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So basically bringing up the topic of sex is a no go I presume? Especially if you're not a super attractive guy?I think you need to read my posts again.
'Looking bored' is ONLY what I do when she says something impressive, like 'I'm an architect', so it doesn't become a case of me competing with her status. But it is subtle not insulting and I am still pushing forward.
I can't believe you asked me if I flirt. Its basically one big flirt from front to back. Like I said I use strong eye contact when talking about sensual things like nature, meditation etc. Probably way more than most guys ever do. If you're standing three feet from a girl, looking deep in her eyes with a slight smile and slightly dilated eyes, and telling her with a deep slow voice that meditating is possible anywhere, you better believe it's flirting.
Flirting is not what you say, it's your fundamentals (eye contact, voice, posture, bodily distance) while you are saying it. You could talk about anything vaguely pleasurable (daydreaming, eating, meditating, being surrounded by nature) and make it sexual just with a change in your voice. Remember that any interaction with a woman who's not your mom or sister is implicitly sexual, in that you might end up fucking her and in the back of her mind she knows this possibility. So you don't have to go overboard and get explicit. Strong eye contact is the basis, slow voice etc builds on it.
Think of some food or drink you really like. Now imagine you were a hostage somewhere and the only way you could escape was to get in front of a woman and communicate to her 'I want to fuck you' but you could not explicitly refer to sex or any sexual acts whatsoever. All you could talk about was your favorite food or drink, and use your fundamentals to help you get the message across.
How would you do it?
It didnt strike me flirting but I'm not the best I identifying that type of game. What about jokes and funny banter? Do you keep those to a minimum?