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so there’s this girl i’ve been hooking up with that i told i don’t want a girlfriend and she’s only come over to hook up and has never spent the night. but she invites herself over every single day. the more i say no the more she persists. and she texts me incessantly. i text her back maybe two or three times a day and she always responds in under five minutes. sometimes i’ll go back and forth a little. she often double texts too. needless to say she’s young, sexually inexperienced, and has never had a boyfriend. i know she’s lonely and wants a boyfriend but i told her that’s not me. i think she has the idea i don’t like labels. in actuality i wanna sleep with other people.
i don’t know what to do to push her away. because obviously if i directly do she’ll become more attracted. i could break it off but i like fucking her. so that’s a pretty shitty option. another idea is to become needy. but if i just start sending her needy texts and not wanting to see her she’ll probably just get sucked into the drama of it all and fall psychotically in love. i’m so fucking over chicks falling psychotically in love with me.
so what do i do? do i have to cut her loose. in the past i’d just ride it out. but then they either infiltrate my life or also go psycho. should i encourage her to see other people? i have no clue. i guess the problem is i don’t have any other fwb or fb. but i can’t solve that problem over night. the way tinder is going i should have that problem solved in a couple weeks. but i really don’t wanna have to deal with this shit that long. i really don’t know what to do.
i don’t know what to do to push her away. because obviously if i directly do she’ll become more attracted. i could break it off but i like fucking her. so that’s a pretty shitty option. another idea is to become needy. but if i just start sending her needy texts and not wanting to see her she’ll probably just get sucked into the drama of it all and fall psychotically in love. i’m so fucking over chicks falling psychotically in love with me.
so what do i do? do i have to cut her loose. in the past i’d just ride it out. but then they either infiltrate my life or also go psycho. should i encourage her to see other people? i have no clue. i guess the problem is i don’t have any other fwb or fb. but i can’t solve that problem over night. the way tinder is going i should have that problem solved in a couple weeks. but i really don’t wanna have to deal with this shit that long. i really don’t know what to do.