It's been a few months since i've updated my journal. I've had some fun interactions. I find these journals are good for reflecting on the positive experiences so you don't get bogged down on all the rejections and negative events.
The most notable experiences were:
- Went to a bar on friday night a month ago and pulled a hb6 blonde. 35 years old. She was sitting at a table be herself and asked if she's with her friends. She said she was waiting for her gf to come back. There was a lot of back and forth throughout the night, she told me I'm strange and doesnt feel like she knows me. That's a key issue for me, I struggle to be myself in public and im socially awkward. I often just plough through the awkwardness and focus on escalating. It worked and she invited me to her place. There was lots of nuances to this interaction which would take a lot of pages writing to go through. For example, I was ignoring her while she was talking to me which is what helped me build attraction. I also spilled her drink on her and bought her another one. 3 different guys bought her a dirnk that night while i was with her. 3 other guys plus me but i bought her a drink only because i spilled hers. But throughout the night while we were together she would go to the bar and a guy would offer to buy her a drink. She looked attractive all dressed up - i'd give her a 7.5 dressed up with make up and high heels but naked she was a 6. A bit chubby but had nice bronze skin, tight, firm all well maintained face and body. Big jugs.
- I went to the same bar a week later and pulled a single mom. She had an atheletic body and average face. She was late 30s i'd guess. She had a nice ass which isnt guaranteed with older women - sometimes they look really fit in their outfits thanks to modern clothing engineering but when you grab their ass it feels a bit saggy. This woman had a nice plump firm ass like a teenager which was good so i decided to stick with her for the night.
- I went to a bar/nightclub near the beach this night. I decided to cold approach as much as possible on my way there so i'm heavily in social state and it worked out. I'm hanging around the bar area and I spot this 9/10 babe (white, brunette) walking past dressed in a black studded outfit. She had that heavy metal aesthetic. I used that to open her. I also immediately started escalating as soon as she stopped and showed receptiveness i put my hand on her back sexually. I then talked about her look and told her she would suit a BLACK SAMBUCCA. She was very young perhaps only 19 years old. She didnt even know what a black sambucca was. I pulled her to the bar and made a joke about us being a couple and then i role played it and she played along and we started making out. Then i bought her a shot, she had it, didnt like it, then i went back to role playing and we started making out again. I was in shock. This was one of the hottest girls I hooked up with even compared to my youthful prime (I wasnt constantly escalating and running 60yoc method when i was young and mostly relied on IOIs). After making out I asked for her instagram and ejected. I should've tried to pull her home but I didnt want to get rejected. Also I should note when she was walking past before I opened her she was on her way to meet her friends at the other end of the venue. She had just arrived. All that kind of made me more nervous because in the back of my mind i was waiting for all her friends to show up and start the shit tests/cockblocks. I'm lucky i stopped her before she was with her friends or else gaming her would've been way way harder (girls become very self-concious about hooking up when their friends are watching).
- about a month ago i was chilling at home bored and decided to go in to the city for a wander. No intention of hitting the bars or anything but once i got there i just started doing gutter game. I was dressed very casually in dirty sneakers and a hoody. I also had eaten lots of bad food and felt like a dirty old pig. What's crazy is I nearly hooked up with another young girl. She was waiting in line to enter a venue with her friends. I told her she looked like Anne Hathaway and she was loving the compliment (she didnt exactly look like anne hathway but she had black hair, fair skin and red lipstick so i used that line anyway). I pull her in and we cuddle. I start kissing her on top of her head and she's fully compliant. I could've made out with her if i stuck around but all her friends are staring at us giving us funny looks which made me nervous so I ejected on a high note. She didnt notice her friends laughing because she was HOOKED. I Went home buzzing with energy. Pretty cool for a quick duck out to the shops on a friday night. Especially given i didnt dress up or anything for a night out.
I think that was all for the hook ups that have occured since i last posted. I got some numbers that couldve resulted in dates but i didnt pursue them. One woman gave me her number when i was out clubbing and she was keen to meet up for a date. We had one arranged but i cancelled because it was scheduled for the day after i went home with that hb6 blonde and i didnt get home until 7am the next morning i was cooked. I messaged the chick and said i'll cancel the date. i could've pulled her easily. I was trying to kiss her the night i got her number but she kept swerving me and saying i have to wait but she was letting me squeeze her ass, put my hands all over her body and eskimo kissing. i know she wanted it she just had asd.
I another thing that happened is i was on the bus heading home last friday night. I had been cold approaching for a few hours to no avail but then this young asian chick gets on the bus. she looked like a teenager. I look at her from across the bus and
ping her. She stares at me and i noticed her eyes are blood shot. I got shy so i looked away. There were lots of other people on the bus too so i felt shy to approach her. But after i pinged her she starts making loud sniffling sounds. It seems as though she was crying and i think she wanted attention. I probably could've pulled her easily had I approached her but as i said i was shy. Crying girls in public are often very easy to pull especially if they are giving IOIs. Likely they've gone through a break up or something and don't want to be alone. If there weren't other people on the bus i would've opened her properly. She got off the bus before everyone else so i never really had an opportunity to open her where i felt confident.
There was another interaction that happened recently. It was during the night i ducked out to the shops
. After my interaction with the Anne hathaway chick i opened another chick outside another venue. This chick was 10/10 high maintenance babe looked about 21. She was very receptive, i couldnt even believe how receptive she was because i feel like shit and she looks like a million bucks. I was able to escalate on her and put my hands on her ass and all that. I told her i want to dance with her and all that and she says ok but this was outside the venue and notice the bouncers staring at me and it made me feel like im some crazy homeless man harassing women so i ended up ejecting instead of trying to follow her into the venue. I was worried the bouncers wouldnt let me. So i kept it on a high note and ejected.
Yesterday i went out and did some appraoches at my local mall and no woman would stop. i was super shy and felt scared because the place is so lit up. the spotlight effect is horrendous. and no one does cold approach in my area so i feel like a weirdo doing it. But i forced it. But most girls/women wouldnt stop for long. mostly just instant blow outs which was frustrating. That's why i need to remind myself of the good interactions that can happen.
