How do you guys have fun?

[empath]

I have hard time just having fun.

Most of the time it feels like a waste of time. Though I enjoy it in the moment.

Also, there are not a lot of things I find fun.

I wonder how people just find working on something fun or watching a sports fun.


Or actively improving on things fun.


What am I missing?

I feel anything that is not moving me towards laying a girl is waste of time Or improving me career wise or building my body.

Other people find me fun because I worked on my sense of humour etc. but that’s a cultivated persona at most I guess.


Also, what is your philosophy on fun?
How do you make time for it etc

 

[jaythedon]

I can relate to a certain extent. I have to have a purpose for anything I do.
So even things like drinking with friends to get wasted, not my thing.

What I do enjoy is when I can have a fun for purpose.

For example, I want a classy girl -> I go to a high class venue ->I have fun -> It attracts good vibes -> I get a classy girl knows how to have fun.

I want to learn social skills - I go to the club and socialize - One of the concepts I know is if a group is having fun, I have to add more fun to get in - etc.

If I can rationalize having fun w/ a goal of mine, I can have fun.