go ASAP. I guess that your posts mirror, at least to some extent, your mental state and for outsiders it's clear: instead of getting sucked in a fun way by cool girls you're getting sucked of your energy by a vampire-like one. Don't drag it any longer, because - at least from my perspective - you've gotten too far on a downward spiral.

I've carefully read your newer post (and once again, the previous ones) - sadly, I've underestimated her negative effects on you. Now it doesn't really matter what next she will do or say, because your time for caring for that is and MUST be over!

So: this time it's the high time to let her go to minimize the negative fallout. Do it now and - to use a metaphor - get back on your stairway to heaven rather than stay on this highway to hell.

Time for other things will come later. Now it's break-up time.

- J.

 

[sneaky_charm]

Hey Troy,

The term 'silent treatment' comes from narcissicm. It is the way narcissists punish their partners for not complying. You do not respond to anything at all. It is like you are dead. You can't hear them, don't talk to them in person, ignore them when they talk to you, never reply to their texts or calls. Like disappearing from the face of earth or something. In a NONCHALANT way. Try ignoring her COMPLETELY for 3 or 4 days. See how she responds. Doesn't matter if she sees you on WhatsApp. What matters is that you DON'T reply to HER. You can talk to other girls all you want. That may even be good, as she will start thinking "Who the hell is he talking to? He is not even replying to me when he is online? What's up!"

- Sneaky

 

[Drck]

If the NEXT thing doesn't work out for you, you can always just dump her

 

[Zoro]

If you are seeing a trend of crazy girls coming into your life, you need to see that as your own doing.
People finding themselves in the same type of problematic relationships is a common phenomenon.

Taking responsibility for everything in your life gives you the power to make a change.

-What is it that you want and how can you bring that into your life?
-What kind of woman do you want, and how can you bring her into your life?

Writing this down is an excellent exercise.

-What is it that you dislike, but keep running into, and how is that happening?

If crazy girls are indeed your type then you are doing just fine

with love,
JW

 

[Troy]

Straight up I am dumping her shit tomorrow. Never have I felt so awful. She has a bunch of guys on her whatsapp talking about "cute and how she misses them. This morning she texts me saying she going to some her male friends house to negotiate business... Yeah right... I told her if she went she going to get fucked... Eventually I managed to convince her to not skip school to go to his house and instead meet him if you need to in public better at the library since that stuff is school work... Why do you need to go to his house? Seriously I knew she knows he wants to fuck her... I've seen her phone and all the guys say it....it only takes a man with a working dick and decent looks to get her in bed.

I must be dating the devils wife....my hands were shaking like a old man this morning when she told me she going to her friends house....I fainted in bed luckily.... My day was horrible... She says I argue too much.

I don't think so because I simply discuss that I don't like how she makes me feel weak around others... Ignoring me to talk to some random guy. She can go and when I do break up with her I am going to block her on whatsapp... Even block her from making calls and sending SMS.

Never has anyone made me feel so vulnerable....every second I think she could be sitting on some guys dick while texting me... And riding him silly . When was the last time she gave me good sex? Never!!! I do 90% of the work and I even have to turn her backside for every position...

I walked away from depression and now I feel I need meds to keep me calm. I feel just sick thinking about her.

No crazy chicks aren't my thing... If I date one more she going drive me up the wall.


I'm done... She can go fuck 10 more guys to get over me.... I don't care because I haven't smiled ONCE in a long time when I thought of her. All I felt like doing was breaking down and "fixing problems " I never had before. Feeling sad thinking I hurt her and not realizing I'm feeling hurt. Feeling the need to tell her don't cry when I wanted to do it more.


I'm done.

Thanks for the advice everyone. Y'all said ignore her for 3 to 4 days... I can't wait that long because I feel time is being wasted and I am feeling desperate, weak and painfully sad .


I need to take some time to learn to love MYSELF. That's all I go to say.

Respect as always friends

Troy

 

[Raqimus]

Straight up I am dumping her shit tomorrow.
I'm done... She can go fuck 10 more guys to get over me.... I don't care because I haven't smiled ONCE in a long time when I thought of her. All I felt like doing was breaking down and "fixing problems " I never had before. Feeling sad thinking I hurt her and not realizing I'm feeling hurt. Feeling the need to tell her don't cry when I wanted to do it more.


I'm done.

Thanks for the advice everyone. Y'all said ignore her for 3 to 4 days... I can't wait that long because I feel time is being wasted and I am feeling desperate, weak and painfully sad .


I need to take some time to learn to love MYSELF. That's all I go to say.

Respect as always friends

Troy

You sounded a little butt hurt, but you fixed it