Hey, I used to be one of those guys who literally couldn't understand how day game could work better than night game or how I would do it, versus, banging chicks from clubs in NYC, Miami, Vegas when we were both drunk. [and it took me a while to get to that point in Night Game but living in Manhattan will do that for you if you're sociable.] I vastly prefer daygame now.
Most girls in the daytime I'd describe as low-key, not attention-getting [except perhaps their wardrobe] but they're not high energy. Chase makes good points about starting out as the nice, normal guy when starting their interaction - match their state. Use pings to sense their mood and receptiveness, flirtation and sense of humor. Also I believe strongly in providing instant value, first off I am the best dressed guy she will see all day. I'll compliment her outfit [not her looks] or if she has an artful tattoo showing, etc. I recommend all my post-up spots so even if we don't make a great connection there, we will if we run into each other there where all the staff has my back and compliments me.
I've told this story before, but my first daygame success I saw a gorgeous 5'11" runway model in Manhattan sitting on a park bench looking sad. I sat next to her on the bench and waited for her to adjust to my presence. 'Are you okay?' I asked.
She said she was fine but was upset from getting rejected all day for various photo shoots & fashion week walks even though she looks like Karlie Kloss. [She did walk for Zac Posen and Calvin Klein later]. I've got my bespoke suit and tie on, she's dressed fashionably, 21 yr so I'm much older than her. We started talking about books and we had a few authors in common, so I got her mood headed upwards and she was really shockingly smart, already graduated from an engineering school.
Then I dropped the classic go-to daytime move on a sunny day in NYC. "Let's get ice cream!" Her face totally lit up. She only ate a small cupful but *now* her state was 10x happier and I was getting the eye sparkles and I could start talking more passionately about things to spike her emotions. We exchanged numbers and I asked her out for drinks at the bar of a nice restaurant - letting her know I was serious about getting to know her and not just looking for a SDL. Two days later she showed up dressed to the 9s, we both drank gin, got a table for dinner, I walked her home & we made out on her steps. It took 3 dates until she invited me upstairs but was well worth it for that body and her love of anal - first girl I met who begged me to fuck her ass.
The last two hot 19yrs I picked up, one was in a park in August, and the one before that in a shitty old mall, ha. The latter one had on a white shirt that you could see her large underboob tattoo. She was by herself so I just started talking because she clearly wasn't doing anything at this mall like working and had no shopping bags. We ended up making out in my car and she was very forward about wanting to bang next time we met. 'Raquel' wanted all the dirty things she'd seen on the internet and had started doing in real life but was having problems finding college boys willing to be as rough as she liked. Problem solved. I don't know what her limits were but we never got near them.
The other I met in a different park was Asian, and if there's a group I do well with it's them, though I don't spend my time targeting them. They have to have a really pretty face or rocking body to get my attention. Wearing very little in August her petite 5'2" 95-100lb body got my attention, no bra, high firm tits, ZFG. She was very quiet but also very smart and after I got her to open up a little I asked if she had a boyfriend and she said no most of her college friends were idiots or too obviously vanilla.....I don't know when they started making these 19 yr olds but I'm not gonna complain. I told her I was into bondage and she said that was her fave along with spanking. Talking about kink is certainly a hook point.
I had earlier complimented her fashion sense as you could tell she took it seriously to look stylish, show off her body, but not wear Zama/H&M/etc like everyone else. In fact she ordered everything from Asia so it would actually fit her. Same as the prior girl she came right to a hotel when I texted her to meet. I think her only text msg was 'ok' then she was knocking on the door wearing very short skirt with lacy white underwear. Again, this girl clearly didn't know my age but could tell I was at least 20+ years older, your age should never be an issue. It was so easy I briefly wondered after her arrival if she was a pro, but no, just wanted a dominant older man to bang her brains out with no drama.
Getting to be able to pull Girl 1, during the day, took me several years of practice at night in tough cities & only then trying daygame. The next two were years after that to be able to do it on a consistent basis: with a girl who is interested in talking to a stranger & also looking for a fuckbuddy [none of these girls I dated] outside their social circle. Be ready to use the false time constraint, very easy when you're in a suit.
If you can warm up a stranger in the daytime, you're already going to be pre-selected by her for possible sex a big, big % of the time. Then it's just about closing. I've gotten SDLs also but for me that seems way more random. I'm also of the belief that, at least in daygame, it's easier to pull a 8-9 vs a 6-7. Bitch shields are way lower. I prefer going indirect/deniable in daytime unless I get an opening like she talks about bondage. You can still do kino except you have to go slower and start with the fingers, not like touching her things at a bar at night right away. And, yeah, you can still go in for the kiss even in broad daylight. A diff, artsy girl told me once she wasn't interested in meeting up after we exchanged numbers -- until I pulled in for the makeout on the way to her train station, right on the sidewalk.
I prefer going out alone if I do night game, I think it's much easier without a wing to worry about, if a girl asks what you're doing I say 'meeting people' and give her a big smile, and I think it's much easier to pull either a solo girl or the occasional girl from a duo/group. If you're talking to a duo and you're interested in one or both, it's easy to figure out relatively fast if either are interested in you and pursue 1 or both from there. As long as one chick isn't cockblocking, you can probably convince them to leave with you to another bar at a minimum then back to your place. I've pulled several strippers this way, just be the guy who takes them from 'work' to 'fun bar/casino' and then home. I've pulled duos to the strip club and then left with one of two. I've taken girls from the bar to the casino. Classic pua: go to as many venues as possible with them and they feel like they've known you forever. If the girl doesn't want to leave the group then get the number and eject is my advice, don't waste time.
Nightgame solo is only awkward if you're not confident in yourself and your value. If you're not, game is unlikely to save you. Fix your Inner Game first.
