How can I get back girls from the past who I fucked up with, when I didn't have game?

[Calibration]

I was going through my past failures on my phone. I've hardly deleted any contact from over the years. There are at least 200 chats I've had on different platforms like Whatsapp, SMS, messenger, IG's DM etc. I went through a few of them and most of them were cringe. Although initially she was into me, I'd have fucked up due to bad texting mainly ending up in flaking on dates, ghosting and sometimes falling off the radar gradually etc. Now I know what exactly was the mistake I did in each of those interactions. I've never met anyone on apps. It's mostly through cold approach or warm approach from social circles, dancing etc. From memory, some of them were super into me in person. So, I was wondering if there is a way to reinitiate contact with them and if yes, how?

 

[Marcellus]

Honestly man you should just keep it moving! On to the next girl. I like to reminisce sometime about girls I fucked up with in the past and what could have been.... then a beautiful girl walks past and I've forgotten all about those girls in the past all over again..

I would jusy keep it moving. Don't worry about trying to get those girls again. But.. here's an article if you still want to

What to Do When a Girl Doesn't Text Back

What to do when a girl doesn’t text back? First: don’t panic. Second: do things right next time. Third: read this and get her texting again. A reader writes in: I found something strange. Everytime Im having long interactions with girls in pickups on the streets, I bomb. I mean, she dont text...

www.girlschase.com

-M

 

[ocean_eyes]

There are at least 200 chats...

So, I was wondering if there is a way to reinitiate contact with them and if yes, how?

Not a bad idea tbh. Don't get wrapped up in it - send out some low-effort texts and don't expect any replies.

Here's the line straight from the article:

"Hey Karen, figured I'd drop you a line since we haven't connected in a few weeks. Just got back from the East Coast and starting to delve back into work again... ugh. Hope life's been treating you excellent... let me know what's new with you! - Chase"

Any girls that do reply - use your newfound game on them! Good luck

 

[Chase]

@Shawn,

Here's my solution for this:

Calls & Texts - Check-In Text If You Haven't Texted in a While

Sometimes you won't text a girl for a long time, either because you were genuinely busy and just forgot, or because you weren't getting anywhere with her and you figured you'd let her cool her heels for a few weeks or a month or two and get back to her later. What's the best way to resume...

www.skilledseducer.com

Chase

 

[West_Indian_Archie]

I was going through my past failures on my phone. I've hardly deleted any contact from over the years. There are at least 200 chats I've had on different platforms like Whatsapp, SMS, messenger, IG's DM etc. I went through a few of them and most of them were cringe. Although initially she was into me, I'd have fucked up due to bad texting mainly ending up in flaking on dates, ghosting and sometimes falling off the radar gradually etc. Now I know what exactly was the mistake I did in each of those interactions. I've never met anyone on apps. It's mostly through cold approach or warm approach from social circles, dancing etc. From memory, some of them were super into me in person. So, I was wondering if there is a way to reinitiate contact with them and if yes, how?

Level up your social media. (which means either leveling up your life for real, or changing your behavior to fake it until you make it)
Add them to social media, if you have not. (Those that you can't, I'd do the ping method)
And then do the normal respond to her comments/likes, and make comments/likes (just not cringe)

But personally, if you're outward game is that much better, I'd work on your inner game - cause you're chasing old leads...probably for reasons of ego, not because you need the notches.

Well all the time ya spend trying to get back what's been took from ya, more is going out the door