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Fine! I'll stay offline.
This is really only for @Marty and @OldGuy and @L8D8
I've had decent success with older women using longer messages, while setting clear as day sexual frames.
My online photos have always been so bad, people say they can't see me. In this case there was confusion over how much younger I am than her, and she ended up canceling.
Didn't want the texting to go to waste...
She's got a real tight waist and sings in church.
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Me: Hello [her name], I see you're a Pisces, which means we'd be in for a bit of trouble and end up lost in fantasy. Might be dangerous. Still though, mine would be to meet and get to know each other before you get any ideas. I have found the most fulfillment in connecting with someone really wrong for you. It opens up a purity to the experience. Slow down though... let's start with tea.
Her: Fulfillment and connecting with someone really wrong for you? Did you mean for that to come out like that?
Me: Well I read that over 90% of communication is processed non-verbally, so until we meet it's very low odds anything is reaching you as intended. But yes, since life's only constant is impermanence, and relationships need to progress over time or flame out, anything beyond an evening is a pretty special experience of the present moment absent of any agenda, whether for a week or over years.
Her: True
Me [4 days later after holiday] Hi [her name], I just logged on again and saw this. If you're still here, what do you say let's get together for a tea or something and have a chat.
Her: Sure why not.
Me: Great, how do your evenings look this week? I'm thinking this cafe [name, street city, map URL]. Let me know how you feel about that. You're also welcome to come have tea in [my city]... There's a cozy little restaurant right here that makes a couple kinds.
Her: The only night I have open this week is Tuesday like about 7 o’clock?
Me: Ah I've got [redacted], but could meet by 8. Does that work to meet at [restaurant, address]?
Her: That works. What’s your phone number?
Me: Ok, you're on. [redacted], but feel free to text. [my number]
[one day later]...
Her: Hey, I don’t know if I feel like driving all the way to [my city] for 8 o’clock meet and greet, you think there’s anywhere in between that you can think of? I’m in [her city].
Her: How about [bar name in city half-way on street]?
Me: Oh that is far... I suppose everyone has a bedtime. Wouldn't want you to get grounded... or turn into a pumpkin [note for foreign guys this is from Cinderella after midnight]. [bar] works, but I was going to [redacted] a little early and walk over... [restaurant] is in my lobby. I can easily shoot up to [bar] but it's going to be more like 8:30 if that works. Something tells me you get up at like 4am to work out.
Her: No it’s only far for me downtown! You just said you’re walking from your lobby give me a break! Lol. And no I definitely don't get up at 4 AM to work out. You’re making a lot of early presumptions. I thought [bar] would be in between. again I’m coming from [her area].
Her: Do you live in [place] or something? Is that what the issue was you driving home?
Me: When I said "Oh that is far", I mean [her city] is far! I can easily shoot up to [bar]. From [her area] it's 32 minutes to the [bar], or 38 to [restaurant]. I live above [restaurant] in [city]. I'd be walking from [redacted]. So it's up to you - we can either meet at 8:30... or if you want to drive about 5 more mins we can meet at 8pm if a little earlier is better for you.
Her: Ok. Ur right. I’ve never been to [restaurant] and I’m sure it’s a lot better than [bar].
Her: So 8:00 it is.
Me: It's cute. You'll fit right in. Shoot me a text if you have any issue. [parking logistics]
Her: Ok. My number is [her number]
This is really only for @Marty and @OldGuy and @L8D8
I've had decent success with older women using longer messages, while setting clear as day sexual frames.
My online photos have always been so bad, people say they can't see me. In this case there was confusion over how much younger I am than her, and she ended up canceling.
Didn't want the texting to go to waste...
She's got a real tight waist and sings in church.
***
Me: Hello [her name], I see you're a Pisces, which means we'd be in for a bit of trouble and end up lost in fantasy. Might be dangerous. Still though, mine would be to meet and get to know each other before you get any ideas. I have found the most fulfillment in connecting with someone really wrong for you. It opens up a purity to the experience. Slow down though... let's start with tea.
Her: Fulfillment and connecting with someone really wrong for you? Did you mean for that to come out like that?
Me: Well I read that over 90% of communication is processed non-verbally, so until we meet it's very low odds anything is reaching you as intended. But yes, since life's only constant is impermanence, and relationships need to progress over time or flame out, anything beyond an evening is a pretty special experience of the present moment absent of any agenda, whether for a week or over years.
Her: True
Me [4 days later after holiday] Hi [her name], I just logged on again and saw this. If you're still here, what do you say let's get together for a tea or something and have a chat.
Her: Sure why not.
Me: Great, how do your evenings look this week? I'm thinking this cafe [name, street city, map URL]. Let me know how you feel about that. You're also welcome to come have tea in [my city]... There's a cozy little restaurant right here that makes a couple kinds.
Her: The only night I have open this week is Tuesday like about 7 o’clock?
Me: Ah I've got [redacted], but could meet by 8. Does that work to meet at [restaurant, address]?
Her: That works. What’s your phone number?
Me: Ok, you're on. [redacted], but feel free to text. [my number]
[one day later]...
Her: Hey, I don’t know if I feel like driving all the way to [my city] for 8 o’clock meet and greet, you think there’s anywhere in between that you can think of? I’m in [her city].
Her: How about [bar name in city half-way on street]?
Me: Oh that is far... I suppose everyone has a bedtime. Wouldn't want you to get grounded... or turn into a pumpkin [note for foreign guys this is from Cinderella after midnight]. [bar] works, but I was going to [redacted] a little early and walk over... [restaurant] is in my lobby. I can easily shoot up to [bar] but it's going to be more like 8:30 if that works. Something tells me you get up at like 4am to work out.
Her: No it’s only far for me downtown! You just said you’re walking from your lobby give me a break! Lol. And no I definitely don't get up at 4 AM to work out. You’re making a lot of early presumptions. I thought [bar] would be in between. again I’m coming from [her area].
Her: Do you live in [place] or something? Is that what the issue was you driving home?
Me: When I said "Oh that is far", I mean [her city] is far! I can easily shoot up to [bar]. From [her area] it's 32 minutes to the [bar], or 38 to [restaurant]. I live above [restaurant] in [city]. I'd be walking from [redacted]. So it's up to you - we can either meet at 8:30... or if you want to drive about 5 more mins we can meet at 8pm if a little earlier is better for you.
Her: Ok. Ur right. I’ve never been to [restaurant] and I’m sure it’s a lot better than [bar].
Her: So 8:00 it is.
Me: It's cute. You'll fit right in. Shoot me a text if you have any issue. [parking logistics]
Her: Ok. My number is [her number]
