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So apparently there's this thing on SoMe now where hotties are complaining that guys aren't approaching them IRL.
One bae walking in what looks like Central Park in NYC, saying her tits are bouncing and her skin is radiant, and that she's tired of not being noticed, and how she'd even take a catcall from a construction worker. Another chick in an orange dress back from a night out complaining that she's been ignored all night, and that guys should just "grab a boob, buy a drink, it's that simple" or something. And lastly, a cute brunette on TikTok complaining about the dating scene in NYC and how chicks are stealing finance dudes' salads in Midtown during lunchtime and looking them up on LinkedIn and hitting them up on there (their name is written on the salad or something).
If you filter out all the noise, like that Tea app where 1s and 2s complain about the dudes that rejected them, this seems like the result of #MeToo and all the DEI that was mainstreamed from the 2010s onwards, but also the more anti-male strands of feminism that are those currently in vogue.
I think it also has to do with the complete gender role reversal that we see in mainstream TV and movies of the last two decades or so (for movies where you can find solid masculine rolemodels, check out my Thoughts on recent movies thread), and all the campaigning against "toxic masculinity" but also the stories guys hear online of chicks showing DMs from guys and calling them out as creeps or even filming dudes approaching them and posting it online and doxxing the guy.
But if you filter it all out, I wanted to see the silver lining, which is that hotties are desperate because guys aren't approaching, which means, remembering to always calibrate to the girl (and not approach her in a fucking parking lot, or somewhere alone where she'll be afraid), get out there gents. There's no competition.
One bae walking in what looks like Central Park in NYC, saying her tits are bouncing and her skin is radiant, and that she's tired of not being noticed, and how she'd even take a catcall from a construction worker. Another chick in an orange dress back from a night out complaining that she's been ignored all night, and that guys should just "grab a boob, buy a drink, it's that simple" or something. And lastly, a cute brunette on TikTok complaining about the dating scene in NYC and how chicks are stealing finance dudes' salads in Midtown during lunchtime and looking them up on LinkedIn and hitting them up on there (their name is written on the salad or something).
If you filter out all the noise, like that Tea app where 1s and 2s complain about the dudes that rejected them, this seems like the result of #MeToo and all the DEI that was mainstreamed from the 2010s onwards, but also the more anti-male strands of feminism that are those currently in vogue.
I think it also has to do with the complete gender role reversal that we see in mainstream TV and movies of the last two decades or so (for movies where you can find solid masculine rolemodels, check out my Thoughts on recent movies thread), and all the campaigning against "toxic masculinity" but also the stories guys hear online of chicks showing DMs from guys and calling them out as creeps or even filming dudes approaching them and posting it online and doxxing the guy.
But if you filter it all out, I wanted to see the silver lining, which is that hotties are desperate because guys aren't approaching, which means, remembering to always calibrate to the girl (and not approach her in a fucking parking lot, or somewhere alone where she'll be afraid), get out there gents. There's no competition.
