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Radio silence and flakiness boils down to, she is not invested enough, she lost investment, she lost interest, she is more invested in someone else.... This could even happen POST SEX..... Cause again as i explain in this other post after 1st time sex you got nothing.... Till you have fucked her a minimum of 3 times...

Now a lot of you ^ fuck this up if she no text you back in 2 seconds... Even me with my now main thought she was not interested cause she works in a hospital during covid when i was working her and did not respond to my texting as i am used to with other nurses.... I translated this to lack of interest so i lost interest...... so even at this point i fucked up with my not understanding that i need to give women TIME to text back....

Well guys i think this will be my last post on texting, unless i can think of something else.... ok so again if you follow my advise and do things correctly there should not be any radio silence cause you are doing the morning ping as i explain in this post.

So again here is how i would do things:

- wait enough time (though unless a weird case like she is in the medical field or some other type profession, a girl taking a lot of time with no justification is a bit of lack of investment)

- morning with sun emoji (low investment ping)

- Eyes emoji (super low investment ping)

^ for me that is all i do with radio silence, but most of the time i lost interest and go radio silence myself and just get other women which is most of the time... in some cases if they reply i bring up the point that we lost momentum (i love this line from popcorn) and then i tell them that if she loses interest that i personally lose interest myself, and that i don't want that to happen and go for hard close (this is actually how i got my main now)....


about flakiness... most of the time i have very low tolerance for flakes, and this should not happen with good game and good texting and soft closing, but if it happens, i punish this with withdrawal of attention and interest and go radio silence.... I know is considered bad game but that is how i personally handle this, they usually re-engage... But i rather focus on other women.... if you are not like me and you want to be more persistent i can see what the guy with pwf those:

- first he says is ok find out logistics and reschedule attempt 1
- second attempt, he finds out why she is flaking "what are you scare of or what is holding you back" once he finds the objection he addresses it....
- 3rd attempt he calls them out and say "i did not take you for being the flakey type"

^ all of the above is not what i do, i personally again do what is considers "bad game" and move on to other women, i personally have very low tolerance for flakes when they happen, since i actually make sure what i do for them not to flake is actually good texting/game so i don't really get flakes in the first place...
 

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Ok guys to add to this post there are 3 new pings as always the newest one I just learned from a girl that did it to my wing, I found it brilliant and the other 2 are from @DeepShadow :

- strong interaction and lay not there and you tell her NIGHT Game"text me when you get home to make sure you are ok" now if she didn't text you follow up ping:

"You didn't text me when you got home" now if are the humor trolling type I personally would see I am calling csi Miami or Csi whatever her city, to bring a humor element (csi is a popular crime TV show in usa).

Now from deepshadow 2 very super low inventory ping after 24 to 48 hours:

... or ? To be used more specifically after a hard close no response
 
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this is a decent video with pwf, context.- the dude with pwf has a main, don't care too much about new girls, comfortable with main, he goes for more of a dtf style or for testing for channel (i found going too much fuck boyish causes more resistance vs keeping it more ambiguous).... But anyways this is what i was talking about in the op HE DOES, i personally don't do memes, and i don't really do his style (i like too put more effort and be more smooth in the front end vs being persistent on the back end):


 
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